Bruhs and Brehettes...My best friend (a woman) today asked me the big question we've both been yearning for...

[Piff Perkins]

You asking US how to make the transition when you already pulled off the impossible?

 

[Wargames]

So I have seen this in real life turn to a the couple getting married, having kids, and being together for over a decade

Bro you better fukk the shyt out of her so she see’s you as a man. Like tear that ass up. Then knock her up and she’ll be yours.

 

[JT-Money]

We work at the same job that's how we met.

Bruh....

 

[BuckFilly]

 

[The Prince of All Saiyans]

Be Cozier than Carl til a new male friend comes along

 

[BrehWyatt]

Hit her with grade-A, "I want you cuckoo for Cocoa Puffs after I'm done" BOYFRIEND eggplant. Consistently.

She'll make the transition for you.

 

[RareHunter]

Do you have a contingency plan if she ends up getting a male best friend during this relationship?

 

[Stir Fry]

OP about to be leaning in towards her in all their pictures.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Breh check your feelings. These women COLD BLOODED . Don’t be a sucka for love, just enjoy your turn

 

[Hopeofmypeople]

How do you become best friends with a woman in 12 months?

Regardless just act how you feel. You are overthinking this part.

That poor boyfriend was justified in feeling some type of way.

 

[The ADD]

That poor boyfriend was justified in feeling some type of way.

Oh indeed

 

[KingBeez]

This bytch nuttier than squirrel shyt, you need to stay away from her after you get your nut and leave.

You could’ve finessed a FWB relationship, but you tryna go all in on a girl who was just calling another nikka “babe”.

Her ex had every right to be suspicious of y’all, and you gonna feel the same feelings he had when a new male “best friend” pops up

EDIT: You are her work boyfriend?! nikka are you dumb? You finna lose this bytch and your job smh

 

[Gloxina]

The problem with y'all nikkas and a problem being a member of this site are that you guys project your shortcomings on other nikkas.

I was always the man she TRULY wanted but for whatever reason, it didn't become official until a few days ago and I blame me for that cause if I asked her out months ago she'd would've been mines a long time ago so I blame myself for that.

The other guy she was just bullshytting...she never even told him where she lived at nor introduced him to her family and friends. She did all that with me cause I'm the man she wants in her life and every aspect of it.

Secondly, I wasn't friend zoned I had a gf I briefly dated as noted below...

Forgetting the friend/co-worker stuff….

You said these women are COUSINS?!

 

[Antwon Mitchell]

Forgetting the friend/co-worker stuff….

You said these women are COUSINS?!

Yes, they're cousins.

My girlfriend (best friend at the time) while she was with her ex hooked me up with her cousin who also used to work with us but left the state long before we even hooked up because she had to take care of a sick relative in need. Me and her cousin had a long-distance relationship.

Anyway, her cousin was the one who told me that my best friend (now my girlfriend) liked me the first time she met me. I briefly dated the cousin for a few months but it never worked out cause her cousin didn't like our friendship and thought it was “weird” because of the way we acted. We didn't act like regular ole “best friends” like many in this thread are implying and she knew that plus it didn't help that she knew my best friend had deep feelings for me and likewise I've had for her on top of us being together and around each other so much, we were attached to the point one day I didn't come to work my best friend, she'd called me that whole day saying how she miss me and how bored and lonely without me being there.

Something I didn't mention in this thread, is that before I and her cousin mutually parted ways my best friend (now my girlfriend) was trying to convince me to break up with her cousin not long after she hooked us up, telling me things about her cousin so I'd break up with her and even admitted that it was a mistake hooking us up. One day on the phone prior to breaking up with the cousin she anxiously asked me if “I broke up with her yet” and I told her “nah not yet” and her response to that was just a big “sigh” sound over the phone.

There's a lot more to all of this regarding how me and her knew her ex was jealous/insecure about me among other things.

 

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