Can you handle a chick having FWB when y'all met?

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She played you by admitting that she’s currently fukkin somebody

We are all aware of these realities but she still gotta sell herself a bit

If they do speak on a past nikka it should be in the context of how much better you are, and even then it should be checked
 

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If you just trying to duck, then why would you care who else she is fukkin?

Next, why would you entertain the thought of starting a relationship with a woman who has a current fukk buddy?

Look, when you deal with people, you have to use common sense. For me, I don't want to share any woman I am dating exclusively. I don't want to do any type of courtship.

If a woman wants to do her and have multiple bed buddies, then cool. As long as I get mine and she is clean, then cool. Other than that, I will deal with her until something better comes along.
 

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Any woman with FWB is automatically classified as a ho to me. I'm relatively conservative.:ehh:

That's fair.

Trust me when I say there are alot of women like-minded, and i'm sure you'll get one.


But generally speaking, if you aren't exclusive with a woman, and she isn't a virgin, she's probably having sex with somebody :yeshrug:
 

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Shouldnt matter if she got a fwb. Whats more important is if you are a priority to her or not. You will know it if you are. She will be down to hang out anytime you are ready and easy to reach on the phone or text at all times. If a chick doesn't make her self available to you then you should be looking to be that fwb instead of dating her cause she aint feeling you like that and already put you in that category.
 
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Just because it's reality don't mean y'all should be putting that out in the street. If she admit she fukkin someone but making you wait then go find someone who won't make u wait :yeshrug:

I don't got time for these games, all this "talking" bullshyt, I hate the words "we're talkin" it don't mean shyt but "I ain't committed" :mjlol:
 

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I'm troubled by a similar situation with a cat my lady was fukking on and off for 7 years.

She says never ever considered him "relationship material" but on and off for 7 years is crucial.

I'm secure and straight all over just bothers me that she tries to make it out like its nothing when its a big deal.
Now this some shyt a player can feel somebody post some isley brothers
 

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Just because it's reality don't mean y'all should be putting that out in the street. If she admit she fukkin someone but making you wait then go find someone who won't make u wait :yeshrug:

I don't got time for these games, all this "talking" bullshyt, I hate the words "we're talkin" it don't mean shyt but "I ain't committed" :mjlol:
Thats just dumb if you even mention p*ssy we fukking
 

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You are a man. She is a woman. You can hopefully disassociate sex from emotion. She most likely can’t.

Women's have been disassociating sex from emotion since the beginning of time :mjlol:

You think prostitutes get emotional when they fukk? :mjlol:

You nikkas need to stop putting p*ssy on a pedestal. CHICKS CAN JUST fukk WITH NO EMOTIONS ATTACHED
 

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No girl in this day and age usually doesn’t have a dude up in her.

BUT there are girls who don’t just have casual sex. I know TheColi would have you thinking otherwise, but it’s true. There are girls who are still conservatives and only give it up to dudes they know will lock them down.

The thing is, men usually overlook these women because she doesn’t give it up. We really make our own bed sometimes.
 
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