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Why does it always have to be an either/or thing? Using dating apps doesn't mean you can't also approach women in real life

Online apps attract a lower quality of female at higher prices. What you typically get is a lot of average to below average women bidding over a few higher value guys. As a guy even if you're attractive it's an L. You're dealing with chicks who are far below you in terms of looks. You could scoop far higher quality of women in real life.

I personally don't see the point for why any guy would use a dating app. Average guys get zero play so it makes no sense for them. For attractive guys it makes no sense as well unless you're a 9/10 that likes banging a bunch of 4s and 5s.

If you're a good looking guy you'll have a way better chance of bagging way badder bytches if you approach them in real life than through a dating app.
 
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Breh I'm from KC and they got some bad white girls but I haven't had any luck and I'm in shape

Attractive women typically use dating apps to funnel simps to their social media or use them for free attention and validation. They're typically not there to hook up with guys. If they're hooking up with guys online its typically with rich guys on Instagram selling their lifestyle not the jacked guy on a dating app.

If you're in shape then you have a far better chance approaching these girls in real life than through a dating app.
 

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It's because when a woman is using a dating she's in her hoe mindset. She's just looking for a casual sexual encounter with a man she knows she can't get to commit to a long term relationship. It's why baddies rarely use dating apps. They know they can get any man to commit hence the reason they're not actively looking to just be a cum dumpster. And if a baddie wants to be a cum dumpster it'll only be for some rich famous guy.

When you approach girls in real life you get them into a relationship mindset. Which as a guy makes it far easier to pull. A baddie is more willing to get into a relationship with you as a decent looking guy than she is to simply be used for sex by you then thrown away. That's why its easier to approach in real life. In real life you can sell her the dream of a relationship as a guy while on a dating app she knows it's strictly sex.
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Makes sense. Flirting in person is better than on text.

I only use apps like Instagram and Snapchat as backup plans. And when I do, I try to schedule a meetup quick as possible. Texting too much often leads to talking outta the p*ssy. Based on my experience.
 

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Bumble is ass because you need the woman to engage first in order to kick-start the convo.

I'm deadass trying to figure out whose bright idea that was. Women don't approach in real life, so what THE fukk is the point in making them do so online? When they actually do respond, these chucklefukks will just send a short "hey"...

bytch, really:skip:?

I had 6 matches the last time I had that shyt, and each and every one of them disappeared because the girl didn't send a message.

Hinge is great though. I've hit 4 off that.
 

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I'm in Georgia right now visiting family and like 98% of the chicks are morbidly obese. shyt kinda made me sad.
I'm in South Carolina and it's even worse than Georgia. I be mad as hell when I hit other cities and see all the matches I be getting. Then come back home and my shyt be filled with some huge broads half of which ain't even cute in the face.
 

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Bumble is ass because you need the woman to engage first in order to kick-start the convo.

I'm deadass trying to figure out whose bright idea that was. Women don't approach in real life, so what THE fukk is the point in making them do so online? When they actually do respond, these chucklefukks will just send a short "hey"...

bytch, really:skip:?

I had 6 matches the last time I had that shyt, and each and every one of them disappeared because the girl didn't send a message.

Hinge is great though. I've hit 4 off that.
Yeah it's funny cause women want men to write a full dissertation yet when they have to make the first move it's always a hey, or I like your smile and that's it.
 

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It's because when a woman is using a dating app she's in her hoe mindset. She's just looking for a casual sexual encounter with a man she knows she can't get to commit to a long term relationship. It's why baddies rarely use dating apps. They know they can get any man to commit hence the reason they're not actively looking to just be a cum dumpster. And if a baddie wants to be a cum dumpster it'll only be for some rich famous guy.

When you approach girls in real life you get them into a relationship mindset. Which as a guy makes it far easier to pull. A baddie is more willing to get into a relationship with you as a decent looking guy than she is to simply be used for sex by you then thrown away. That's why its easier to approach in real life. In real life you can sell her the dream of a relationship as a guy while on a dating app she knows it's strictly sex.
You're 100% correct here.
 

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I might try one of these dating sites 🤔

My ex turned me out but i can not go back to him he was abusive
Check ur DMS i got

And don't go back to that nikka. I used to be abusive an chicks always came back

I had to turn into a square so they would leave me alone
 
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