Brooklynzson and Cook made ignoring mods possible :blessed:

[wet landscapes]

We got rafters threads of dudes clowning and saying the filtiest shyt they can think of to each other, no doubt OP participated in some. Dudes clowned Nigerian and Chris b for 100s of pages straight. It's all daps and yucks when it's some guy you don't care about in the crosshairs. But when women get it too theres gotta be these insufferable displays of victimhood. mfs think that banner forbids the mods from posting like forum users or offending you. and nikkas say mrken takes this forum too seriously?

Take this shyt to the salon

what person thinks a bytch being bruised up by a nikka shes fukking or dragged down the stairs is funny
he wasn't even joking or on some trolling shyt
how people reacted to charmander shytting on binary and how people are reacting to this are totally different

 

[Colicat]

lol

well, if I know anything, it's that calling out the admins and giving them ultimatums has always been extremely successful in the past

good luck

Thanks

 

[Colicat]

Thread moved.

No one is getting demodded because they hurt your feelings. You won't manipulate the admins into appeasing your personal little beef.
You're subject to the same standard as everyone else.
You're not a special snowflake. If you want preferential treatment when a male that you go back & forth with hurts your feelings, try the Salon or LSA.

Hurt feelings?

The president is being set that mods aren't subject to the same standards as everyone else...


I've heard that, that has worked so well in the past...

 

[charmander]

I don't feel like rules should be changed or anything
a lot of posters catch temp bans for being too wild, I kinda just wanted him to catch one too
or some sort of public slap on the wrist to show that everyone is fair game

how can everyone be fair game yet you want certain people/topics to be off limits? everyone is fair game, except victims of domestic violence?

when we start splitting hairs and setting boundaries and taboos, we stifle ourselves and each other

 

[mamba]

Or breh, we can accept that this is a forum. And at the end of the day. When there are serious discussions about the black community, both female and male posters are on the same page and can vent their frustrations without someone ridiculing them for not sticking to the American Status Quo, which is to blame the black people.

There is no other place on the internet where you can find people in complete agreement when tragedies happen in our community.

TheColi does far more good than bad, and everything said here that can be labeled "fukkery" should be taken lightly. I just hate when people pretend that thecoli is a terrible place full of misogyny and self-hate, when in fact all that shyt is just jokes.

When shyt gets real, when black youth is murdered and young Black sistas are hurt, 99% of thecoli shows support and vents their frustration. Everyone. From trolls like @Shugg Ross all the way up to "black woman haters" like @mamba . We all agree on these things. And that literally happens nowhere else

I love Black women.

 

[Colicat]

how can everyone be fair game yet you want certain people/topics to be off limits? everyone is fair game, except victims of domestic violence?

when we start splitting hairs and setting boundaries and taboos, we stifle ourselves and each other

Stifle? You really need to use domestic violence as your trump card?

 

[onelastdeath]

Yeah, predators don't always open the door with "I'm going to eat you" either.

Domestic abuse is often something that happens over time. And by the time it gets bad, the aggressor already knows enough about the victim to effectively cut them off from help.

You underestimate the amount of power a man has over a woman, physically, psychologically, and energetically. Victim hood is mind crushing. Women often have no means of defending themselves from physical abuse.

As a man you find that hard to comprehend because some party of you thinks your a tough guy who will never lose a fight.

Men who make excuses for abuse are pathetic. You need to take a martial arts class and see what happens when you are at the mercy of another.

Yeah and beautiful women don't always come into your life saying "I'm going to make your dikk burn" either.

Handing out STDs also happens over time. A woman could be with you and eventually you can trust her enough to not use condoms and trust her on BC, and by the time your dikk starts burning you're left wondering where you went wrong and In some cases are stuck with said STD for the rest of your life.

You underestimate the power a woman has over a man, sexually, emotionally, romantically and psychologically? A man in love sometimes has no way of defending himself from a cheating woman either.

As a man, I know what's it's like to go through abuse, but I went through child abuse, and the difference is I didn't bring that person in my life, those women make the choice to bring those men in their lives though.

You need to go fall in love and trust a woman 100%, and see what happens when you go to the doctor and he tells you you're sick after you left yourself vulnerable around a woman you thought that you loved you

 

[jeh]

So had this been a "female poster" that was liked by the majority of male posters.


I wonder if some of y'all would be singing the same song and dance. Not long ago, someone was ready to "quit" because a certain female poster was disrespected......in came the knights in shining armour saying how cool she was and why would you do this and that to her Because she's good people. But whatever.


That's y'all beef. Im neutral

 

[onelastdeath]

I love Black women.

Notice,the quotations breh.

Stifle? You really need to use domestic violence as your trump card?

STI and STDs are used as a trump card as well. What's the difference?

