Can Hot Guys Be "Creepy" Too?

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My pic has been posted multiple times on here. I've always been called handsome :yeshrug:. And to add to my appeal I'm not one cheeseburger away from cardiac arrest :mjlol:. And your insults are lame btw. STFU juice? :mjlol:. Oh bless your heart. Just quit and go back to eating your sandwiches and ben and Jerry ice cream :lolbron::mjlol::umad:
U responded to me all hurt, moist and zesty. If i wasn't talking or describing someone like u, where'd all the hurt come from in ur first response to me?

Just keep it real. This creep shyt hits close to home with you and ur irritated that I had to make u reevaluate urself. I get it. It's okay. We all do silly things from time to time and we've all been someone's "creep".

Lmao! Get over it, learn and move on. Let that hurt go. Not every woman is the ones that rejected u.
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I've always wondered why this is so impossible for some men to understand. :wow:

They know this stuff. They're taking it personally because they aren't having success with the chick they want.

It's pretty simple stuff to know that unwanted affection or attention from anybody is creepy.
It makes sense but is hard for men to accept because we're constantly told "confidence confidence confidence", "numbers game", "shoot your shot" and "have game" so they think "I'm a creep for saying/doing ___________ but the 6'4" prettyboy/bad boy/Pac in a business suit is aggressive and sure of himself" :dwillhuh:

It's an objective thing that becomes subjective
 
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Crazy thread.My homegirl from work was just telling about a guy she met over the weekend.


Said he was a cop, handsome, drove a nice car .etc..etc.


He came up to her while she was pumping gas, initiated a conversation, and they exchanged numbers.


She told me she was really excited about it, but he fukked it all up with the very first text he sent her.


"First thing I need to know....do you like girls? "


Said it creeped her out that he'd ask her something like that right off the bat.


Now he's in the "creep" category.


For some simple shyt like that
 

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This thread ain't about dating.
It's about who women find creepy.
And that is a fact that certain dudes can respectfully approach a woman and he will be deemed creepy solely based on his looks. :usure:
It's all because of unwanted attention. That's natural but people are taking it personally. I don't care what u look like, not everybody is going to feel u or want u.

If they don't then ur affections and attentions will make them feel uncomfortable.
If they do then it feels great.

There's no evil plot by women to tear men down or accuse ugly ones. It's just based on what and who ur feeling.

And of course there are certain behaviors that are going to look odd regardless of who does them.
 

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Creepy absolutely equates to looks.
In the same way that sexual harassment equates to looks.

Is it 100%?
No.

But you have any idea how much harder it is for Idris Elba to be creepy compared to how much easier it would be for Tyrone Hill?
:what:Tyrone Hill played in the NBA. I'm sure he got plenty of passes. Playing pro sports, being able to sing, etc covers up alot of deficiencies.
 

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It's all because of unwanted attention. That's natural but people are taking it personally. I don't care what u look like, not everybody is going to feel u or want u.

If they don't then ur affections and attentions will make them feel uncomfortable.
If they do then it feels great.

There's no evil plot by women to tear men down or accuse ugly ones. It's just based on what and who ur feeling.

And of course there are certain behaviors that are going to look odd regardless of who does them.
I had a coworker start a conversation with me just to tell me she had a boyfriend :usure:
I never talked to her or even made eye contact with her. :usure:
I'm not doubting what your saying, but what I'm saying is there really are bytches who want attention from men just to say they don't want attention from men :usure:
 

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It makes sense but is hard for men to accept because we're constantly told "confidence confidence confidence", "numbers game", "shoot your shot" and "have game" so they think "I'm a creep for saying/doing ___________ but the 6'4" prettyboy/bad boy/Pac in a business suit is aggressive and sure of himself" :dwillhuh:

It's an objective thing that becomes subjective
I think people are different so u can only take advice with a grain of salt. I do think women should be encouraged to shoot their shot more (especially if they are complaining about the men they meet), and I still believe in being urself as cliche as that sounds.

Only because why the fukk should u change the fabric of ur being to please some other imperfect human with just as many problems or more than u.

In my experiences depending on what ur looking for, most people aren't successful like that with approaching anyway.

The people who are the most successful in relationships and in meeting people are the ones who are good with people period and have a wide, diverse social circle.

A lot of romantically lonely people I've spoken with don't have a lot of friends, much less positive romantic experiences. If ur happy, positive, and u put out good energy while not being overwhelmingly desperate it's not too hard to attract people.

And of course there are amazingly sexy men and women who have it easier. But there's too many people on the planet to be deterred by the sheeple who are only going for those types. Genuinely enjoy ur life and you'll be surprised how many people u pick up just by u enjoying urself while u do ur own thing.
 

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I had a coworker start a conversation with me just to tell me she had a boyfriend :usure:
I never talked to her or even made eye contact with her. :usure:
I'm not doubting what your saying, but what I'm saying is there really are bytches who want attention from men just to say they don't want attention from men :usure:
Oh yeah. Tbh I think a lot of those chicks who complain about catcalling are the types ur talking about. Which makes it hard for other women who have genuinely had some really frightening situations.

But from what I've seen, I dunno if it's just the age of technology or what but we're mass producing a generation who is complete shyt at communicating with each other. We don't know how to hold a conversation, noses are constantly in a phone, anxiety is at an all time high. A lot of social skills have atrophied with the advent of modern tech. I've met people who literally prefer texting to meeting other people.

Social skills is like any other skill. You have to use them.
 

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U responded to me all hurt, moist and zesty. If i wasn't talking or describing someone like u, where'd all the hurt come from in ur first response to me?

Just keep it real. This creep shyt hits close to home with you and ur irritated that I had to make u reevaluate urself. I get it. It's okay. We all do silly things from time to time and we've all been someone's "creep".

Lmao! Get over it, learn and move on. Let that hurt go. Not every woman is the ones that rejected u.
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:mjlol: So now you're my psychologist? Please I'm not hurt and shyt doesn't apply to me. I just get tired of you bytches especially the ones who quite frankly aren't even a prize( yourself) and most guys see only a notch above masturbation thinking they hot shyt and running they mouth
 

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U responded to me all hurt, moist and zesty. If i wasn't talking or describing someone like u, where'd all the hurt come from in ur first response to me?

Just keep it real. This creep shyt hits close to home with you and ur irritated that I had to make u reevaluate urself. I get it. It's okay. We all do silly things from time to time and we've all been someone's "creep".

Lmao! Get over it, learn and move on. Let that hurt go. Not every woman is the ones that rejected u.
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:mjlol: So now you're my psychologist? Please I'm not hurt and shyt doesn't apply to me. I just get tired of you bytches especially the ones who quite frankly aren't even a prize( yourself) and most guys see only a notch above masturbation thinking they hot shyt and running they mouth
 

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:mjlol: So now you're my psychologist? Please I'm not hurt and shyt doesn't apply to me. I just get tired of you bytches especially the ones who quite frankly aren't even a prize( yourself) and most guys see only a notch above masturbation thinking they hot shyt and running they mouth
:umad: "Take these broken wings, and learn to fly again..."

We believe u. :lolbron:
 

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Would you like fries with it.....Fat ass? :lolbron:
Lmao! Deflect to hide the pain.
We can inject the fat into ur stuck dyck and ur self-esteem.

Betcha I'll lose the weight b4 u lose ur virginity or get a normal human being to touch u. Anybody with 2 pennies worth of common sense can look at how u post and know what u are. U hurt.

Plain and simple. Stop being creepy and gettin mad at random chicks when they happen to describe the way u get down. U told on urself and now u gotta commit to being obnoxious to save face. Gots to be mo careful. Peace!
 
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