Brehs with baby mamas claim brehs without kids are the real red flags

[Collateral]

fukk them kids

 

[Methodical]

Whoever with kids said it's a red flag sounds like they regretted having kids.

 

[Commish]

A man or women being childless is a red for who?? Ppl with kids??? FOH! Smh

Thing is...

If a childless adult is a red , then don't deal with them! I am sure a childless adult isn't gonna miss taking care of another person's children!

I briefly listened to dude, but he was making baseless assumptions about ppl who have exercized their right to make choices and decisions that best suits them.

Also, some ppl have certain beliefs and lifestyle choices. Some ppl want to get married before starting a family. Some ppl don't want to have multiple children with multiple ppl. Some ppl want to sew their wild oats before settling down.

But, to keep it official, seems like some single parents don't have a problem wagging fingers and judging ppl w/o kids, but let ppl w/o kids judge single parents and their lifestyle choices, then all hell will break loose!

I think that maybe dude is jealous of men who are childless and wish he could have the same liberties as them, but can't. Don't know his financial situation, but if he is getting his pockets ran from paying child support, then his "opinion" kind of makes sense. Maybe I would feel a certain way about things too if I was in that situation..

 

[High Art]

Shorty was looking at them bozos crazy

As she should. Those dudes literally sounded mentally-deficient as fukk too.

If this is who the dating field is filled with, I understand how some women would say "these men ain't shyt out here". Like damn, what did I just watch?

 

[Windows 91]

Gang of Kids/BMs No Kids

 

[O.Red]

Black folks obsession with discussing relationship dynamics slop

0 clicks

 

[O.Red]

gotta say, the C.I.A is hoopin right now

CIA dancing in the end zone like a Fortnite character

 

[King Poetic]

A man or women being childless is a red for who?? Ppl with kids??? FOH! Smh

Thing is...

If a childless adult is a red , then don't deal with them! I am sure a childless adult isn't gonna miss taking care of another person's children!

I briefly listened to dude, but he was making baseless assumptions about ppl who have exercized their right to make choices and decisions that best suits them.

Also, some ppl have certain beliefs and lifestyle choices. Some ppl want to get married before starting a family. Some ppl don't want to have multiple children with multiple ppl. Some ppl want to sew their wild oats before settling down.

But, to keep it official, seems like some single parents don't have a problem wagging fingers and judging ppl w/o kids, but let ppl w/o kids judge single parents and their lifestyle choices, then all hell will break loose!

I think that maybe dude is jealous of men who are childless and wish he could have the same liberties as them, but can't. Don't know his financial situation, but if he is getting his pockets ran from paying child support, then his "opinion" kind of makes sense. Maybe I would feel a certain way about things too if I was in that situation..

Agree

What kills me as a older man with no kids, it’s always the women and men who never been married and has kids and always bytchin about the baby daddy and baby mama tell u , “ you need some kids in your life”

The brothers and sisters who are married be like “ make sure u pick the right person or you know kids are expensive “ and i take their advice

 

[Gloxina]

Black folks obsession with discussing relationship dynamics slop

0 clicks

CIA dancing in the end zone like a Fortnite character

 

[AAKing23]

nikka said what have you been doing the last 20 years

20 years ago I was a kid

15 years ago I was in highschool

10 years ago I was in college

5 to 6 years ago I got my first entry level IT job

Now I'm finally in position to have kids but I don't want em

 

[Address_Unknown]

Well there you have it folks. We've now entered Baby Daddy Babble territory.​

 

[MajesticLion]

Are these men trying to date childless men?

You'd swear their dating pool is threatened somehow, right?

 

[Taharqa]

31 married with no kids and have no plans to have any

 

[Shadow]

He's projecting. See how he hung his head when the chick started talking.

 

[The Burger King]

These types always kill me. “What were you doing the last 20 years” I don’t know, maybe going to college, pursuing a career, traveling, planning my future financially. Some of these guys act like your entire life is supposed to revolve around getting ass.