Damn that's crazy I see the black community will be more mixed in the future if u look at old pictures of black people during the Civil War we were darker I see more bm going to non bw and I see more bw lonely first for whatever reason other races don't like them like that and bm will shoot or shot more at women will have more dates and crapping on us don't make them look great cause they look crazy to everyone
To be honest, as a woman, the biggest problem a lot of BW have is the weight issue.
My family doesn’t play that fat mess and will literally




if you’re overweight until you get the message and get smaller.
But A LOT of our girls are in environments where they’re told that they are just “thick” (as a size 12) and it’s different for us. It’s not different.
I actually had to break it down for another girl once and told her “You see the girls in the music videos? THAT IS “THICK” to men. Size 4-6, maybe 8 if you are
actually curvy. Double digits ain’t thick. A lot of girls never had it broken down like that.
I watched how the guys in my fam/friend circle reacted to their celeb crushes. Looked at the women they actually dated and courted. So I had to be the same if I wanted the same attention, affection and treatment.
As a black woman, if you are moderately attractive and no bigger than a size 6 you will not have any issues with men of any race.
I’m seeing more and more BW with WM, and these girls don’t look rough at all. They are fit and cute.
You have girls growing up around big women, and those women won’t tell them to do better, so they think it’s ok.
You have girls in environments with low-achieving men who tell them they are perfect the way they are, because if those girls ever woke up and dropped 50lbs they would encounter men who ACTUALLY want to take care of them and going on dinner dates wouldn’t be foreign.
I said it before…a lot of girls miss out by not understanding how important the physical is.
I’ve literally had successful white men try to hook me up with their sons. If every overweight woman dropped the weight they could attract more brehs and have more interracial options if they wanted them.
A lot of our girls weren’t taught the dating game. You have literal whores getting wifed up, chicks with kids finding love, chicks with no money or education, etc. Because they figured out how to be physically appealing and have good enough personalities that make a man want to hold on.
These are the women who aren’t hot, or have insufferable personalities.
A fit woman with a decent personality has a relatively easy life because of the way men are wired. That’s how it works, but you won’t just get it if you aren’t raised around it and guided when you’re young.
My mom is the most vain person I know and she got by on her looks for SO long. Lmao
Definitely female incels. This mess is depressing.