Brehs with kids, how do y'all do it?

[Jparker]

The only way I'm having kids is if I make enough money to afford a full time nanny. I don't have time for that shyt

Have a paid stranger raise your kid brehs.

 

[bl2k8]

1. You sound and come across as a young breh who is still selfish.

2. It takes a REAL MAN to raise a child or children.

3. When you are in a marriage where both individuals are MATURE and have moved past the stage where they believe the world revolves around them you’ll gain a new perspective on life.

4. It’s amazing to me how so many people say they don’t want kids but don’t hesitate to have butt booty naked sex.

5. Whenever you have sex the possibility of pregnancy exists unless the woman no longer has a uterus or the man is sterile.

6. Both my wife and I have good jobs and make good money. Our schedules coincide so we don’t need daycare and our child gets to stay at home.

We never considered daycare because anytime you put your child into the hands of a stranger no matter how highly rated that daycare, friend, etc is you put your child at risk, especially if they are unable to talk yet to explain if they are being abused.

7. Like I said from jump, being a father is one of the ultimate tests of manhood. So all the immature brehs who can’t fathom being a dad it’s cool LET THE REAL MEAN WHO AREN’T COWARDS AND CAN HANDLE TAKING CARE AFTER IMPREGNATING A WOMAN HOLD THE CROWN

Let this thread be a word of wisdom to the brehetts who are opening your legs for a breh who has a slick mouth piece but in reality he’s a chump cause after laying down to slang dikk he can’t get back up and handle real responsibilities if you get pregnant.

Y’all wonder why we have so many single parent fatherless homes. Females get duped after getting they backs blown out then want us real men to be the father figures the coward nakka they laid with won’t be.

It’s selfish to not have kids if you’re not ready to provide fully for them

 

[Lamar Givens]

It’s selfish to not have kids if you’re not ready to provide fully for them

You missed the entire premise

 

[L@CaT]

Work be kicking my ass and the only thing I wanna do when I come home is smoke a joint and go to sleep.

To think that y'all will be working hard all day then come home to some goofy lil nikka that looks like you screaming and whining about bullshyt.

I swear I would punch him in his chest as soon as I got home. How do y'all do it?

I 100% feel like this as well. I’m 38, make 6 figures, no children, and after work I am exhausted. All I want to do is smoke a bowl, eat some food and play some video games. I can’t imagine having to come home from work and essentially work some more taking care of some damn kids.

fukk all that. The thing is, I like kids. But not enough to have them just to have them.

Most people don’t put that much thought into having kids. They just do it. For myself, although I feel I am a good person, that doesn’t guarantee I will be a great father. You can still be a great person and raise shytty children. I’m just not confident in my ability to raise amazing productive children.

Outside of the cost, raising a child is a full time job. So you telling me you working 40-50 a week and have to come home and work some more? You are essentially working 24 hours a day when you have kids. fukk all that. I’m already exhausted just thinking about it.

At the end of day most people have children because it brings meaning and purpose to their lives. If you can find purpose in your life without children, more power to you. Children are not needed to live a happy and meaningful life - although society tries to brainwash you in thinking you do.

 

[Da_Eggman]

I rather be the fun uncle

Come chill with my nephew play games shoot hoops than when he start crying acting crazy I'm just like

 

[Super Future Luther King Jr.]

1 - The thing is, I like kids. But not enough to have them just to have them.

Nah breh, the thing is....you don't know what it's like to LOVE your own seed, your reflection of you. An opportunity to show them the ways of life the right way, the way you might have never been taught. You're literally molding and shaping a human being into a grown person and that is the most rewarding thing I can think of in life. Money cool, I've made very good money since 2011. But family, your own family. It's different breh. It's more than "thinking kids are cute"

2 - For myself, although I feel I am a good person, that doesn’t guarantee I will be a great father. You can still be a great person and raise shytty children. I’m just not confident in my ability to raise amazing productive children.

Now that's some real shyt and I respect it. Not EVERYBODY is meant to have children, I beleive this, everything ain't for everybody

2 - Children are not needed to live a happy and meaningful life

Yes and No imo. It's my family tree breh. My legacy. My family to spend holidays with when I'm an old wack 60 year old man lol. Taking the grandkids out to play at the park. I look forward to that. Not the material things in the world. That'll be old news by then. But I couldn't imagine growing old with no mini me to follow. It seems very lonely and isolating. And I enjoy people and family and friends and life. My daughter has helped me become the man I am today. She's the biggest blessing

All love breh, just my thoughts

 

[So-Chi]

Couple things... Having kids is very rewarding, but if you wait to be ready you never will. You don't know what they cost into you are in it, but it's very doable if you aren't selfish also, they will make your fukking DAY when they do something that is completely YOU. Like my daughter clowns her big brother (she's 5 he's 8)with EASE and I know that's my personality it's definitely worth it

 

[Weaver31]

That's why you gotta mentally prepare yourself for children, which sadly not enough of us do beforehand.

Its crazy how people have kids and not be financially, mentally and emotionally unprepared.

 

[nkb97]

I feel like I barely have enough free time now, I couldn’t imagine having to go to school functions, sports practices, etc at this stage in my life while I’m still trying to develop myself.

My thoughts exactly, i couldn't imagine having kids right now, i'll be 21 in a few months. That's still young as hell, so much more life experience to be had.....