Can Ya Girl Be Too Friendly?

[Braman]

I dated a girl who entertained and was friendly to every guy. Calls come in multiple times a day, sometimes after 10pm. All you get is 'Oh that's my friend Kevin'. That shyt is frustrating as hell.

Then you meet some of the guys and they stare at you like you the opp.

This site has become Reddit

 

[Kasper KArr]

Ok so for context my shorty just happens to be @Double Burger With Cheese momma

So before I took her from her ex cop husband, she was friendly with others, KeKe’ing and shyt you know just a goofy to be frank. But once she got with me, I made her cut that shyt out. And she learned with me. So naw she ain’t friendly but used to be. I’m sure when I leave her and she goes back to the cop she gonna be friendly again.

 

[Regular Developer]

Wait wait wait...that's not fair. People have completely different interpretations of "too friendly."

I would consider "too friendly" while in a relationship as entertaining other people or being physically inappropriate.

However, some people feel like being "too friendly" as having a short conversation with a waiter or cashier.

That's OD. At that point, you might as well find yourself a mute...though I guess sign language would probably also be too much. I dunno what to say about that part

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

That's OD. At that point, you might as well find yourself a mute...though I guess sign language would probably also be too much. I dunno what to say about that part

That's where I see the accusations start the most.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

If you have to ask…

 

[Buckeye Fever]

Me and my homeboys were out with our women and one of the women(not mine, she knows better)was actin' extra friendly to a dude at the bar. We get our drinks and go chill on the couches. About 15 mins later, that dude walks towards us and asks Ms friendly "can I have this dance?" He said that shít all elegant and regal too like "daunce"

He took her by the hand and they danced to Lloyd & Wayne's "You"

You woulda thought I was lip syncin' the way I looked at my homie and said "Stop! Wait a minute...."

 

[Braman]

What don’t you understand? If a man had to ask you ‘what does it mean to be masculine?’ what would you think? Ok then.

 

[Braman]

Wait wait wait...that's not fair. People have completely different interpretations of "too friendly."

I would consider "too friendly" while in a relationship as entertaining other people or being physically inappropriate.

However, some people feel like being "too friendly" as having a short conversation with a waiter or cashier.

What you mean ‘fair’ lmao

He gave the answer that any self respecting man should make. It doesn’t need to be “fair”. That’s what boundaries are. They don’t have to make sense to anyone but that person.

The irony is, women complain a lot about lack of masculine men or men who don’t lead, yet you be on here with the most fluid ambiguous wishy washy feminist takes and in real life if a man was agreeable with you on these——you would not want him at ALL.

“I like a man who don’t set the tone and dont have a code and is open to all of my bullshyt”- Said no woman ever.

 

[TripleAgent]

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Me and my homeboys were out with our women and one of the women(not mine, she knows better)was actin' extra friendly to a dude at the bar. We get our drinks and go chill on the couches. About 15 mins later, that dude walks towards us and asks Ms friendly "can I have this dance?" He said that shít all elegant and regal too like "daunce"

He took her by the hand and they danced to Lloyd & Wayne's "You"

You woulda thought I was lip syncin' the way I looked at my homie and said "Stop! Wait a minute...."

You and your dikktales

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

What don’t you understand? If a man had to ask you ‘what does it mean to be masculine?’ what would you think? Ok then.

I would tell him; not try to make him play Ms. Cleo

Ya'll run from conversations like they’re poisonous.



I'm pretty sure what you think is masculine is very different than what I think is masculine.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

What you mean ‘fair’ lmao

He gave the answer that any self respecting man should make. It doesn’t need to be “fair”. That’s what boundaries are. They don’t have to make sense to anyone but that person.

The irony is, women complain a lot about lack of masculine men or men who don’t lead, yet you be on here with the most fluid ambiguous wishy washy feminist takes and in real life if a man was agreeable with you on these——you would not want him at ALL.

“I like a man who don’t set the tone and dont have a code and is open to all of my bullshyt”- Said no woman ever.

I wasn't speaking to you. He can speak for himself. Hold your masculine frame. It's starting to give emotional.

 

[Braman]

I would tell him; not try to make him play Ms. Cleo

Ya'll run from conversations like they’re poisonous.



I'm pretty sure what you think is masculine is very different than what I think is masculine.

1- I promise I don’t care what any woman thinks is masculine.

2- Everything ain’t meant to be a “conversation”. That’s the difference between men and women. Women want to explore, diagnose, fix. Instead of seeing the sign early and acting accordingly. When we say ‘chose better’, that’s exactly what we mean.

 

[Braman]

I wasn't speaking to you. He can speak for himself. Hold your masculine frame. It's starting to give emotional.

Ngga this ain’t your DM’s. Nor is it Ig, Twitter, etc. That passive aggressive shyt don’t work here.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

1- I promise I don’t care what any woman thinks is masculine.

2- Everything ain’t meant to be a “conversation”. That’s the difference between men and women. Women want to explore, diagnose, fix. Instead of seeing the sign early and acting accordingly. When we say ‘chose better’, that’s exactly what we mean.

1. Then why did you bring it up?

2. There are literally several different definitions give by men in this thread. If you can't vocalize it just say that.