Can Hot Guys Be "Creepy" Too?

Ashley Banks

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Creepy is used to describe unwanted attention or behavior that makes u feel uncomfortable.

Key word is UNWANTED. Meaning if a guy I like flirts then it isn't creepy. Quite the opposite its welcomed.

But when someone you don't want anything to do with is giving UNWANTED attention then of course it's creepy. Because it makes u uncomfortable.

Why is this so hard for dudes to understand? Meanwhile u have a similar issue with women being "irritating".
A fine woman flirting with u and being persistent would be great. A hideous woman doing this would be horrid.

Ya'll overanalyzing this shyt.

I've always wondered why this is so impossible for some men to understand. :wow:
 

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Also if u find urself being called creepy a lot it's probably because u fail at reading social cues. People have very open body language when they want to interact with u and give (what seems obvious to me) signs and signals when they are uncomfortable.

Some men and women, however, just barge right through those signs when it comes to what they want...
Ignoring people subtly moving back, reluctance to make eye contact to establish deeper connection, one word answers and terse responses, nervous laughter, inattentiveness...just to name a few. Some even persist in spite of verbal, explicit cues.

Keyword: UNWANTED. And if it's unwanted then u become a creep no matter how u look.
 

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Creepy is used to describe unwanted attention or behavior that makes u feel uncomfortable.

Key word is UNWANTED. Meaning if a guy I like flirts then it isn't creepy. Quite the opposite its welcomed.

But when someone you don't want anything to do with is giving UNWANTED attention then of course it's creepy. Because it makes u uncomfortable.

Why is this so hard for dudes to understand? Meanwhile u have a similar issue with women being "irritating".
A fine woman flirting with u and being persistent would be great. A hideous woman doing this would be horrid.

Ya'll overanalyzing this shyt.
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I've always wondered why this is so impossible for some men to understand. :wow:
They know this stuff. They're taking it personally because they aren't having success with the chick they want.

It's pretty simple stuff to know that unwanted affection or attention from anybody is creepy.
 

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Of course, and can get called creepy if they are doing too much.


And you using the word hot :dame:
 

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I know the best of both, used to be chubby all through grade school until I got my body right so I had to develop my gab to get what I wanted. When I was fat I had to deal with all the bullshyt until I laid that fire on em. :takedat:Only difference I notice now is that you ain't got to go through all the hoops when you got looks; basically game on easy mode, but it's all the same game in the end.
Having good looks is basically the equivalent of having good game, only off bat tho. If you a creep, you gonna get treated like one at the end of the day, no matter how good you look.
 

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Creepy is entirely related to her willingness to fukc.

Her ideal situation is a guy she is really feeling who will be bold enough to chase her with gusto.

Problem is: the dude who is pushing up is often not that high on the meter thus "annoying" to "scary"
 
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