Can you respect a girl who gave it up too soon?

[Kalik]

Lets get real, sometimes you meet a man and all you want to do is fukk. You have no interest in being their girl. You don't apologise for fukking them too quickly, and if they are good in bed you'll fukk a few times.

Other times you meet someone you want to leave an impression on, so you make them wait - make them understand what you want from them and hopefully when you do fukk they still take you seriously as a potential partner.

Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't. But it's not just sex that makes a girl a good partner. How she carries herself, what she is doing with her life will make sex too quickly a make or break.

Make the good nikka wait... fukk the bad dude quick.

Ok gotcha

 

[LEEeveryday]

Yes I could.

It's a sign she isn't shackled to what society say she should be doing.

Just 1 piece of the puzzle tho...

 

[the cac mamba]

The hell? Is this a real relationship or is he simply using her for sex? I feel like her feelings are about to get hurt in the next few months.

why cant she be using him

 

[Deflatedhoopdreams]

Depends if she gives it up fast to everyone or she just really liked me

This. If you have a long distance relationship and feel you like a person enough to give up the box.

 

[Gusto]

If a chick didn't give it up soon, I wouldn't be around long enough to figure out whether I'm going to respect her or not.

So I suppose the answer is... yes

 

[jwonder]

Depends if I get along with her or not. There is never a time table when to give it up. If the chemistry is there is there.

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

Lets get real, sometimes you meet a man and all you want to do is fukk. You have no interest in being their girl. You don't apologise for fukking them too quickly, and if they are good in bed you'll fukk a few times.

Other times you meet someone you want to leave an impression on, so you make them wait - make them understand what you want from them and hopefully when you do fukk they still take you seriously as a potential partner.

Sometimes it works out (5% of the time), sometimes it doesn't(95% of the time). But it's not just sex that makes a girl a good partner. How she carries herself, what she is doing with her life will make sex too quickly a make or break.

I learned of this before I started fukking by watching other people and made sure to be on LADDER A
rather than LADDER B. I've been caught on ladder b...still got the p*ssy...and made sure to get EXTRA SCARCE afterward.
Ladder B people are the queens of the "hey stranger" after age 30. No. Offer declined, old friend. Let's just smoke some weed.

 

[Deflatedhoopdreams]

I respect a woman that moves like a woman.
truth is women will dead alot of games
after getting sex out of the way.....
alot of cats will wait it out and bullshyt
after a woman gives in.
I say if a woman wanna fukk.......fukk.
once sex is out of the way youre gonna see
the real dude.

This is true with me. If I'm sticking around you will know really quick after I fukk you.

 

[Ms. Elaine]

why cant she be using him

Hm, you might be on to something.

 

[Pazzy]

No offense but why do you care? No love life of your own?


You sound like someone who is lonely with no man to call your own and you see that your friend is doing what you wish you could do so you're rooting for her to fail. If she's enjoying herself, let her live.

 

[PaperEnterprise]

What I don't understand is this chick is smart too, has her own career. I don't understand why she feels like she has to act like this.

Being smart doesnt grant one with security

 

[Ms. Elaine]

No offense but why do you care? No love life of your own?


You sound like someone who is lonely with no man to call your own and you see that your friend is doing what you wish you could do so you're rooting for her to fail. If she's enjoying herself, let her live.

Nah.

And I don't consider her a friend and I have zero aspirations of being a thot. My main issue with her isn't even the fact that she's having sex freely but more so that she's broadcasting this shyt and thinking it makes her look good. It does not.

She's setting herself up.

 

[Jesus]

My best relationship I took her home within 15 minutes of saying hello...if the bytch is feeling you she'll make exceptions to the rule.

 

[ignorethis]

Most nikkas don't, there's like a mental block once a woman fukks too fast.

My gf was telling about her roommate going through this, she really liked a dude so she fukked him first date, after that he wouldn't take her serious as anything other than p*ssy and she was all hurt.

They were trying to villianize dude, but I told her that's his right to think like that

 

[Cynic]

Listen, I'm pretty old fashioned and I've slut shamed a lot of people in my life time but I can't help but wonder about what guys think about this: could you respect a girl who gave it up way too soon? Can a relationship that is primarily based on sex actually last?


I know some chick who was talking to some dude online for less than two months and then he flew to her city and they hooked up on that very night and he went home the next day. She's since visited him but again, only for one weekend. They've only been together for less than a month, have only met 2 times and they've already booked weekend hotel sex vacations.



The hell? Is this a real relationship or is he simply using her for sex? I feel like her feelings are about to get hurt in the next few months.

Yes why not ?

This is just an opportunity for you to pass judgement on consenting adults.