 

[Colicat]

Without looking at the thread, I'm going go assume Liggins was talking to thirdeye. I like her, but she's kind of unpopular and a lot of that comes from her talking shyt . I'm not sure what happened, but from what I know of Liggins he wouldn't have gone in like that if he hadn't been set off so it's probably worth me seeing how the exchange started. I do agree that it was harsh, to say the least, but again I'm going to see if I can find how it all started.

... This post is looking real funny in the light...


Did you just give the coli equivalent of "she deserved to get beat?"

 

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

That's not exactly fair. You know what you're opening up your wallet for if you donate to the Coli. She donated to fukkery, summer jams screens, extremely vulgar content, misogyny, jokes, and violence. But at the end of the day, it's all for entertainment purposes. It's sort of being like that one kid In class who loves to watch fights, and loves to instigate them, but when it's time to throw down, he wants to tell. You can't do that. I've seen colicat dish out her fair share of ether as well, you can't have it one way. Because She donated doesn't mean shes exempt from fukkery.

And I'm not saying that joking on DV is right, or that what Ligggins said was in any way classy or appropriate. Because it was fukked up, no doubt about it.

But on a forum, where I saw a dude tell another dude that his moms should have aborted him and ate him as a fetus all over s Kobe-Lebron debate. On a forum where I've been told that my mother and father (who are both dead) are ashamed of me and are looking down crying. On a forum where people make fun of STDs and STI's. On a forum where nikkas regularly talk about bodying people.

Where shyt like this is posted









How can anyone really go , when someone talks about DV?

I must say this 100%.

I am truly sorry for my words and actions that day and I have no qualms if the coli wants to hold it against me. I was not in my usual character that day and I am truly saddened that it came out that way. I'm owning up to my actions and words and admitting it was a poor thing to do...seriously.

@DarianaGrande I am 100% sorry about what I said man. Seriously that was fukked up. I was off my meds, had a bad day in general, was frustrated took it out on the wrong people.

The older I get I realize that being a participant on this forum means I have to present myself a certain way and I'm trying to just better myself as an individual the older I get and furthermore I'm trying to bury the immature version of me behind. I had alot of attachments to this forum and forums in general since SOHH and now...with me heading into my 30s and with a real job and real responsibilities now I just do not want beef with anyone.

Me and @Always-Right Liggins had some beef but you what I'm cool with him now and I apologize to him as well.

I personally don't want any problems with anyone on here. And some of you I consider as close as family. Let's all stop the fussing and fighting. We might get mad, we might lose our cool, but at the end of the day it's just a message board. It shouldn't have to come down to this.

jesus I feel like a fool for that. I tend to forget that the stuff I type on here is forever and others are reading it.

 

[charmander]

Stifle? You really need to use domestic violence as your trump card?

no, but acquiescing to the demands in this thread would set a dangerous precedent

anytime an individual gets offended or takes a post personally, the admins would have to punish the poster and make the offending topic a bannable offense or worthy of some kind of punishment, basically stifling what we can say on here

 

[wet landscapes]

how can everyone be fair game yet you want certain people/topics to be off limits? everyone is fair game, except victims of domestic violence?

when we start splitting hairs and setting boundaries and taboos, we stifle ourselves and each other

there are topics that are already off limits
@biscuit
@OwenReese
both got banned and they had threads like this made on em in numbers
if you're offended by something, why not say something about it
I know telling and complaints are corny but people get offended sometimes

 

[jeh]

Honestly what needs to happen on here is dudes need to stop talking bad about our women, and women need to stop talking about us. It's crazy that our race went through so much shyt, and instead of being the most unified race because of it, we are the most divided.

The mother fukking irony and audacity. So yet, when I asked you about disrespecting a YOUNG BLACK GIRL........your reply was "It was a joke lighten up"

I posted a pic of her, and you never responded.....because let me guess. You don't have time for the foolishness.

 

[Killer Instinct]

Hurt feelings?

The president is being set that mods aren't subject to the same standards as everyone else...


I've heard that, that has worked so well in the past...

*Precedent
And on the contrary, they are. No one is punished here for offensive material. Outside of overt prejudice or transsexual pornography, it takes an act of Congress for one to be reprimanded.
You're not the only one here with a supporter tag that's had it out with a mod.
Posters are called everything under the sun.
You personally, willingly engage in the back & forths.
Now you want to censor and manipulate cook or brook into punishing Liggins because he had the gall to offend you.
Your can't get the one up on dude in a war of words, so you want to cost him his mod position.
You're not innocent.
You've talked about mothers, name called, ect. Female posters who don't mudsling and engage in the "fukkery" don't have this complaint.
You also have a history of meltdowns that have been triggered because someone said something mean to you.
You're not gonna be worshipped like a deity here.
If the kitchen is too hot, then get out.