Can Black Women Transcend Racial Barriers by distancing themselves from the Vilified Black Man?

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I'm not sure that this was initially the desirable end-goal, to distance themselves from their men, but with the support and guidance from the media, this seems to be where things are heading.

Of course not all, there are some great Black women out there still fighting against racism and inequality and still fighting for Black empowerment and Strong Black Families. But on the other hand, there are a large portion of Black women, some knowingly and some just being sheep that have bought into there are not many good black men out there. With support and guidance from the news media, they are successfully beginning to separate themselves into another entity of the Black race.

When I say guidance from the media, you can see it in phases. Initial Black women rode the coattails of white women in the women lib movement. White men started dating outside of their race more and White women now pick and choose their battle wisely. Leaving Black Women the carry the brunt of that fight. Now for the last 20, 30 years, the independent woman has been the thing to be amongst Black Women. "You don't need a man for anything." Shortly after that began, those independent chants turned into screams of "There are no Good Black Men" Networks like NBC and other provided national platforms for these women.

The past couple of years, it's been Black Woman are great movement, not that some aren't. But the undertone has been, we "Black Women" are great. Black girls rock. We're are most educated than our men, we earn more and we're better suited to whole higher position in the American hierarchy.. So with the coupling of We are great and there are no Good Black Men, It comes across as a competition state we rock and Black men are no good, to prove to White America who they should trust and reward.

Now the push for Black Women to date outside of their is at an All-time high. Movies and articles praising and glamorizing White Male-Black Woman relationship are everywhere. There's entire genre of books dedicated to Black women dated outside of their race. And the Prince Harry engagement has really given a new energized push to Black Women desires to be desirable to other races of men.


It seems a lot of Black women aren't as concern with Black empowerment as whole as they are with Black Women acceptance in American Society. I'm not saying all are knowingly are separate, I believe more than half are sheep. I think it takes a very intelligent person man or woman to see the bigger picture in all of this. Even with this recent Alabama election, the headline was Black women saved the day, though Black men voting at nearly the same percentage.

My question, if Black women for most part successfully separate themselves from the vilified Black men, high far in this country can they rise? Can they transcend racism lines and barriers?
 

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I'm not sure that this was initially the desirable end-goal, to distance themselves from their men, but with the support and guidance from the media, this seems to be where things are heading.

Of course not all, there are some great Black women out there still fighting against racism and inequality and still fighting for Black empowerment and Strong Black Families. But on the other hand, there are a large portion of Black women, some knowingly and some just being sheep that have bought into there are not many good black men out there. With support and guidance from the news media, they are successfully beginning to separate themselves into another entity of the Black race.

When I say guidance from the media, you can see it in phases. Initial Black women rode the coattails of white women in the women lib movement. White men started dating outside of their race more and White women now pick and choose their battle wisely. Leaving Black Women the carry the brunt of that fight. Now for the last 20, 30 years, the independent woman has been the thing to be amongst Black Women. "You don't need a man for anything." Shortly after that began, those independent chants turned into screams of "There are no Good Black Men" Networks like NBC and other provided national platforms for these women.

The past couple of years, it's been Black Woman are great movement, not that some aren't. But the undertone has been, we "Black Women" are great. Black girls rock. We're are most educated than our men, we earn more and we're better suited to whole higher position in the American hierarchy.. So with the coupling of We are great and there are no Good Black Men, It comes across as a competition state we rock and Black men are no good, to prove to White America who they should trust and reward.

Now the push for Black Women to date outside of their is at an All-time high. Movies and articles praising and glamorizing White Male-Black Woman relationship are everywhere. There's entire genre of books dedicated to Black women dated outside of their race. And the Prince Harry engagement has really given a new energized push to Black Women desires to be desirable to other races of men.


It seems a lot of Black women aren't as concern with Black empowerment as whole as they are with Black Women acceptance in American Society. I'm not saying all are knowingly are separate, I believe more than half are sheep. I think it takes a very intelligent person man or woman to see the bigger picture in all of this. Even with this recent Alabama election, the headline was Black women saved the day, though Black men voting at nearly the same percentage.

My question, if Black women for most part successfully separate themselves from the vilified Black men, high far in this country can they rise? Can they transcend racism lines and barriers?

do you know what would kill all of this?
it's very simple...

here is the answer= black men raise your kids.
if the single mother is left to raise the kids on her own she will raise them how she sees fit good or bad.

black men raise your kids.../thread
 

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I'm not sure that this was initially the desirable end-goal, to distance themselves from their men, but with the support and guidance from the media, this seems to be where things are heading.

