Elle Driver
Veteran
This is just ridiculous nit picking. I’m insulted.
Can we be honest about marriage and backgrounds?
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Counter Racist Male
Retired poster and occasional lurker
I think you buying it to other people's hate for me too much. Here's what happens
- Someone post a thread about racist white woman doing something (which happens fairly often here on the Coli )
- I use it as a teaching example to say "well you know most white women are at the racists and you usually get the raw end of the deal if you try to deal with them on a sexual level".
- A handful of guys get very upset with me and say"
hey all white women are not like that I mean I saw white woman a pornographic movie that proves that all white women fancy black men.
" 
I come back with a long
reply.- The same young guys get mad again. Rinse cycle repeat.
Counter Racist Male
Retired poster and occasional lurker
How do you feel that is nitpicking? You do know that the higher you go in most social hierarchies the more exclusive and smaller the marriage circles get right?
Suleiman Bey
Banned
Your example has nothing to do with race or gender.
If you are grown, pay your own bills and handle your business while minding your business, then you should date, marry and/or procreate with whoever you want so long as it is consensual.
There are no guarantees to ANY relationship working out! Either it work out it doesn't!
There are no guarantees to ANY relationship working out! Either it work out it doesn't!
That's about class status and wealth preservation moreso than culture.
Elle Driver
Veteran
You mean like high sadiddy light bright exclusive circles?
I think you buying it to other people's hate for me too much. Here's what happens
- Someone post a thread about racist white woman doing something (which happens fairly often here on the Coli )
- I use it as a teaching example to say "well you know most white women are at the racists and you usually get the raw end of the deal if you try to deal with them on a sexual level".
- A handful of guys get very upset with me and say"
- The same young guys get mad again. Rinse cycle repeat.
No, I don’t cuz even Ive agreed with some of your points, and you know it.
You just seem obsessed with non black women in regards to black men....do you want a non black woman? Seems a bit obsessive.
Theres more important things for a man to worry about than whose fukking who.
Counter Racist Male
Retired poster and occasional lurker
Of course you're right in every regard. But you're honestly going to tell me that you don't think you will have more success with a woman of your own background?
Burned Verses
Superstar
I mean, I can see it but stuff like that doesn't seem like that big of a deal. You probably go to work, chill at home afterwards, etc. like most people so I don't see how your life story is that unique to limit your dating options unless I'm missing something important
Counter Racist Male
Retired poster and occasional lurker
Not just them but many Elite circles all over the world. The higher you go up the more shallow the dating pool is. In fact that many people who knowingly Marry first and second cousins. In some places people are discouraged from marrying outside their tribe. Talk to some people in Africa and they will tell you about this. So I don't see why this is such a shameful practice to prefer to marry somebody who has your same exact ethnic background.
I’m AA and my current girlfriend is Haitian. Last girlfriend was from Zimbabwe. I come from a family of established professionals and so do they. We all more or less had the same experiences. The higher you go up the totem pole, the more you share the same experiences regardless of cultural background. The ambition, emphasis on education, professional experience, and social experience is all pretty much the same. With my Haitian girlfriend, our grandparents attended the same university around the same time, they belonged to the same religion that we’re in (Anglican), and they were involved in many of our AA organizations. The higher they went up, the more they start syncing into our existing networks.
Counter Racist Male
Retired poster and occasional lurker
They have very much to do not with race but ethnicity. There a lot of nuances in being a black American. Some people don't like us because of those nuances other people love us because of those nuances but they are there.
