Brehs with Young Daughters and Sisters

[maxamusa]

Hey I don’t need to be convinced. Care to elaborate for your Coli brehs?

I've been with both older and younger women. There's differences. Biologically. I'm not even going to go into the mental part. libido, energy, and hobbies change with age.

plus nothing beats experiencing something NEW for the both of you. if you're the same age there is more of a chance of that happening. And the social circles SUCK if there is a big age difference. If your girl is +10 or -10 years that means you'll be kicking it in her circle and all the boyfriends and husbands will most likely be in that age range 2.

fukk that shyt.


it just complicates things for no reason really.

 

[V Skyye]

@Gloxina inching closer and closer to emptying the whole clip.

 

[Gloxina]

@Gloxina inching closer and closer to emptying the whole clip.

You feel me tho?

I'm trying not to push that button but the more I think about this shyt and look at the men in my family/circle as compared to the community at large……..

I don’t know if it’s just a MASSIVE CASE OF COGNITIVE DISSONANCE, but it seems like ppl really don’t want to acknowledge the fact that everyone is complaining about Black woken playing the game too long in relation to other women, but Black men play the game longer than men of other races as well (again- citing men in this thread).

People crack jokes about women wanting to be married by 29/30, but men of other races are proposing around that age themselves.

The catch is, because men technically can play the game longer, even if Black men aren’t moving at the pace of men of other races, they can still do what they want as they get older. Black women can’t do that because of our biological clock.

So if brehs are “playing” in their late 20s/30s, I guess the women who are still single in that age range literally have to just go older or go outside the race if brehs in our age range want to play the field.
But most of us aren’t trying to go way older, like women of other races.

 

[V Skyye]

You feel me tho?

I'm trying not to push that button but the more I think about this shyt and look at the men in my family/circle as compared to the community at large……..

Of course I do. Because I live in the real world. And they do too. You have to think about why there’s such a large movement to devalue women in the Black community. It’s mostly economics because how can you ever demand anything from me when you’re BLACK, over 30, over a size 6, had sex with more than 2 people, whatever and so forth. Only unicorn women deserve a “high value” man making more than $50k per year whos fat, bald, and over the age of 50. They want to lower your value so you feel you have to take anything you can get. It’s so nice to see young women not falling for the bs.

They should be asking themselves why they need 20 years to become husband material.

 

[Gloxina]

Of course I do. Because I live in the real world. And they do too. You have to think about why there’s such a large movement to devalue women in the Black community. It’s mostly economics because how can you ever demand anything from me when you’re BLACK, over 30, over a size 6, had sex with more than 2 people, whatever and so forth. Only unicorn women deserve a “high value” man making more than $50k per year whos fat, bald, and over the age of 50. They want to lower your value so you feel you have to take anything you can get. It’s so nice to see young women not falling for the bs.

They should be asking themselves why they need 20 years to become husband material.

I took a detour but you landed the plane

 

[V Skyye]

I took a detour but you landed the plane

Men can choose a wife at any time. If they are over 40, not in a really demanding field (doctor, etc) and not making more than 125k-150k you dealing with a geriatric fukk boy. Keep it moving and find someone your age range who has the same values. Even if they are still starting in their career. If not all you getting is baggage and bad habits.

 

[Ryda52]

Hey no cap, the women in my family, while in high school, wouldn’t even date nikkas that were more than a few years older than them, let alone grown ass nikkas in they twenties and older, even though a lot of girls in high school was doing it. They knew not to try they daddies like that. It’ll look something like this.

 

[NO-BadAzz]

Men can choose a wife at any time. If they are over 40, not in a really demanding field (doctor, etc) and not making more than 125k-150k you dealing with a geriatric fukk boy. Keep it moving and find someone your age range who has the same values. Even if they are still starting in their career. If not all you getting is baggage and bad habits.

Men can choose a woman that's rude, and don't listen, selfish? Are you around women in their 20s or are you just posting to be posting?

Women in their 20s are not nice people.y boy.

Men don't want rude, selfish, lazy, entitled etc women Breh.

A man will be single until he's dead in 2023 before he jumps in a marriage with a woman like that.

This is why marriages are not happening.

