Can Ya Girl Be Too Friendly?

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Ngga this ain’t your DM’s. Nor is it Ig, Twitter, etc. That passive aggressive shyt don’t work here.

I was direct; not passive.

I know direct conversations aren't your thing so you probably didn't recognize that.

Expecting people to read your mind is passive.

 

[Braman]

1. Then why did you bring it up?

2. There are literally several different definitions give by men in this thread. If you can't vocalize it just say that.

Again, passive aggressive will get you nowhere. Maybe you’re used to younger dudes

Passive aggressively adding value to something that I don’t already value is an argument tactic young chicks use. In other words, we don’t “vocalize” prerequisites over here. If I even felt I gotta tell you, that’s a sign you ain’t it

And I think you get that once you exit ‘win argument mode’. If you gotta tell a man to get your flowers, tell a man to open your door, tell a man…. yea, I think you understand. You just don’t like to be wrong

 

[The Villain]

Yeah I got a homegirl that's like that I can't believe her man just goes along w/ it.

But the flip is he's about to be a doctor bringing in hella bread and she's straight up said that he aint finding a finer chick than her (she probably right, dude is square as fukk), and she aint giving up the 8 years or whatever she's invested in him becoming a doctor in order to find some dude she's more physically attracted to. I give her credit she scouted this dude like sophomore year of college and knew she could run him for life.

Sometimes I have to remind her to tighten up when we hang out in mixed company cause she be on me more than her man, and it's also throwing off whatever game I'm trying to run on other women in/around the circle.

I also have to remind her to just not talk to random nikkas in general when we go to like conventions and shyt because nikkas is either socially awkward weirdos, tryna fukk, or both. So I'll turn around for like 2 secs and she off talking to some random mf and then text me like "Help!" . I already told you to not talk to random nikkas, but she can't help it she's dumb af, genuinely outgoing and is easily distracted like a squirrel or something. Bad combo. Couldn't be my girl.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Again, passive aggressive will get you nowhere. Maybe you’re used to younger dudes

Passive aggressively adding value to something that I don’t already value is an argument tactic young chicks use. In other words, we don’t “vocalize” prerequisites over here. If I even felt I gotta tell you, that’s a sign you ain’t it

And I think you get that once you exit ‘win argument mode’. If you gotta tell a man to get your flowers, tell a man to open your door, tell a man…. yea, I think you understand. You just don’t like to be wrong

You don't know they definition of passive. You keep using it incorrectly.

You are advocating for passive behavior because that's where you exist

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Yeah I got a homegirl that's like that I can't believe her man just goes along w/ it.

But the flip is he's about to be a doctor bringing in hella bread and she's straight up said that he aint finding a finer chick than her (she probably right, dude is square as fukk), and she aint giving up the 8 years or whatever she's invested in him becoming a doctor in order to find some dude she's more physically attracted to. I give her credit she scouted this dude like sophomore year of college and knew she could run him for life.

Sometimes I have to remind her to tighten up when we hang out in mixed company cause she be on me more than her man, and it's also throwing off whatever game I'm trying to run on other women in/around the circle.

I also have to remind her to just not talk to random nikkas in general when we go to like conventions and shyt because nikkas is either socially awkward weirdos, tryna fukk, or both. So I'll turn around for like 2 secs and she off talking to some random mf and then text me like "Help!" . I already told you to not talk to random nikkas, but she can't help it she's dumb af, genuinely outgoing and is easily distracted like a squirrel or something. Bad combo. Couldn't be my girl.

She's gonna have a rude awakening.

Another woman doesn't need to look better to take her man. That 8 years of no proposal should be a huge red flag.

 

[Braman]

You don't know they definition of passive. You keep using it incorrectly.

You are advocating for passive behavior because that's where you exist

Word word. Again, that ‘someone disagrees with me I’ll just tell them they don’t get it’ is not gonna work here.

 

[The Villain]

She's gonna have a rude awakening.

Another woman doesn't need to look better to take her man. That 8 years of no proposal should be a huge red flag.

Oh nah thats what made it extra weird recently. They got engaged last year and married last month and even after the wedding she still be overly familiar as hell

I remember having to tell her she needed to wear her engagement ring more often, put her fiance in her IG bio and post more shyt w/ him because she'd always complain about nikkas trying to slide in her DMs. I'm like "well you don't really give off committed woman so what do you expect men to do?"

 

[Buckeye Fever]

You and your dikktales

 

[Save $ not Hoes]

 

[Mr.Bigglesworth]

I been stop caring. She can be friendly and flirtatious all she wants. She wanna cheat, all I ask is she bring us back some money. If she gonna be a bad girlfriend, at least be a good hoe.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Word word. Again, that ‘someone disagrees with me I’ll just tell them they don’t get it’ is not gonna work here.

words have meanings...crazy concept I know

 

[MischievousMonkey]

She can be not friendly enough

I don't want a rude ass girl

 

[King_Kamala61]

The older I get and in my life of work I have numerous opportunities to engage with women, and often leads to me asking to paint them. Any woman I get with has to be cool with me doing art if beautiful women. Unless she wants to be in every fukking painting I do.

But I'd also would give her a key to my studio so it wouldn't be an issue if she pops up.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

The older I get and in my life of work I have numerous opportunities to engage with women, and often leads to me asking to paint them. Any woman I get with has to be cool with me doing art if beautiful women. Unless she wants to be in every fukking painting I do.

But I'd also would give her a key to my studio so it wouldn't be an issue if she pops up.

What does this have to do with the topic?

 

[King_Kamala61]

What does this have to do with the topic?

Cause I be extra friendly with women