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Honestly what needs to happen on here is dudes need to stop talking bad about our women, and women need to stop talking about us. It's crazy that our race went through so much shyt, and instead of being the most unified race because of it, we are the most divided.

Or breh, we can accept that this is a forum. And at the end of the day. When there are serious discussions about the black community, both female and male posters are on the same page and can vent their frustrations without someone ridiculing them for not sticking to the American Status Quo, which is to blame the black people.

There is no other place on the internet where you can find people in complete agreement when tragedies happen in our community.

TheColi does far more good than bad, and everything said here that can be labeled "fukkery" should be taken lightly. I just hate when people pretend that thecoli is a terrible place full of misogyny and self-hate, when in fact all that shyt is just jokes.

When shyt gets real, when black youth is murdered and young Black sistas are hurt, 99% of thecoli shows support and vents their frustration. Everyone. From trolls like @Shugg Ross all the way up to "black woman haters" like @mamba . We all agree on these things. And that literally happens nowhere else :coffee:
 

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I think you ladies are missing the point people are trying to make when they say "worse shyt is said here on the regular" and y'all talk about reporting it

the point is, no one bats an eyelash at all the vulgar and obscene and awful shyt that's said here, until something offends them personally...then they expect everything to stop, personnel to be changed, rules to be added, etc

the coli doesn't work that way tho, it is a constantly churning engine of tasteless remarks, trolling and fukkery...and it's not going to stop just because one person suddenly feels like an arbitrary line has been crossed; it's much easier to simply get out the car than trying to change all the parts of it to suit you...
 
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It's a joke when a random poster says it. It's messed up when it comes from the higher ups.

As much as we all love the Coli fukkery, we're gonna have 'cacs' in here reading this and thinking it's cool.

It's the difference between roasting your coworkers and then your manager comes in and rips on them too. At least that's how I see it.

Like I said before there's a way to get your point across, and even be condescending if you must, without losing face by coming off cruel and nasty. Which actually looks childish. (That stairs comment was straight :smh:) politics mane, you gotta watch how your actions reverberate to others, especially in a position of power, authority and example.

And we wonder where and when the gender wars will end. It ends when you decide to stop fighting.

Mods have more responsibility than the average poster. To disagree is one thing, to turn vile is another. Be above the influence, then be the correct influence.

But Liggins is Always Right so :yeshrug:
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say that when some troll is lighting up the coli with racism :usure:

Fair point. Except that through all the racist nonsense I've read on this forum, I've never hit the report button once. When it comes to this site, I don't believe in it. It's not our culture.

If you can't hang; :camby: It's that simple
 

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Or breh, we can accept that this is a forum. And at the end of the day. When there are serious discussions about the black community, both female and male posters are on the same page and can vent their frustrations without someone ridiculing them for not sticking to the American Status Quo, which is to blame the black people.

There is no other place on the internet where you can find people in complete agreement when tragedies happen in our community.

TheColi does far more good than bad, and everything said here that can be labeled "fukkery" should be taken lightly. I just hate when people pretend that thecoli is a terrible place full of misogyny and self-hate, when in fact all that shyt is just jokes.

When shyt gets real, when black youth is murdered and young Black sistas are hurt, 99% of thecoli shows support and vents their frustration. Everyone. From trolls like @Shugg Ross all the way up to "black woman haters" like @mamba . We all agree on these things. And that literally happens nowhere else :coffee:
Some recognition:blessed:
 

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I think you ladies are missing the point people are trying to make when they say "worse shyt is said here on the regular" and y'all talk about reporting it

the point is, no one bats an eyelash at all the vulgar and obscene and awful shyt that's said here, until something offends them personally...then they expect everything to stop, personnel to be changed, rules to be added, etc

the coli doesn't work that way tho, it is a constantly churning engine of tasteless remarks, trolling and fukkery...and it's not going to stop just because one person suddenly feels like an arbitrary line has been crossed; it's much easier to simply get out the car than trying to change all the parts of it to suit you...

No one "batting an eyelash" doesn't make it ok, acceptable, or tolerable...

Who said the world should stop? Either he is removed as a moderator so that I can place him on ignore or he stops the harassment....

The world revolves... Carry on
 
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I think you ladies are missing the point people are trying to make when they say "worse shyt is said here on the regular" and y'all talk about reporting it

the point is, no one bats an eyelash at all the vulgar and obscene and awful shyt that's said here, until something offends them personally...then they expect everything to stop, personnel to be changed, rules to be added, etc

the coli doesn't work that way tho, it is a constantly churning engine of tasteless remarks, trolling and fukkery...and it's not going to stop just because one person suddenly feels like an arbitrary line has been crossed; it's much easier to simply get out the car than trying to change all the parts of it to suit you...
I don't feel like rules should be changed or anything
a lot of posters catch temp bans for being too wild, I kinda just wanted him to catch one too
or some sort of public slap on the wrist to show that everyone is fair game:yeshrug:
 

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Or breh, we can accept that this is a forum. And at the end of the day. When there are serious discussions about the black community, both female and male posters are on the same page and can vent their frustrations without someone ridiculing them for not sticking to the American Status Quo, which is to blame the black people.

There is no other place on the internet where you can find people in complete agreement when tragedies happen in our community.

TheColi does far more good than bad, and everything said here that can be labeled "fukkery" should be taken lightly. I just hate when people pretend that thecoli is a terrible place full of misogyny and self-hate, when in fact all that shyt is just jokes.

When shyt gets real, when black youth is murdered and young Black sistas are hurt, 99% of thecoli shows support and vents their frustration. Everyone. From trolls like @Shugg Ross all the way up to "black woman haters" like @mamba . We all agree on these things. And that literally happens nowhere else :coffee:

:salute:

I don't know about black woman hater being quotations doe.

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No one "batting an eyelash" doesn't make it ok, acceptable, or tolerable...

Who said the world should stop? Either he is removed as a moderator so that I can place him on ignore or he stops the harassment....

The world revolves... Carry on

lol

well, if I know anything, it's that calling out the admins and giving them ultimatums has always been extremely successful in the past

good luck
 

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No one is getting demodded because they hurt your feelings. You won't manipulate the admins into appeasing your personal little beef.
You're subject to the same standard as everyone else.
You're not a special snowflake. If you want preferential treatment when a male that you go back & forth with hurts your feelings, try the Salon or LSA.
 
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