It makes sense but is hard for men to accept because we're constantly told "confidence confidence confidence", "numbers game", "shoot your shot" and "have game" so they think "I'm a creep for saying/doing ___________ but the 6'4" prettyboy/bad boy/Pac in a business suit is aggressive and sure of himself"
It's an objective thing that becomes subjective
I think people are different so u can only take advice with a grain of salt. I do think women should be encouraged to shoot their shot more (especially if they are complaining about the men they meet), and I still believe in being urself as cliche as that sounds.
Only because why the fukk should u change the fabric of ur being to please some other imperfect human with just as many problems or more than u.
In my experiences depending on what ur looking for, most people aren't successful like that with approaching anyway.
The people who are the most successful in relationships and in meeting people are the ones who are good with people period and have a wide, diverse social circle.
A lot of romantically lonely people I've spoken with don't have a lot of friends, much less positive romantic experiences. If ur happy, positive, and u put out good energy while not being overwhelmingly desperate it's not too hard to attract people.
And of course there are amazingly sexy men and women who have it easier. But there's too many people on the planet to be deterred by the sheeple who are only going for those types. Genuinely enjoy ur life and you'll be surprised how many people u pick up just by u enjoying urself while u do ur own thing.