Can bucks and wenches be reformed?

[PerrinN]

I found my pawg because we both loved Naruto( eight years ago), it wouldn't have mattered what race she was as long as she wasn't ugly

 

[Ferrum Phos]

Let me clarify. Using blanket statements regarding criminal activity for all black people isn't a critique. I've never committed a crime in my life nor had she but she felt compelled to make a blanket statement regarding said issue. But you tell it though. You were there so you know what went down.

I'm not speaking on your specific situation, I'm simply telling you that people are not above reproach and there's no reason to resort to shaming tactics when they're speaking their mind, even if it's in a negative light. It does not make them a 'self-hater'. Everybody generalizes everyday, that's life. It doesn't mean all, it means in general, or typically. The problem is when people are unable to separate the two. The only time someone should ever have a problem with criticism is when they fall into that category - which makes sense, because a mirror's being held up. You know the saying, "a hit dog will holler".

Let me give you an example: If someone says, "Black women have the best bodies", does that mean every single Black woman has a better body than every single non-Black woman? No, it means generally, or typically - and everyone seems to understand this concept, but only when it's in a positive light. As soon as it's criticism, even fair criticism, suddenly everyone's coming out of the woodworks screaming, "Not all! Not all! You can't speak on it if you haven't met every single person! You hate yourself!". The fact of the matter is, people like to pick and choose, and will proudly uphold the good generalizations; but then turn around and shame people for speaking on the negatives.

 

[Neuromancer]

I'm not speaking on your specific situation, I'm simply telling you that people are not above reproach and there's no reason to resort to shaming tactics when they're speaking their mind, even if it's in a negative light. It does not make them a 'self-hater'. Everybody generalizes everyday, that's life. It doesn't mean all, it means in general, or typically. The problem is when people are unable to separate the two. The only time someone should ever have a problem with criticism is when they fall into that category - which makes sense, because a mirror's being held up. You know the saying, "a hit dog will holler".

Let me give you an example: If someone says, "Black women have the best bodies", does that mean every single Black woman has a better body than every single non-Black woman? No, it means generally, or typically - and everyone seems to understand this concept, but only when it's in a positive light. As soon as it's criticism, even fair criticism, suddenly everyone's coming out of the woodworks screaming, "Not all! Not all! You can't speak on it if you haven't met every single person! You hate yourself!". The fact of the matter is, people like to pick and choose, and will proudly uphold the good generalizations; but then turn around and shame people for speaking on the negatives.

So using your logic I can generalize bucks and wenches, since that's life right? Since people will be general, right?

I also tend to think that black women have better bodies and genetics than other women.

 

[Ferrum Phos]

So using your logic I can generalize bucks and wenches, since that's life right? Since people will be general, right?

I also tend to think that black women have better bodies and genetics than other women.

You can generalize whoever you want. My point is, your position on 'self-hatred' is not based in logic - rather, emotion.

 

[Neuromancer]

You can generalize whoever you want. My point is, your position on 'self-hatred' is not based in logic - rather, emotion.

I am not however emotional about the matter. And am using data I gathered from experience. I'm also not sure how you can tell me how I am processing my own thoughts or ideas on a thread I made. If by your logic you can't know because you haven't met me. I could be a white guy for all you know.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Yall bet not take Stacey Dash ass back when she inevitably comes crawling back

 

[Ferrum Phos]

I am not however emotional about the matter. And am using data I gathered from experience. I'm also not sure how you can tell me how I am processing my own thoughts or ideas on a thread I made. If by your logic you can't know because you haven't met me. I could be a white guy for all you know.

Calling someone else; an entity separate from yourself, a self-hater, is silly.

 

[Neuromancer]

Calling someone else; an entity separate from yourself, a self-hater, is silly.

There you go judging an entity separate from yourself. Why is it that you can do it? But I cannot?

 

[1thouwow]

Are all instances of IR self hating?

Yes

 

[Ferrum Phos]

There you go judging an entity separate from yourself. Why is it that you can do it? But I cannot?

You can judge many things about a person. The one thing you can't do is tell someone how they feel about themselves.

 

[Neuromancer]

You can judge many things about a person. The one thing you can't do is tell someone how they feel about themselves.

And yet you tried to do that earlier, to me.

 

[Neuromancer]

Yes

Elaborate.

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

Yes we have a few coli brehettes who wenched and now are on the dark side

 

[1thouwow]

Elaborate.

There's some hint of self-hate or insecurity to willingly procreate with someone else who can eventually erase your ancestral features

 

[Neuromancer]

There's some hint of self-hate or insecurity to willingly procreate with someone else who can eventually erase your ancestral features

Hmm. So you're equating dating with potential marriage. Do you think other people can understand the notion of ancestral erasure?