Do you talk to women in their 20s and here the shyt they talk about or try and represent?
Many of them don't respect the men in their own age Bracket

They have been told by folks like you, that they can have it all and they don't have to be what the men they want want

Breh, men are not accepting fukked up women as wives. The most, would happen, men are running through them and when they get tired of that, they are marrying white women or other groups of women

 

[Mac Ten]

Hell nah...
Hes gonna end up breaking her heart and Im gonna have to stomp him out until he needs crutches.

4 to 5 year age range for me. Anything older than that, nah.

 

[Gloxina]

And thats whats crazy. Black men enact this scheme and then complain that the women of their community have to many bodies or too many kids. Black men want black women to regulate black men behavior and at the same time want black women to 'let them lead'. Its a circular direct contradiction. Black women have been letting black men lead for decades, hence the state of the black community. Its a rigged game thats setup so black women will never win it.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

It depends what she's looking for in a mate

If she wants someone her age, then she should be prepared to go half on that extra value meal at McDonalds

If she's like most women and expect a man to wine and dine her, then she gonna have to fukk with one of these nikkas

 

[skyrunner1]

Men can choose a woman that's rude, and don't listen, selfish? Are you around women in their 20s or are you just posting to be posting?

Women in their 20s are not nice people.y boy.

Men don't want rude, selfish, lazy, entitled etc women Breh.

A man will be single until he's dead in 2023 before he jumps in a marriage with a woman like that.

This is why marriages are not happening.

Do you talk to women in their 20s and here the shyt they talk about or try and represent?
Many of them don't respect the men in their own age Bracket

They have been told by folks like you, that they can have it all and they don't have to be what the men they want want

Breh, men are not accepting fukked up women as wives. The most, would happen, men are running through them and when they get tired of that, they are marrying white women or other groups of women

Just was chopping it up with a couple women in there 20s, they all verbally said they have no interest in getting married young.. "A nikka cant do nothing for me" one said, lol.. These are young women who graduated just before covid, couple nurses and rest work in medical field.. They traveling, having fun. I honestly just dont think both parties are stressed about it in their young age.. Even if they pop kids out, they not worried about marriage.

I think there is a disconnect between online and real life (though getting much smaller) and age difference (these seem like millennials or left over people complaining on both sides and Gen Z just living life, chillin)

 

[Gloxina]

Just was chopping it up with a couple women in there 20s, they all verbally said they have no interest in getting married young.. "A nikka cant do nothing for me" one said, lol.. These are young women who graduated just before covid, couple nurses and rest work in medical field.. They traveling, having fun. I honestly just dont think both parties are stressed about it in their young age.. Even if they pop kids out, they not worried about marriage.

I think there is a disconnect between online and real life (though getting much smaller) and age difference (these seem like millennials or left over people complaining on both sides and Gen Z just living life, chillin)

Yea. I think a lot of people grew up in situations where they maybe didn’t see healthy marriages so they just don’t know how to find the right type of person and don’t know how to maintain it when they find a healthy partner. So it’s easier to just not try.

Doesn’t bode well for the community moving forward, but yea….I think there’s a lot of trauma that needs to be addressed

 

[skyrunner1]

Yea. I think a lot of people grew up in situations where they maybe didn’t see healthy marriages so they just don’t know how to find the right type of person and don’t know how to maintain it when they find a healthy partner. So it’s easier to just not try.

Doesn’t bode well for the community moving forward, but yea….I think there’s a lot of trauma that needs to be addressed

Also the whole "only gawd can judge me", "devil may care", rebel without a cause attitude that seems to be the default setting for an entire generation or two is putting many in mental torture rack.. You cant save everyone and that seems to have many tryna do gymnastics which will only lead to self sacrifice..

Good luck out there..

 

[NO-BadAzz]

They are marrying other groups of women and those marriages are failing at a higher rate than when married to black women. It all comes back to you.

Do you have the % of this? The fact of the matter is, these dudes are stepping out, let's go with what you're saying, let's say that this is the case, at an alarming rate, these men are still marrying outside of their race.

Only 1 out of 4 black women will get married. So if what you say is true, that the marriages are failing, these men are re-marrying outside of their race or staying away from black women.