Can women handle rejection?

[Brofato]

I think I handle rejection quite well. Never once have I insulted a guy because he wasn't interested in me.. can't say the same for men.

They can go from "Damn girl, you fine can I have your number?" to "fukk you, you ugly anyways bytch" once you let em know you ain't interested..

Rather ponder what I did wrong instead of hatin on the other person for not showing interest.

Those emotional ass guys are a trip. They're usually the mass messaging type too.

If a girl didn't want to talk to me

I get bored pretty quickly anyway.

But there's a difference between pondering and going into an all out war with your mind thinking about how ugly you look and how something must be wrong.

 

[DreadHead P]

most cant, thats why 8 out of 10 times if a woman's advances are not welcomed she will turn around and say "he must be gay"

 

[Brofato]

most cant, thats why 8 out of 10 times if a woman's advances are not welcomed she will turn around and say "he mus be gay"

Haha, I knew there was one I was forgetting.

 

[winb83]

I figure men handle it better because everything we do we have to take the risk of being shot down.

like i said in the other thread

i think the sting of rejection is worse for a woman. like i said a woman can't really in most cases beat the superficial judgments made about her the second a man looks at her. her potential is pretty much set in stone and she never had any power over it.

as a man if a chick shoots you down you can work on your personality, body, or finances and get better chicks than her with effort. as a woman if she gets rejected in many ways that's her bumping her head against the glass ceiling of her potential.

 

[dunkman6]

Some of them act salty just like dudes. They just show it in a different way.

 

[HiphopRelated]

gonna call you gay, that's their quickest retort.

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

I think I handle rejection quite well. Never once have I insulted a guy because he wasn't interested in me.. can't say the same for men.

They can go from "Damn girl, you fine can I have your number?" to "fukk you, you ugly anyways bytch" once you let em know you ain't interested..

Rather ponder what I did wrong instead of hatin on the other person for not showing interest.

what characteristics makes some guys uninteresting?

 

[NubianVitruvian]

Women, like flowers can't wait to be pollinated by that Killer Bee ass nikka. So she will blossom and phara-moan, to attract said Killer Bee. However after attracting, killing and crushing many weaker bees, a La the Black Widow. She may become isolated and or a tad conceited.

When that King Killer Bee comes round, and is unfazed by all her charms, she cannot help but turn to face the sun, after he off into it. A rejection occurs when she doesn't realize how good she could have had it in the first place.

Remain intangible, brehs. Rejection is the crux of seduction. Keep em in a state of flux. It empowers her to step her game up and vice versa.

 

[Lord Beasley]

attractive women don't handle it well b/c it takes the "power " out of their hands.

 

[*Angel*]

If a woman actually likes a guy, rejection may sting, but men look at women as numbers on average and still look at each rejection as a personal loss. Men do NOT have the upper hand on dealing with rejection/loss/emotions in comparison to women.

And I for one have never been denied sex in my commited relationships (or fwb) so I can't even imagine what type of relationship/bond exists between a man and woman where that happens.

 

[AMcV'88]

most cant, thats why 8 out of 10 times if a woman's advances are not welcomed she will turn around and say "he must be gay"

this happened to me once and to cut a long story short....

in school some girl had a crush on me for years, i never cared for her until she got a new hairstyle (had the long soft curls, i love them) and i smashed.
i never wanted anything she did.. so she'd start texting me abuse and hanging up when calling.
i used to write my name in the buildings we hung out in.. next to my name she'd write "is gay"
but everytime she saw me and if she was drunk she'd still try to get with me.

one night i was taking my cousins to get something to eat, one my age the other a little girl of 10.. we're on our way and said girl and her and her friend came up to me and were all over me like a rash and basically offered to me on a plate... was disgusting behaviour in front of a kid but looking back, i should have bounced and took that potential threesome.

word spread about her thirst and she got humbled because she was seeing someone at the time.
that same someone she had a kid to the guy and got engaged not long after like 4 years later.

when i see her, she puts her head down and keeps it moving.

 

[RealAssanova]

Its funny, when a relationship breaks off and a n!gga takes proper precautions to go absolutely no-contact on homegirl, watch shorty trip.

 

[SouthernBelle]

women are also shot down in many ways but in different ways than men.

Right! Rejection is rejection whether it happens in the beginning or the end. When negroes decide to go ghost (which has happened to just about all the women I know), that is rejection. I don't personally know one woman who had a nervous break down or died from it

 

[AAKing23]

Nope

 

[SouthernBelle]

Its funny, when a relationship breaks off and a n!gga takes proper precautions to go absolutely no-contact on homegirl, watch shorty trip.

You haven't seen men act like that? My friend's ex was on faux suicide watch just the other night because she doesn't want to hang out with him like that anymore/she wants distance from him after HE broke it off with her.

Just like someone I dated, he called her selfish because she didn't want to be his "friend" since they weren't together anymore.

Humans are humans.