Can you handle a chick having FWB when y'all met?

[International Playa]

No girl in this day and age usually doesn’t have a dude up in her.

BUT there are girls who don’t just have casual sex. I know TheColi would have you thinking otherwise, but it’s true. There are girls who are still conservatives and only give it up to dudes they know will lock them down.

The thing is, men usually overlook these women because she doesn’t give it up. We really make our own bed sometimes.

True, thecoli be too extreme

There are some women who are truly single & dont fukk around like that. These types of women tend to be overlooked by many guys because she dont give up to quick, she average, boring, too religious, only goes work & home etc. These are the women you wife up

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

Paying for shyt with the intentions of cuffing while another man smut her out for free. A woman with a fwb should not be dating.

 

[desjardins]

You moving goalposts.
Your OP said exclusive, now you changed it to marriage.


Regarding your OP, yes... she will keep having sex with other men until you are exclusive. That's what exclusivity means



I'm not even American and I understand how dating works better than some of ya'll

Naw "wifey" is just slang for a gf. Don't mean you married.

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

Depends.

How long did it take her to start messing with FWB dude? Like if she met him one night at the club, had a one night stand and then kept him on as FWB.........that's fine. However, if she then turns around and wants to "wait" a few months before getting physical with me.......straight basura .

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

This is the man she’s truly attracted and attached to. Not everything is black and white, but every time I’ve witness women I know do this, usually the guy was extremely good-looking and didn’t want to comit to her.

Good point.

You never see women with ugly FWB's. Sometimes, it's because they know breh is grimy. However, if he straightened his act up, she'd be begging to get wifed. Women will settle for less if a breh is attractive.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

I would feel some kinda way if she wouldn't let me hit after telling me she letting somebody else hit

 

[badtguy]

She had bfs but obviously she wanted more with dude, a famed local rapper, but he obviously didn’t feel the same way.

I just needed her to be real about and wallow in her shame.

Your gf may tell you that the dude wasn't serious, mistreated her, wasted her time, or it wasn't anything serious but she like most women will act hella different if the dude actually wants to comitt to her.

my gf was the same way she said all types of shyt about her ex. 2 years ago, he sent her a fb message and that hoe reacted the opposite way

SHE Told me he used her, wasted her time, wasn't serious about anything. She would never date him again

Lol but in the convo she was laughing, joking with him, asking him about his family and his new relationship and that nikka stopped messaging her back. Lmfao

All I'm saying is I would never date a broken bytch with low self-esteem they always got lingering issues.

I'm willing to admit I am taking a major L. If my gf wasn't my good friend who helped me out alot I would never date her. Tf

Edit. -matter fact we helped eachother out

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Your gf may tell you that the dude wasn't serious, mistreated her, wasted her time, or it wasn't anything serious but she like most women will act hella different if the dude actually wants to comitt to her.

my gf was the same way she said all types of shyt about her ex. 2 years ago, he sent her a fb message and that hoe reacted the opposite way

SHE Told me he used her, wasted her time, wasn't serious about anything. She would never date him again

Lol but in the convo she was laughing, joking with him, asking him about his family and his new relationship and that nikka stopped messaging her back. Lmfao

All I'm saying is I would never date a broken bytch with low self-esteem they always got lingering issues.

I'm willing to admit I am taking a major L. If my gf wasn't my good friend who helped me out alot I would never date her. Tf

Edit. -matter fact we helped eachother out

I’ve had the same grievance in regards to this particular dude. He hit her up in October on IG begging for them to “make up” but no reply from her. We started talking in September. So, I know I have her heart now just didn’t appreciate her playing it like it was nothing and didn’t care for more.

 

[Poitier]

Unless she's celibate, she's fukking somebody before you meet

That celibate shyt usually means " Imma hoe, but I want to try something different"

The funniest shyt is when you let them talk long enough, they expose themselves and all that “I haven’t had sex in ....... weeks/months” talk is clearly

bytch, you got my dikk in your mouth after knowing me for a week max and you were dodging dikks for months before this?

I hadn’t come across a girl claiming celibacy until recently.


She stayed with a roster and has a female sex positivety mindset, so the switch up is

Only people I can see putting up with a true celibate chick is a dude with hoes on the side waiting it out or a dude with absolutely no options.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

I hadn’t come across a girl claiming celibacy until recently.


She stayed with a roster and has a female sex positivety mindset, so the switch up is

Only people I can see putting up with a true celibate chick is a dude with hoes on the side waiting it out or a dude with absolutely no options.

I’ve been told that, to only be fukking shortly after.

 

[Poitier]

I’ve been told that, to only be fukking shortly after.

Seems like its a poorly misguided strategy to weed out guys who’ll pump and dump not realizing guys will wait an insanely long time for p*ssy they have no desire to commit to.

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

Brehs under 21, look at the finesse from a brehette. Key statement is bolded. Dont get finesse into being the dude working for her

Yet men on this very board talk about a roster...and a starter gf to improve themselves...foh

 

[Ohene]

A lot of yall have unknowingly

exactly

its not something a chick should tell me. i assume it anyways but hearing it would make me use shorty as a bussdown...unless shes that cool

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

I agree with you but a nikka should be concerned if the chick has never had a serious bf in the last 3 years. that just says shes a hoe or shes a lame.

Like how can a bytch go 5-7 years without a bf? wtf

You're going to the extreme and also putting two posters stories together.

The OP is talking about a chick his friend met. We don't know how long she's been "just fukkin" and with who.

That addicted to hoes guys is talking about some chick messing with the same nikka for 7 years...look at username, not to mention was this the ONLY guy she was messing with for 7 years...

 

[Sassy]

Dont ask, dont tell.....