Brokenhearted Lurker need advice

[hEAVY]

Thanks to everyone who gave their opinions on the matter.
I'm going to start the process for separation and for me not to follow through with it change has to come from her own willingness.
Done talking, tired of trying.
the puzzle got too big for one person.

 

[25YOUTHS!!]

Like you said, she probably takes you for granted.
Let her know straight up how you feel etc. regardless of how she reacts. If she's not complying, do what you gotta do breh.
Just don't be the dumb mf that takes her back after the wolves had their fill.

 

[Arianne Martell]

You supported her financiallly throughout the marriage and you have a child....it's cheaper to keep her



Unless 1. You are ok with paying alimony and child support or 2. You catch her cheating with evidence and depending where you live...you may only pay for child support



In any case, fight for your marriage, seek counseling, communicate better, make a plan together etc. @hEAVY

 

[ModestMo]

Thanks to everyone who gave their opinions on the matter.
I'm going to start the process for separation and for me not to follow through with it change has to come from her own willingness.
Done talking, tired of trying.
the puzzle got too big for one person.

I feel like you're making the right decision. I hope all goes well for you.

 

[The Mad Titan]

You supported her financiallly throughout the marriage and you have a child....it's cheaper to keep her



Unless 1. You are ok with paying alimony and child support or 2. You catch her cheating with evidence and depending where you live...you may only pay for child support



In any case, fight for your marriage, seek counseling, communicate better, make a plan together etc. @hEAVY

Facts

Only thing you gonna get out this is freedom of mind to sleep around. Unless she is making you miserable in the relationship right now.


Otherwise you got years of headache and MASSIVE bills to make sure they living good.

Get a marriage Counselor and work it out...if that's and option

 

[Docaveli]

Thanks to everyone who gave their opinions on the matter.
I'm going to start the process for separation and for me not to follow through with it change has to come from her own willingness.
Done talking, tired of trying.
the puzzle got too big for one person.

Once again as I always tell you all, whatever u don't take care of in front will get u in the back

You have a weakness, and until u take care of it u might as well stay with ur wife and deal with ur choices or u gun keep coming back to the same circle

It's not perculiar to u alone, I will say probably 9 out of every 10 men have the same problem

We are so desperate for female attention that we will crown anyone that give us the time of the day. The desperation is there because we haven't taken care of our business thru knowledge, finances, and health

For the young guys, always put urself in a position for women to come to u

Your education, money, car, a place to stay should be solid, then u set ur traps and let them come to u

Let the women tell u there qualifications and try as best to secure ur bag
It's a win win, bytches will fukk a junkie if that's all she can get at the moment so if u take care of

those things I mentioned u will have an abundance of bytches u fukking steady which gives u the time to carefully set ur own rules

If u don't take care of those things upfront, u will be just like this guy, and as u see it will get u on the backend

 

[Professor Mac]

25
I think I just solidified a decision on how to go about this

That makes the whole post comical


Man get rid of that girl and move the fukk on.. 6 months all of these problems will seem like a distant memory ..and if you still feel some sorta way about her after being separated for 6 months than just give it another shot

 

[GhostMan]

She doesn't respect you. Take this from someone who has experienced something similar to you. However, we weren't married and had no kids, but I stayed with her for a very long time. Men like us were born in the wrong decade. Women, for the most part these days, take men like us for granted and dont appreciate when we pay all the bills and do everything. Independent women are more of a fit for us. I would suggest for you to slowly stack a secret account and plan to leave.

 

[JahBuhLun]

25
I think I just solidified a decision on how to go about this

Maannn, if you don't sit you're too young to be married ass down. You and your wife sound like spoiled brats, you wanted to marry someone who's going to mother you, and she wanted a father figure.

 

[MikelArteta]

GMB

Once you don't check your woman after to long she loses respect for you and to gain that back it takes a whilez sometimes it's not even possible

Dude needs to sit down with his wife and tell her everything he told us, and then seek outside council and if that doesn't work get out while you can

@kevm3 @Supreme Leader Reinscarf @BmoreGorilla

 

[MikelArteta]

Women will respect more a guy who doesn't pay a cent and comes around once a week for a quickie than a guy who pays everything and gives here everything she wants

She doesn't respect you. Take this from someone who has experienced something similar to you. However, we weren't married and had no kids, but I stayed with her for a very long time. Men like us were born in the wrong decade. Women, for the most part these days, take men like us for granted and dont appreciate when we pay all the bills and do everything. Independent women are more of a fit for us. I would suggest for you to slowly stack a secret account and plan to leave.

 

[MikelArteta]

Women will respect more a guy who doesn't pay a cent and comes around once a week for a quickie than a guy who pays everything and gives here everything she wants

She doesn't respect you. Take this from someone who has experienced something similar to you. However, we weren't married and had no kids, but I stayed with her for a very long time. Men like us were born in the wrong decade. Women, for the most part these days, take men like us for granted and dont appreciate when we pay all the bills and do everything. Independent women are more of a fit for us. I would suggest for you to slowly stack a secret account and plan to leave.

 

[International Playa]

25
I think I just solidified a decision on how to go about this

You young breh, I think you settled down too early, you didnt get a chance to enjoy dating different types of women.

 

[hEAVY]

Maannn, if you don't sit you're too young to be married ass down. You and your wife sound like spoiled brats, you wanted to marry someone who's going to mother you, and she wanted a father figure.

Never too young to have your shyt together.
Self made.
No handouts.
Blood sweat and tears got me where I am today.other then getting married early I don't regret a thing 25 years and I stand on my own 2 sturdier then most and proudly at that.

 

[hEAVY]

She doesn't respect you. Take this from someone who has experienced something similar to you. However, we weren't married and had no kids, but I stayed with her for a very long time. Men like us were born in the wrong decade. Women, for the most part these days, take men like us for granted and dont appreciate when we pay all the bills and do everything. Independent women are more of a fit for us. I would suggest for you to slowly stack a secret account and plan to leave.

I believe this very thing except I also believe that there are comparable woman with similar mindframes.
I just settled too early and matured
I see things in a different light now.
Moving forward I think I'm making the right choice.
Whatever the financial setback may be that's the least of my worries. Money is easy.
Maintaining happiness is my struggle
Damn that's upsetting to say