i understand that. but telling dude "all this over a phone?" does more harm than good cause you're marginalizing the way he feels about it all. it's like you,re not even trying to understand why it's not about the phone. I agree with having communication. i agree with sitting down and settling issues (especially when a child is involved). but i disagree with showing her the phone.I am just trying to let op see that he is potentially breaking up his family over something that cam easily be resolved. And to not be so haste in his decision.![]()
a lot of poster's attitude in this thread is "you stupid fukk, just show her your phone". that's not a solution. that's what i'm trying to point out to you guys.

You don't recall something from 2-3 years ago, yet you're the one who brought up something from 2-3 years ago, anyone reading this post and then going back to see that you bringing up details can tell you're full of shyt.
didn't you just tell me you know what I look like, and you could mess with me through family?

if true you lost breh