Can we talk about why the black family is still broken? Crack happened in the 80s and its 2018 now.

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

I hate threads like these.

One day, people will realise how much they’ve increased issues like these because of their style of dialogue...

it’s not healthy, it’s just lists of obvious problems.

 

[Chad Morris]

I hate threads like these. One day, people will realise how much they’ve increased issues like these because of their style of dialogue...

You may hate threads like these, but this is the absolute MAIN subject that needs to be addressed and not continue to be avoided.

It all starts with a strong household.

 

[Silver Surfer]

IG

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

You may hate threads like these, but this is the absolute MAIN subject that needs to be addressed and not continue to be avoided.

It all starts with a strong household.

People on this forum can’t hold positive conversations. Positive conversations are what’s needed, not reprisals of horrors.

it happens too much in this part of forum.

 

[Stuntone]

Feminism (independent women phenomenon) and glorifying & rewarding thug life

The type of men who make good fathers and have the intelligence to uplift a community aren't valued in the black community.

So it's over for the Black Community. Its run Single mothers and young thugs.

 

[ZoeGod]

The foundation of any civilization is the family. When the family is broken the civilization will unravel. The black community in America is still broken because we are entering the fourth generation of baby mother and fatherism. The cycle continues because we have a lot black boys and girls growing in homes without a father figure. A family needs a father in the household to not only be bringing home the bacon but to show his children what a real man is and yo guide them. Daughters typically date men who have traits just like her father. Sons need guidance from a father to teach them how to control their emotions, how to lead, be masculine etc. We see a lack of those things and it shows in the community.

 

[Htrb-nvr-blk-&-ug-as-evr]

I’m personally tired of all of the news pieces highlighting poor single black mothers getting help from churches, police, and charity groups during the holidays. I should be happy that that person is getting help, but it really saddens me and makes me realize how fuked our community really is. And it’s ALWAYS a single black mother they focus on...like they are the only ones suffering. I know we can’t do shyt about the media and our family structure is fuked, but man this image of single black mothers (holiday needy families, basketball/ football player success stories, singer success stories) kills me as it’s a hard truth that just gets pushed down our throats behind the facade of doing good deeds when it’s actually a way for them to show how messed up we are. Almost never see that with any other race...

 

[Mike18jj]

Feminism (independent women phenomenon) and glorifying thug life

The type of men who make good fathers and have the intelligence to uplift a community isn't valued in the black community.

So it's over for the Black Community

Growing up I saw this all the time even with my female family members picking the tatted up nikkas with multiple baby mamas over the clean cut dude with a great job. Now my aunt and nieces always come to the family gatherings lonely as shyt and always ask me do I know someone who I can hook them up with. No offense to women, but it has made me realize women are retarded when it comes to picking a good partner.

 

[ultraflexed]

poor decision making

This...but people hate accountability

 

[Nikki_04]

Growing up I saw this all the time even with my female family members picking the tatted up nikkas with multiple baby mamas over the clean cut dude with a great job. Now my aunt and nieces always come to the family gatherings lonely as shyt and always ask me do I know someone who I can hook them up with. No offense to woman, but it has made me realize woman are retarded when it comes to picking a good partner.

You act like "good" black men are falling from the tree. And even if there is a "good" black man, that does not mean he wants to be with your female family member or that they are compatible. You are simplifying things too much. Maybe your family members have issues as well, just like there are a ton of damaged men (that so conveniently don't get lumped with the general population of males) there are damaged women.

 

[ultraflexed]

I’m personally tired of all of the news pieces highlighting poor single black mothers getting help from churches, police, and charity groups during the holidays. I should be happy that that person is getting help, but it really saddens me and makes me realize how fuked our community really is. And it’s ALWAYS a single black mother they focus on...like they are the only ones suffering. I know we can’t do shyt about the media and our family structure is fuked, but man this image of single black mothers (holiday needy families, basketball/ football player success stories, singer success stories) kills me as it’s a hard truth that just gets pushed down our throats behind the facade of doing good deeds when it’s actually a way for them to show how messed up we are. Almost never see that with any other race...

That's because in the USA were at the bottom

 

[Chad Morris]

That's because in the USA were at the bottom

Absolutely no doubt about it we are at the very bottom.

We have to turn it around.

 

[Mike18jj]

You act like "good" black men are falling from the tree. And even if there is a "good" black man, that does not mean he wants to be with your female family member or that they are compatible. You are simplifying things too much. Maybe your family members have issues as well, just like there are a ton of damaged men (that so conveniently don't get lumped with the general population of males) there are damaged women.

All that your saying maybe true but this is the experience I've seen with my family and communities I've stayed in. My aunt is an doctor do you honestly think she couldn't find a great guy with a head on his shoulders if she wanted too? The point I'm saying is that it doesn't matter if there a doctor or crackhead, far to many black woman love nikkas who they know not hitting on shyt, then want to cry when shyt doesn't work out and he leaves them with a bunch of kids.

 

[Chad Morris]

All that your saying maybe true but this is the experience I've seen with my family and communities I've stayed in. My aunt is an doctor do you honestly think she couldn't find a great guy with a head on his shoulders if she wanted too? The point I'm saying is that it doesn't matter if there a doctor or crackhead, far to many black woman love nikkas who they know not hitting on shyt, then want to cry when shyt doesn't work out and he leaves them with a bunch of kids.

The thing about those women is WHO CARES ABOUT THOSE WOMEN!? eff them! They aren't wife material at all. They are clearly not right in the head to begin with if they are looking for "men" (more like little boys) like that.

Those are exactly the type of women that will cheat on you even if you are a thug/gangster. The moment you start becoming "soft" (wanting to get away from that thug life, start your own legitimate business, start having dreams and settling down), she will cheat on you with the younger/more thuggish worthless piece of scum shyt.

You see these worthless women all the time in your everyday lives at grocery stores. Looking mad as hell and mean mugging you while they are pushing a grocery cart all by themselves.

They deserve EXACTLY what they get.

 

[Wild self]

I need real women to,debunk that theory