Of course not all, there are some great Black women out there still fighting against racism and inequality and still fighting for Black empowerment and Strong Black Families. But on the other hand, there are a large portion of Black women, some knowingly and some just being sheep that have bought into there are not many good black men out there. With support and guidance from the news media, they are successfully beginning to separate themselves into another entity of the Black race.

When I say guidance from the media, you can see it in phases. Initial Black women rode the coattails of white women in the women lib movement. White men started dating outside of their race more and White women now pick and choose their battle wisely. Leaving Black Women the carry the brunt of that fight. Now for the last 20, 30 years, the independent woman has been the thing to be amongst Black Women. "You don't need a man for anything." Shortly after that began, those independent chants turned into screams of "There are no Good Black Men" Networks like NBC and other provided national platforms for these women.

The past couple of years, it's been Black Woman are great movement, not that some aren't. But the undertone has been, we "Black Women" are great. Black girls rock. We're are most educated than our men, we earn more and we're better suited to whole higher position in the American hierarchy.. So with the coupling of We are great and there are no Good Black Men, It comes across as a competition state we rock and Black men are no good, to prove to White America who they should trust and reward.

Now the push for Black Women to date outside of their is at an All-time high. Movies and articles praising and glamorizing White Male-Black Woman relationship are everywhere. There's entire genre of books dedicated to Black women dated outside of their race. And the Prince Harry engagement has really given a new energized push to Black Women desires to be desirable to other races of men.


It seems a lot of Black women aren't as concern with Black empowerment as whole as they are with Black Women acceptance in American Society. I'm not saying all are knowingly are separate, I believe more than half are sheep. I think it takes a very intelligent person man or woman to see the bigger picture in all of this. Even with this recent Alabama election, the headline was Black women saved the day, though Black men voting at nearly the same percentage.

My question, if Black women for most part successfully separate themselves from the vilified Black men, high far in this country can they rise? Can they transcend racism lines and barriers?
Where have you been for the last 40 years bruh? They’ve literally been trying this for the last 40+ years. This isn’t new. “Black pride is for black men” shyt started in the late 60s.
do you know what would kill all of this?
it's very simple...

here is the answer= black men raise your kids.
if the single mother is left to raise the kids on her own she will raise them how she sees fit good or bad.

black men raise your kids.../thread
So simple and so dumb. A man doesn’t have any control over a woman just because he gets her pregnant. Stop acting like the single mother shyt is a result of women being abandoned by men who just don’t give a fukk.
 

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So simple and so dumb. A man doesn’t have any control over a woman just because he gets her pregnant. Stop acting like the single mother shyt is a result of women being abandoned by men who just don’t give a fukk.


Exactly.

Some of these guys believe every excuse and word a woman says. :what:
 

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Exactly.

Some of these guys believe every excuse and word a woman says. :what:
When a single woman gets pregnant by a man that she’s not married to or living with, then she’s in complete control of the whole situation. She can either choose to depend on the baby daddy if he’s willing and capable of providing/protecting OR she can choose to depend on white daddy(Uncle Sam) and do the single mother government assistance and/or child support thing. Regardless tho, it’s her choice. The man has to role with whatever she decides. Black people need to start being honest about how many women are readily choosing the single mother Uncle Sam option.
 
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Where have you been for the last 40 years bruh? They’ve literally been trying this for the last 40+ years. This isn’t new. “Black pride is for black men” shyt started in the late 60s.

So simple and so dumb. A man doesn’t have any control over a woman just because he gets her pregnant. Stop acting like the single mother shyt is a result of women being abandoned by men who just don’t give a fukk.

you must have no kids, which exhibits your stupidity.

I have three kids, I got married before I had, do you think my wife has more say in how the kids are raised then I do...HELL NO...

so I'll break it down to you as I would a first grader and hopefully you will understand.

don't have kids before you get married, raise your kids.

most of these single mothers were not married before they had kids.

having children is probably a bigger commitment then marriage, why people even think about having kids before marriage is dumbfounded and a step up for failure.

there are great black father's out there but the ones that don't take care of there kids out weigh in numbers the one's that do.

raising kids is a 2 person job.
if one person is left to do that job then outsiders can't complain about the results.

if black men raised their kids i can guarantee this problem would not exist
 
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