Can you handle a chick having FWB when y'all met?

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She will...

Been there already :coffee:

If she likes you more she’s gonna be around you more and start disappearing on nikkas.

Its cool either way to me.
These lames be hype pulling one woman :mjlol:
Roster ?:mjlol:
 

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Guys the very first sentence in the OP says OBVIOUSLY a chick is fukking someone when y'all meet :comeon:

This is more about a chick looking you in the face and telling you about it then telling you she going keep fukking him until you wife her up. There should be a level of decorum imo if you trying convince someone to start a relationship with you, that all
 

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You only 1st string when its exclusive and even then for some its only while they bring in 1st string benefits.

You'll be better off the sooner you realize you're probably one of X amount of dudes on a roster when you 1st start getting to know a chick, even if they tell you otherwise.
 

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I'm troubled by a similar situation with a cat my lady was fukking on and off for 7 years.

She says never ever considered him "relationship material" but on and off for 7 years is crucial.

I'm secure and straight all over just bothers me that she tries to make it out like its nothing when its a big deal.
 

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I'm troubled by a similar situation with a cat my lady was fukking on and off for 7 years.

She says never ever considered him "relationship material" but on and off for 7 years is crucial.

I'm secure and straight all over just bothers me that she tries to make it out like its nothing when its a big deal.
7 years & it was just nothing:mjlol:

Its been proven, the more times a woman has sex with a dude, the more attached she becomes & falls in love
 

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I'm secure and straight all over just bothers me that she tries to make it out like its nothing when its a big deal.

yea either dude a real bum she would never be with but the dikk was just that amazing she strung him along for 7 years
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she really wanted a relationship but couldn't get it from him for whatever reason

i say this as a guy who strung a chick along for over a decade
 

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OMG a woman who had a sex life before YOU (or your friend) met her :mjlol:

You're assuming the dude she messing with is a bum. Maybe they didn't want the same things. Weren't compatible. But omg, here it comes, those sexual urges and needs we all have.

I swear men and women hate honesty from each other.
 

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yea either dude a real bum she would never be with but the dikk was just that amazing she strung him along for 7 years
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she really wanted a relationship but couldn't get it from him for whatever reason

i say this as a guy who strung a chick along for over a decade
Not according to her. I've even seen thotty ass messages she sent to him. :yeshrug:

She's a great woman it just bothers me that she didn't value herself then.
 

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Like obviously someone was fukking her before you met. But once y'all start talking can you except her getting fukked by a fukk buddy until y'all become exclusive? She claims she doesn't want a relationship with the dude, it's only sex with him :gucci:

This recently came up in my circle and the problem to me is.....if he not relationship material but she keep him around for dikk...then the dikk must be good :dwillhuh:

Good enough that his full time job is fukking her until some simp comes along.

Then once yall become official in the back of your head how can you even be sure she cut dude off. I told my guy to smash and move on, she fukked up by being honest :scust:
Kick her to the fukking curb.
 

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Not according to her. I've even seen thotty ass messages she sent to him. :yeshrug:

She's a great woman it just bothers me that she didn't value herself then.

Becuz she wanted sum dikk thats why:mjlol:


Nikkaz better accept that women are sexual beings & have sexual/canal needs too
 

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All this drip on me
Yeah I can handle that. I assume most attractive women have a roster of nikkas or some select few male "friends" who could potentially smash under the right circumstance :yeshrug:

The bottom line is while you're in the talking stage with a woman - never be shocked if she's entertaining/talking to other guys.

The more attractive you are, the more options you have - this is something that applies to both genders.
So if a chick tells me she had a FWB, thats cool I'll just tell her to dead that and make him old news. I'll do the same on my end.
 
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