Brokenhearted Lurker need advice

[Diondon]

1. I think it's self defeating to not be prepared for the probable end of a relationship.
2. People grow. The person you're with at 20 may not the right person for you at 30.
3. Getting married young is lunacy.

I've seen similar scenarios play out before. It doesn't end well. Not on no #GMB shyt which I don't rep by the way.

 

[JahBuhLun]

Never too young to have your shyt together.
Self made.
No handouts.
Blood sweat and tears got me where I am today.other then getting married early I don't regret a thing 25 years and I stand on my own 2 sturdier then most and proudly at that.

Problem is, your main problem is the fact that you got married too young, All the other shyt is cool, but you're on here talking about ending your marriage..So you have everything together except the thing that going to tear all that shyt down. All that chest pumping you're doing about blood, sweat and tears, and being self made etc... apply that same shyt to your marriage so you wont be on here belly aching about it....

 

[Tom Foolery]

What's her family like? Can you use them to control her?

 

[JahBuhLun]

What's her family like? Can you use them to control her?

How are going to control someone who never respected you from jump, if she's seen all the "blood, sweat and tears" he has put in to being the man she sees today and doesn't respect the effort, then she never will. Her family was probably happy to dump her off on to somebody else. Let her husband deal with that headache. Seen that shyt happen too many times.

 

[5n0man]

25
I think I just solidified a decision on how to go about this

You gonna end up wasting your youth fukking with this girl. Your 25, you could be out finding yourself and someone who's a match for you.

The question is, do you wanna end it now while your still young and can easily find someone new? Or later when you have more kids and she has all the cards, and your too old to jump back into the dating game.

Do you really wanna be that nikka in his mid 30s, having to choose from all the trash women with multiple kids who weren't good enough to wife up?

You know what you gotta do breh.

 

[GrindMode]

Troll thread

 

[5n0man]

You supported her financiallly throughout the marriage and you have a child....it's cheaper to keep her



Unless 1. You are ok with paying alimony and child support or 2. You catch her cheating with evidence and depending where you live...you may only pay for child support



In any case, fight for your marriage, seek counseling, communicate better, make a plan together etc. @hEAVY

Womens opinion.

This is why getting married was a mistake, women know they have you in a vice grip through the court system.

I hope you live in a southern state, get a lawyer and argue that you never agreed to fund a house wife. She stepped away from her obligations and got comfortable. Not working was her decision, not yours.

 

[Tom Foolery]

How are going to control someone who never respected you from jump, if she's seen all the "blood, sweat and tears" he has put in to being the man she sees today and doesn't respect the effort, then she never will. Her family was probably happy to dump her off on to somebody else. Let her husband deal with that headache. Seen that shyt happen too many times.

Let the man speak.

 

[lespaulultra3]

Your wife sounds like my ex wife. I won't write an essay but I'll give you a couple points:

-You already set the stage so things will never change in the long term (her paying bills)
-You sound like a doormat
-She doesn't respect you

I think you should divorce and work on yourself. You sound like a little puppy chasing her with your tail between your legs. With over 3 billion women in the world, why be miserable with one?

 

[JahBuhLun]

Your wife sounds like my ex wife. I won't write an essay but I'll give you a couple points:

-You already set the stage so things will never change in the long term (her paying bills)
-You sound like a doormat
-She doesn't respect you

I think you should divorce and work on yourself. You sound like a little puppy chasing her with your tail between your legs. With over 3 billion women in the world, why be miserable with one?

Even if he divorces her, he's still going to chase after her, because he wants her to respect him more than anything, its going to bug the shyt out of him until he gets that closure. But what's really going to fukk him up is when he finds out that she's getting fukked by some dude that doesn't have his shyt together, but is living in the house he worked so hard to get and treating his kid like shyt while using the alimony and child support money to buy video games and Percocet.

 

[the cac mamba]

@BmoreGorilla

 

[hEAVY]

Problem is, your main problem is the fact that you got married too young, All the other shyt is cool, but you're on here talking about ending your marriage..So you have everything together except the thing that going to tear all that shyt down. All that chest pumping you're doing about blood, sweat and tears, and being self made etc... apply that same shyt to your marriage so you wont be on here belly aching about it....

Materials are replaceable.
Bills get paid throughout life.
Happiness/Love from a bond between 2 people you can't buy.
Not flexing just facts.
I don't care about :what I've accomplished.
My decision making was with my family in mind that's why I'm belly aching cuz what I really wanted I don't really have. Sorry for venting.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

I actually read this shyt

And u sound weak as fukk

U set the precedent that
Everything is on you
And she has free will
To do whatever

And u let her have a kid

So now if u piss her off
Trying to get her to be an adult and do her part
She may get pissed and divorce u
Then u paying alimony and child support

I never understood how a man could have just a house wife

 

[hEAVY]

Your wife sounds like my ex wife. I won't write an essay but I'll give you a couple points:

-You already set the stage so things will never change in the long term (her paying bills)
-You sound like a doormat
-She doesn't respect you

I think you should divorce and work on yourself. You sound like a little puppy chasing her with your tail between your legs. With over 3 billion women in the world, why be miserable with one?

Preach!
That's my fukking problem I don't understand why it's so hard for me to let fukking go.
But slowly I am accepting what needs to be done.

 

[hEAVY]

Even if he divorces her, he's still going to chase after her, because he wants her to respect him more than anything, its going to bug the shyt out of him until he gets that closure. But what's really going to fukk him up is when he finds out that she's getting fukked by some dude that doesn't have his shyt together, but is living in the house he worked so hard to get and treating his kid like shyt while using the alimony and child support money to buy video games

Sorry I'm out