Can you handle a chick having FWB when y'all met?

[Keep_It_Hip_Hop_Fam]

What she isn't truthfully telling your friend is that the fukk BUDDY DOESN'T WANT TO COMMIT TO HER.

 

[CoochieMane]

I've been the FWB quite a few times, they be talking to these nikkas for weeks while still letting you hit and hiding it from you

 

[Verbal Kint]

Man yall young nikkas got it rough. Gotta just come to terms with the football fields worth of dikk yards your boo done took just to kiss her

 

[onthereal]

Depends on how much I like her. If she got bodies and I’m only there to smash doesn’t really phase me that much. If I’m trying to lock her down then I make that known.

Can’t be surprised these days if a chick getting DMs. Thirst levels are at an all-time high because of social media. Every nikka thinks they have a shot

 

[Reno89]

Newsflash, every chick under 30 is smashing someone when you meet them. The more serious she's trying to be with you, the less happy she is with the dude she's smashing. On the flip side, the flakier/less serious she's trying to be with you, the more happy she is with the dude she's smashing

 

[RoGethoes]

Most of the time a friends with benefits relationships entails a chick smashing a dude she couldn't lock down for a relationship.

And you on the coli debating wether you should wife that.lol.

 

[James Gordon]

The more serious she's trying to be with you, the less happy she is with the dude she's smashing. On the flip side, the flakier/less serious she's trying to be with you, the more happy she is with the dude she's smashing

Good angle

 

[The_Truth]

What woman would be dumb enough to actually admit this upfront?

 

[monsterpreneur]

“Women are never truly single” is a saying for a reason. Most y’all dated women that were fukking other men while y’all were in the talking stage.

 

[monsterpreneur]

I'm troubled by a similar situation with a cat my lady was fukking on and off for 7 years.

She says never ever considered him "relationship material" but on and off for 7 years is crucial.

I'm secure and straight all over just bothers me that she tries to make it out like its nothing when its a big deal.

This is the man she’s truly attracted and attached to. Not everything is black and white, but every time I’ve witness women I know do this, usually the guy was extremely good-looking and didn’t want to comit to her.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Newsflash, every chick under 30th smashing someone when you meet them. The more serious she's trying to be with you, the less happy she is with the dude she's smashing. On the flip side, the flakier/less serious she's trying to be with you, the more happy she is with the dude she's smashing

 

[Taadow]

Every girl is fukking a nikka or 2...or 3...or 6 while she talks to you lol

I just had to learn to accept it

amended

 

[Crayola Coyote]

I don't talk to hookers

 

[Gold]

What kinda question is this??


If she's single when you meet, she's fukking her friends (its what single people do)
If she's in a relationship when you meet, she's fukking her bf (its what people in relationships do)

Unless she's celibate, she's fukking somebody before you meet

 

[Gold]

Guys the very first sentence in the OP says OBVIOUSLY a chick is fukking someone when y'all meet

This is more about a chick looking you in the face and telling you about it then telling you she going keep fukking him until you wife her up. There should be a level of decorum imo if you trying convince someone to start a relationship with you, that all

You moving goalposts.
Your OP said exclusive, now you changed it to marriage.


Regarding your OP, yes... she will keep having sex with other men until you are exclusive. That's what exclusivity means



I'm not even American and I understand how dating works better than some of ya'll