By what age should a man have his shyt together?
- Thread starter Warren Moon
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You know damn well black women are expected to embrace men that other races.of women would not touch with a ten foot pole. The rest you made up yourself to fit in witg your brehs
Did I say that..at 25 you do need to start having some direct in. Y'all love using extremes to distract for what is actually being said. Most black men do not settle down and many blqck women are better having their education and money than depending on a man for it.
Speaking for myself and my set of friends, ummmmm, I'd say 25 to 28. That's when I realized that investing in yourself leads to better things.
at my wife's brother though. I ask myself this question as I look at him. Nikka is 26 (bout to be 27) living at his ma's. No real job but has the latest Nike after latest Nike. Shyt leaves me
. I left the house quickly after I graduated university.
I wanna talk to him but I feel like it ain't my place and he must figure the shyt out himself...like I did. Lazy nikka.
having your own house doesnt mean shyt
Loyal2mySoil
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dude's would rather move out they mama's house and pay some racist geezer or indian dude $800 a month to RENT than live with their parents and help them pay the mortgage off so maybe they could OWN the house when mama leaves the country/retires/dies.
ass backwards breh. I wanna leave the hell outta my parents' house and probably could soon but unless I work in another city with a long commute or go for my MBA in 2,3 years I wont bother til I'm making at least $70K. And even if I am best believe I am stacking bread so that I have a good nest when I do leave.
It takes money to make money. Think of how much car insurance, principal payments and rent averaging about 1200 a month will run you in 3 years. Tahts damn near 45K that could be used towards a mortgage, financial instruments, entrepreneurship or appreciating capital assets. Dudes would rather live paycheck to paycheck just so they can stunt on IG for likes and fukk bytches whenever they want without worrying about moms creeping through
Not everybody got parents with mortgages like you man, Some don't even have parents.
Loyal2mySoil
Rookie
You should have ya shyt together by highschool.
Heafcliffe
Hope there's puddin' in the clink...
having your own house doesnt mean shyt
Never said it did. Leaving your ma's house when you pushing 30 does though.
rogue_riezo
Les Enfants Terribles
Lol @ clothing being a defining factor in having your shyt together 
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Lol @ clothing being a defining factor in having your shyt together
I disagree, being a well dressed man is notoriously underrated.
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MayQueen
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I didn't read all the answers, , I'd say 25 to 27. Some are late bloomers though, they might just be figuring out what they want to do and still be in school. As long as you aren't just sitting on your ass, any age.
Goddess_Godiva
Pro
Lol @ 25 and being stable.
35 at the oldest
One should be stable and set
35 at the oldest
One should be stable and set
Can I get a hug pleaseLol @ 25 and being stable.
35 at the oldest
One should be stable and set
