Can Ya Girl Be Too Friendly?

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Yes but I don't believe in controlling women. Some people are just very extroverted and gregarious, that's their nature.
That's fine and all. It just shouldn't make her look easy or thirsty coz that makes the man look worse.

I dated a girl who entertained and was friendly to every guy. Calls come in multiple times a day, sometimes after 10pm. All you get is 'Oh that's my friend Kevin'. That shyt is frustrating as hell.

Then you meet some of the guys and they stare at you like you the opp.
 

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That's fine and all. It just shouldn't make her look easy or thirsty coz that makes the man look worse.

I dated a girl who entertained and was friendly to every guy. Calls come in multiple times a day, sometimes after 10pm. All you get is 'Oh that's my friend Kevin'. That shyt is frustrating as hell.

Then you meet some of the guys and they stare at you like you the opp.
Phone calls sound like a bit much.

I was thinking more on the lines of being in a social settings and having conversations with different people or being friendly with service workers.

Allowing superficial social interaction to become a regular part of daily life would be an issue.
 

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I wouldn’t date/be with a woman that didn’t understand boundaries or that didn’t know what too friendly means…


We grown adults. I’m not ya boss, but I’m also coming in with certain expectations. I’d expect my woman to have an idea of what “too friendly” is and never cross that line.
 

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That's fine and all. It just shouldn't make her look easy or thirsty coz that makes the man look worse.

I dated a girl who entertained and was friendly to every guy. Calls come in multiple times a day, sometimes after 10pm. All you get is 'Oh that's my friend Kevin'. That shyt is frustrating as hell.

Then you meet some of the guys and they stare at you like you the opp.



Now that’s different :mjlol:
 

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I wouldn’t date/be with a woman that didn’t understand boundaries or that didn’t know what too friendly means…


We grown adults. I’m not ya boss, but I’m also coming in with certain expectations. I’d expect my woman to have an idea of what “too friendly” is and never cross that line.
Wait wait wait...that's not fair. People have completely different interpretations of "too friendly."

I would consider "too friendly" while in a relationship as entertaining other people or being physically inappropriate.

However, some people feel like being "too friendly" as having a short conversation with a waiter or cashier.
 

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If her interactions are constantly giving men the wrong idea, that she is romantically or sexually interested in them, then it needs to be addressed.
If a man knows his woman is friendly, and her behavior is consistent, I don't see the problem if it is not causing other men or women to get the wrong idea.
I also don't think the way studs frame a relationship with women is the same for men in relationships with women.
 
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