Bruhs and Brehettes...My best friend (a woman) today asked me the big question we've both been yearning for...

[Methuselah]

Hahahah you friend zone nikkas waiting years for p*ssy are so pathetic you don't even know what to do with it when you get it

Only thing more pathetic is the nikka that puts up with a female who has male "best friends" @CouldntBeMeTho

And the fukked up thing about it is that now, he has to put up with her having male friends because that’s how they started out. Brehs need to realize that male friends are to women as side chicks are to men. They ( women ) get all the attention they’d get from a boyfriend without having to give up any ass, and if they feel they need to exercise that option a leave with the nikka they put in the friend zone, they will

 

[Antwon Mitchell]

Your friend now turned girlfriend is a walking red flag lol.

But I think the story is

The problem with y'all nikkas and a problem being a member of this site are that you guys project your shortcomings on other nikkas.

I was always the man she TRULY wanted but for whatever reason, it didn't become official until a few days ago and I blame me for that cause if I asked her out months ago she'd would've been mines a long time ago so I blame myself for that.

The other guy she was just bullshytting...she never even told him where she lived at nor introduced him to her family and friends. She did all that with me cause I'm the man she wants in her life and every aspect of it.

And the fukked up thing about it is that now, he has to put up with her having male friends because that’s how they started out. Brehs need to realize that male friends are to women as side chicks are to men. They ( women ) get all the attention they’d get from a boyfriend without having to give up any ass, and if they feel they need to exercise that option a leave with the nikka they put in the friend zone, they will

Secondly, I wasn't friend zoned I had a gf I briefly dated as noted below...

Y'all keep tryna spin this into something but it's not what y'all think...

I never was friend-zoned because I welcomed it and unlike some of you I value friendships.

While she had her ex at the time...I had a girlfriend I was briefly dating and guess who that was...I was dating her cousin that she hooked me up with but it didn't work out because her cousin was insecure about our friendship and thought our friendship was “weird ” cause of how CLOSE we were.

You wanna know how I knew my best friend had been feeling me for a good grip? Cause her cousin that I was dating told me that she had feelings for me and that's why her cousin was always insecure about me being her best friend.

Her cousin would get mad and tell me to “go talk to your best friend” and “leave me alone, she's your new girlfriend” and “y'all can date each other/I don't care”.

Remember how I wrote how she gave me her Facebook/messenger password? Well, I'd read the messages her cousin would send to her about me.

Right now her cousin and my girlfriend aren't getting along all because of me. They don't speak at all anymore and I tried to mend the fences between them cause I ain't tryna have them beef cause of me...they're cousins and supposed to be tight.

See every time y'all try to clown it's making me give a bit more detail. I only wanted simple answers to my question.

 

[ROBEEZYKILLA]

Y'all been in coli for years and still don't learn

 

[J Money]

The problem with y'all nikkas and a problem being a member of this site are that you guys project your shortcomings on other nikkas.

I was always the man she TRULY wanted but for whatever reason, it didn't become official until a few days ago and I blame me for that cause if I asked her out months ago she'd would've been mines a long time ago so I blame myself for that.

The other guy she was just bullshytting...she never even told him where she lived at nor introduced him to her family and friends. She did all that with me cause I'm the man she wants in her life and every aspect of it.

Secondly, I wasn't friend zoned I had a gf I briefly dated as noted below...

You trolling son lol

If you're not trolling you're just plain old stoopid

 

[Admiral Ackbar]

I did this last year, after a woman considered me her best friend after four years of hanging out and her becoming newly single.

It was heaven for several months, but somehow I became the scapegoat for why things in her life weren't going as planned.

Make it last, breh. It can work.

 

[Ohene]

How do you become best friends with a woman in 12 months?

Regardless just act how you feel. You are overthinking this part.

nikkas lost these days

 

[Legal]

On the slim chance your name isn't Johnny Appleseed & this is not a tall tale, you may as well lay on a plate because you are food.

