Can we be honest about marriage and backgrounds?
- Thread starter Counter Racist Male
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All these new damn terms 
On another note, Im starting to see what everyone is saying about @THE HEAVEST
While he or she isnt always wrong....the only group of people (other than white men ofc) that obsessed over who black men were dating were online black women....particularly from LSAesque.
We get it, being the same background helps but opposites attract as well. That’s why theres so many mixed people in this world. It hasnt stopped and wont stop.
You do know theres other topics to talk about right?
While he or she isnt always wrong....the only group of people (other than white men ofc) that obsessed over who black men were dating were online black women....particularly from LSAesque.
We get it, being the same background helps but opposites attract as well. That’s why theres so many mixed people in this world. It hasnt stopped and wont stop.
You do know theres other topics to talk about right?
filial_piety
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I agree being black ain’t always just enough. My girl is West Indian and yeah, the differences in our cultures and what we’re use to are very obvious
Counter Racist Male
Retired poster and occasional lurker
Hey man it could work out for a lot of people just where I'm coming from it couldn't work out for me. Especially at my age I don't have the patience the first time you say something silly I'm walking away from.
Nada. You ain't going to convince me white women are like black women.
I've dated white women, black women, Asian , women from the carribean, America, Canada, uganada, Nigeria, Ghana, Botswana, Russia etc etc.
Same
They arent “like” each other but there both women. I shouldnt have to convince u what this means if u dealt with enough women.
Counter Racist Male
Retired poster and occasional lurker
Have you ever thought about it like this; I talked about black men dating XYZ women because I'm a black man.
I talk about who's doing what and what cannot and probably cannot work from a man's perspective. Another thing is that I'm a lot older than a lot of guys here. So I might come off as battle-hardened and jaded while a lot of these guys are very green and think they can do anything.
Almost doesn’t count. You won’t truly know what it takes to stay married until you are.
Marrying someone of the same background isn’t a guarantee for a successful marriage. If someone doesn’t take the time to learn you and care for you it won’t work.
The wives you described sound ignorant and comfortable in that jacket.
Yea but u obsess over it.
If u really are for only dating women of ur own background, u wouldnt discuss non black women so much. Common sense.
It’s kinda obsessive.
I don't agree. It's already hard mode finding a compatible woman now I gotta minimize my pool and compromise like fukk to only date Haitian American women 
Counter Racist Male
Retired poster and occasional lurker
You don't see the strength that being with somebody from the same tribe as you are though? What city are you from if you don't mind me asking?
Counter Racist Male
Retired poster and occasional lurker
I don't agree. It's already hard mode finding a compatible woman now I gotta minimize my pool and compromise like fukk to only date Haitian American women only
I'm not saying you have to but it's not a bad idea in the long run. I'm pretty sure you're more likely to long-term marital happiness with another Haitian woman then was a black woman from the southside of Chicago from a working-class family. Of course it could work yeah sure but the odds are in favor of you being happier with another Haitian woman.
have yet to meet one that didnt. that said i loved them all.