Counter Racist Male
Retired poster and occasional lurker
First of all let me start by saying I love all black people.
But I am a foundational black American even though I was born and live most of my life in the big cities of the Northeast my roots are in the Deep South . That is also how I have lived my life so most of my lived experience is that of a black man in America.
My observation in my point of view is better off the met somebody of your own ethnic background.
If your black American you better off marrying another Foundation black American.
If you are a Haitian you better off marrying another Haitian
If your some sort of African like Nigerian and you're better off marrying somebody from your country.
I remember I had a homeboy who was in Jamaican and he told me he had to ditch his black girlfriend because she kept saying disrespectful things about his Pat's why and the way Jamaicans cook their food and the things that they ate. After a while it just got irritating.
I could not imagine having to explain certain things about being a black man in America to a woman from a Caribbean African or( Latin culture even if she is black).
Some of my immediate relatives who are older now have a lot of psychological problems because of the things they experienced growing up and the Jim Crow Mississippi & Alabama. It's just entirely too much work try each someone what it is like to be a foundational black American. And some of the things that we have been through.
But I am a foundational black American even though I was born and live most of my life in the big cities of the Northeast my roots are in the Deep South . That is also how I have lived my life so most of my lived experience is that of a black man in America.
My observation in my point of view is better off the met somebody of your own ethnic background.
If your black American you better off marrying another Foundation black American.
If you are a Haitian you better off marrying another Haitian
If your some sort of African like Nigerian and you're better off marrying somebody from your country.
I remember I had a homeboy who was in Jamaican and he told me he had to ditch his black girlfriend because she kept saying disrespectful things about his Pat's why and the way Jamaicans cook their food and the things that they ate. After a while it just got irritating.
I could not imagine having to explain certain things about being a black man in America to a woman from a Caribbean African or( Latin culture even if she is black).
Some of my immediate relatives who are older now have a lot of psychological problems because of the things they experienced growing up and the Jim Crow Mississippi & Alabama. It's just entirely too much work try each someone what it is like to be a foundational black American. And some of the things that we have been through.
I hate to to go there but I'm probably more of a man than most guys these days man. I see the world for what it is not for what I wanted to be I wanted to be. I know that they are boundaries.
