bro-in-law swung on me for cheating on his sister...

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Yeah that was a fukk up, dont know if he told the wife or not. Hopefully that's "all" it has been and nothing more.:francis:

why would i tell my wife? why would i cause her more pain?....what she doesn't know will not hurt her....

The only reason me and my ex messed around that night is because my wife was sick and it had been a week of no sex...ex caught me when i was horny and what happened happened..not making any excuses for what i did just being honest.
 

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Because he's an ass hole and sounds like he thinks he is above women (I think he actually said that he is once).

"She won't leave me, I make all of the money. My house my rules. I run things. She isn't going anyway. She will accept it. I don't tolerate disrespect from women." & other stuff like that. Check his post history.

#1. I do make all the money
#2. I am the man and thus I am the head of the marriage (check your bibles)
#3. she is well taken care of and so is my ex
#4. i love my wife and pamper her often, she hasn't stayed for no reason, she is treated well.

Most of you black females have this independent mentality that leaves you single and lonely in the end...your quick to get mad at a sista who is willing to fight for her marriage instead of leave like a coward....all my wifes cousins have left their husbands and are now envious of my wife because she's riding out the storm..My wife is an amazing woman and im greatful to have her.
 

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#1. I do make all the money
#2. I am the man and thus I am the head of the marriage (check your bibles)
#3. she is well taken care of and so is my ex
#4. i love my wife and pamper her often, she hasn't stayed for no reason, she is treated well.

Most of you black females have this independent mentality that leaves you single and lonely in the end...your quick to get mad at a sista who is willing to fight for her marriage instead of leave like a coward....all my wifes cousins have left their husbands and are now envious of my wife because she's riding out the storm..My wife is an amazing woman and im greatful to have her.
I can't find the post right now, but I do remember you saying that if your wife cheated on you, you would leave her. So I guess you're admitting to being a coward. The person who fcks up is the one who is supposed to the fighting, not the other way around.

Also, you are the coward for cheating. I'm pretty sure no one is jealous of her living with her cheating husband and the woman he cheated with and got pregnant. You wish they were jealous because it makes you feel better, which is pretty pathetic.

Being self sufficient doesn't leave anyone single and lonely. Everyone should be self sufficient, epecially women, so that they won't end up like your wife. Unable to leave her cheating husband and the woman he cheats with and the side baby because she has no money of her own and probably low self esteem.

Maybe you should look up a different word to use because independent is not it. No one should be completely dependent on anyone because then, they'll always be at the mercy of the one who they're dependent on. There is nothing wrong with knowing how/being able to support yourself (the definitoin of being independent), and accepting support from others sometimes, no matter what a persons gender is.
 

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Because he's an ass hole and sounds like he thinks he is above women (I think he actually said that he is once).

"She won't leave me, I make all of the money. My house my rules. I run things. She isn't going anyway. She will accept it. I don't tolerate disrespect from women." & other stuff like that. Check his post history.
But his wife and ex are with it. So if it's OK with them why's it a problem for you? :dahell:

I could understand if, and regularly get at dudes who get zero play from women and blame feminism or w/e.

But dude has a vision for his family and is actually executing on it. We can argue about the impact it has on the kids or w/e, but these are grown ass women free to make up their own minds. So I don't see what the issue is with the adults. And truthfully I would rather his with his ex kids grow up with him like this, than with a stepdad or limited involvement from him period.

Besides, he only sucked his ex's titties once :lolbron: :dead:
 

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I can't find the post right now, but I do remember you saying that if your wife cheated on you, you would leave her. So I guess you're admitting to being a coward. The person who fcks up is the one who is supposed to the fighting, not the other way around.

Also, you are the coward for cheating. I'm pretty sure no one is jealous of her living with her cheating husband and the woman he cheated with and got pregnant. You wish they were jealous because it makes you feel better, which is pretty pathetic.

Being self sufficient doesn't leave anyone single and lonely. Everyone should be self sufficient, epecially women, so that they won't end up like your wife. Unable to leave her cheating husband and the woman he cheats with and the side baby because she has no money of her own and probably low self esteem.

Maybe you should look up a different word to use because independent is not it. No one should be completely dependent on anyone because then, they'll always be at the mercy of the one who they're dependent on. There is nothing wrong with knowing how/being able to support yourself (the definitoin of being independent), and accepting support from others sometimes, no matter what a persons gender is.

Back in the 50's and 60's most women were housewives and dependant on their husbands income, guess what, the divorce rate was 10 times lower than it is now, homes were solid and divorce was frowned upon...women of today don't know what they want which is why when you run into a strong man like myself, you can't help but desire to be with me.........it's natural for women to be submissive and my wife understands that which is why she's rarely stressed...It's my job as the husband to control and dictate...all the men I know who are like me, their marriages are solid...it's the weak nikkas that end up getting cheated on and left for men like me...




















:myman: it is what it is
 

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But his wife and ex are with it. So if it's OK with them why's it a problem for you? :dahell:

I could understand if, and regularly get at dudes who get zero play from women and blame feminism or w/e.

But dude has a vision for his family and is actually executing on it. We can argue about the impact it has on the kids or w/e, but these are grown ass women free to make up their own minds. So I don't see what the issue is with the adults. And truthfully I would rather his with his ex kids grow up with him like this, than with a stepdad or limited involvement from him period.

Besides, he only sucked his ex's titties once :lolbron: :dead:

deep down inside, she's envious of my wife...she won't ever admit it but it's the truth
 

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Don't forget lying ass op cheated on his wife with a co-worker not two months ago

I know me and a few other posters ain't the only ones remembering these blatant lies

And he stay getting numerous replies out of this. Studying from Malcolmxxx's book

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