How old are you, you sound like you 15, lil bytch shyt

 

[Raphaello]

Op sounds like a lame ass "she loves me, she loves me not" nikka

 

[SheWantTheD]

The problem with y'all nikkas and a problem being a member of this site are that you guys project your shortcomings on other nikkas.

I was always the man she TRULY wanted but for whatever reason, it didn't become official until a few days ago and I blame me for that cause if I asked her out months ago she'd would've been mines a long time ago so I blame myself for that.

The other guy she was just bullshytting...she never even told him where she lived at nor introduced him to her family and friends. She did all that with me cause I'm the man she wants in her life and every aspect of it.

Secondly, I wasn't friend zoned I had a gf I briefly dated as noted below...

You like her wayyy more than she likes you.

You still in this thread defending the shyt.

nikka who cares.. we just some random nikkas on the internet

 

[DonRe]

Real men dont go through this. And never pontificate on shyt like this. Grow up.

 

[DripSzn]

The problem with y'all nikkas and a problem being a member of this site are that you guys project your shortcomings on other nikkas.

I was always the man she TRULY wanted but for whatever reason, it didn't become official until a few days ago and I blame me for that cause if I asked her out months ago she'd would've been mines a long time ago so I blame myself for that.

The other guy she was just bullshytting...she never even told him where she lived at nor introduced him to her family and friends. She did all that with me cause I'm the man she wants in her life and every aspect of it.

Secondly, I wasn't friend zoned I had a gf I briefly dated as noted below...

I'll give you the benefit of the doubt, breh.

Sometimes, life isn't as black and white as people think. These situations can play out like this.

Hope this turns out for the best but ngl, the way y'all went about all this is something one would expect from teenagers.

 

[Kenny West]

It's not a troll thread y'all nikkas like to project your lack of relationships with women on other nikkas. Y'all nikkas just can't believe a nikka ain't some socially awkward lame.

Women actually like me. I've never had problems swooping a woman off her feet because I actually have “game” and know how to attract women naturally to no avail compared to some of y'all dry-di*k self-loathing coli nikkas.

Nikkas like me are an anomaly on this site that's why y'all be in denial when you hear bruhs like me bagging women.

Or you just a bitter ass woman that hate to see and hear a nikka getting love from other ladies cause you like to see dudes suffer or some shyt.

This kinda real lol. nikkas lowkey threw every trope in the book at OP.

 

[Big Wiz]

If this was a year ago I would’ve congratulated you. But knowing what I know now and going through what I went through in my last relationship, you’re in for a rude awakening… I used to be as naive as you lmao. NEVER ignore red flags, and I see a ton of them in this situation.

 

[Arcavian]

 

[Gloxina]

Y’all must be young as hell. If that’s the case, just do whatever. Just know these types of relationships usually never last because the woman in this situation knows she can have her cake and eat it too. After she’s no longer curious about what it would be like to be with you, she’s gonna break it off when she catch feelings for another nikka. And when she got her a new breh, she’ll be content with you orbiting as her “best friend”.

I’ve been in this situation before when I was younger. It’s like being in a weird state between side nikka and the friendzone. I would just recommend that you don’t go into this with the hopes of it turning into a long-term thing. Have fun and be a solid dude to her, but don’t get too attached right away

Lurking on this site for years actually made me come to the realization that my guy “friends” didn’t actually see me as a friend and f*cked my head up. I never knew about this “orbiting” thing. I now feel dumb realizing the signs I missed.

Their situation could be legit. Women do genuinely think that men and women can be friends because in our minds “they’ve seen me at my worst, completely casual and goofy, fit or out of shape, I’ve seen girls they’ve dated, they aren’t thinking about me”. <—— that’s genuinely how we see it.

It’s not about having guy friends orbiting- it’s about not being vain enough to think every guy wants you. Especially when you see other girls who are in the friend clique as well!