Elim Garak
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Is this really about to be recycled yet again?
Brehs with baby mamas claim brehs without kids are the real red flags
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Dameon Farrow
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Take so smart dumb it needs to be isolated and studied for the next decade by full time psychologists with no other assignments.
Thing is, a lot of females and dudes feel this way so he isn't spewing a new take he is just putting it online. You are literally supposed to have kids running around by 30 regardless of relationship status. Unspoken rule. And if you don't something is wrong with you.
I am so glad the newer generation is pushing back against these dangerous narratives and not just taking them at face value. A lot of dudes my age hate on it but I applaud these youngsters.
It's tough to admit you were fed a great deal of bs because it makes you question yourself. But if something is wrong(regardless of how well meaning its intention) then it's just wrong.
. Kids are financially and psychologically expensive. Have them on yourown time or don't have them. It's your life and not a single person putting pressure on you will give their life for yours when your number is up.
Thing is, a lot of females and dudes feel this way so he isn't spewing a new take he is just putting it online. You are literally supposed to have kids running around by 30 regardless of relationship status. Unspoken rule. And if you don't something is wrong with you.
I am so glad the newer generation is pushing back against these dangerous narratives and not just taking them at face value. A lot of dudes my age hate on it but I applaud these youngsters.
It's tough to admit you were fed a great deal of bs because it makes you question yourself. But if something is wrong(regardless of how well meaning its intention) then it's just wrong.
. Kids are financially and psychologically expensive. Have them on yourown time or don't have them. It's your life and not a single person putting pressure on you will give their life for yours when your number is up.
O.T.I.S.
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Trying to choose wisely and not be a deadbeat would be a red flag to a deadbeat 
Maybe, some of us didn’t want to bring children into the world without their shyt together, a stable partner, or if they knew it was going to bring additional issues to their situations.
I moved a lot, that was my main reason. And every chick I thought about doing children with, showed me something that made me change my mind just in time. Same with marriage. I don’t believe in love over here in the US.. I honestly don’t believe it exists. So if that person doesn’t love me and vice versa, why the fukk would I bring children into that situation? For fun? Because I’m lonely/bored?
Some people CAN’T have children through no fault of their own as well. Some people know that children, in this era, are used for money and control. Some actually didn’t want to bring children into this bullshyt to deal with the idiotic children you are going to half-ass raise, if you raise them at all.
The list is long on why children are important and choosing your partner WISELY is more important for everyone. Both men and women
Maybe, some of us didn’t want to bring children into the world without their shyt together, a stable partner, or if they knew it was going to bring additional issues to their situations.
I moved a lot, that was my main reason. And every chick I thought about doing children with, showed me something that made me change my mind just in time. Same with marriage. I don’t believe in love over here in the US.. I honestly don’t believe it exists. So if that person doesn’t love me and vice versa, why the fukk would I bring children into that situation? For fun? Because I’m lonely/bored?
Some people CAN’T have children through no fault of their own as well. Some people know that children, in this era, are used for money and control. Some actually didn’t want to bring children into this bullshyt to deal with the idiotic children you are going to half-ass raise, if you raise them at all.
The list is long on why children are important and choosing your partner WISELY is more important for everyone. Both men and women
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The CIA doesn’t currently give a fukk about single moms raising black children …gotta say, the C.I.A is hoopin right now
Biggest threat to the nation currently is white nationalism and economic competition with China. CIA is focused on China still. FBI got diverted from their focus on the fact nationalists
Ain’t no CIA agents cheering for this. The mission was already accomplished during the civil rights era and after. That boat has sailed. Generations ago.
OGBobbyJohnson
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pandering for them hoes
Dallas' 4 Eva
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I don't know about the kids, but they say that a woman who isn't married or at least been proposed to by the time she is 30 is a huge red flag(in some ways it is). If you haven't heard that one you have been living under a rock or you don't have any friends who are men.
Cat piss martini
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I chose Money, Peace and Freedom
over a Wife and Children.
Aint nobody gonna love or take care
of me better than me.
over a Wife and Children.
Aint nobody gonna love or take care
of me better than me.
I’m younger than most of y’all and I don’t think that applies for 30 year olds in 2025. I could maybe see that being true in the 80s or 90s.
Dallas' 4 Eva
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I'm 36. There isn't that much of an age gap between us. There isn't any way you haven't heard that, unless you are living under a rock or have no male friends or male relationships what so ever. Like I said not having kids by a certain age I haven't heard that, hearing 'there is a reason she made it to 30+ without marriage or a proposal' is a very common thing to hear.
O.T.I.S.
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With the amount of shyt people that have been married or are currently married, this doesn’t mean much to me anymore.
That and marriage being a complete joke/scam over here now.
Same with kids
fifth column
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If you don’t want kids that’s your choice but i see red flags if you are 30+, to me you are kind of a waste man. Grow up already and make a contribution to humanity. I don’t care if you aren’t “set” or whatever that means, give the youths a try at this thing called life.
All I think about men with a bunch of kids with different women mean they fuk a lot and furtile asf and can potentially lack discipline....also they lucky kids is all they got and not STDs.
Now not having kids by a certain age could mean u lack fertility, haven't found right woman yet, don't want kids, have them but unaware u left a seed somewhere or possibly heterosexually challenged.
Now not having kids by a certain age could mean u lack fertility, haven't found right woman yet, don't want kids, have them but unaware u left a seed somewhere or possibly heterosexually challenged.
LiveFromLondon
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Nah they won alreadygotta say, the C.I.A is hoopin right now
Yall have way too many rules and regulations to discount people. "Both sides" are partially right here. Most people SHOULD get MARRIED and have children. Its your duty to humanity. The agenda to kill marriage and creat population decline seems to be working well as everyone wants to Peter Pan ariund Disneyland until theyre 75. Cant maintain society wuth everyone on an island stuck in arrested development.
Dallas' 4 Eva
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People come for my head when I say that too many people are stuck in perpetual childhood not wanting to get married or have kids. Find every excuse in the world to not grow up.