Can you respect a girl who gave it up too soon?

[BigE214]

Yeah.

My goal is to come off irresistible so if a chick gives it up fast, I did my job. There's more to it than sex though. I've hung around chicks after we got it in cause I liked them and I've played the waiting game just to hit. Sex ain't the be it all. You can tell if a chick is worth keeping around by convos, chemistry, ect...the sex is a bonus.

 

[emerald]

I wouldn't say that. Men and women can hide their hoeosity and their lying for years, trust me on this one.

true.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

i would because i know at times i've been quick to take what i've been offered to with no restraint yet i still desire respect and not disdain

 

[LimitedEdition]

You can't be mad at her is she devalues her own p*ssy. She wanna hand it out to strangers like it's Halloween candy then let her. Just know her values ain't in line with yours and proceed in the friendship with caution.

 

[Pazzy]

Nah.

And I don't consider her a friend and I have zero aspirations of being a thot. My main issue with her isn't even the fact that she's having sex freely but more so that she's broadcasting this shyt and thinking it makes her look good. It does not.

She's setting herself up.

You act like she is though.

And you sound like you're hating. She must have done something to you that pissed you off or you want him.

 

[Ms. Elaine]

My best relationship I took her home within 15 minutes of saying hello...if the bytch is feeling you she'll make exceptions to the rule.

But the question is, how many exceptions have there been?


Also looks like this chick curved her main dude to get with this one. So, she's hardly loyal.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Most cats are gonna tell you that don't care if you give it up quick because it benefits us..... its just part of how we fukk off on a chick...

Now if you're going into this thinking that there is going to be some long, deep relationship after sexing on the first night, then chances are you're going to end up playing yourself......

I know cats in here say that some of their best relationships were with first nighters....and that may be true for some....... but at the end of the day, all of those type of relationships ended and more than likely it was the dude who pulled the plug....... and that's even if it was really a "relationship" in the traditional sense....

 

[Ms. Elaine]

You act like she is though.

And you sound like you're hating. She must have done something to you that pissed you off or you want him.

You're right; it is personal. a$$hole broke up with a friend of mine to get with her.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Listen, I'm pretty old fashioned and I've slut shamed a lot of people in my life time but I can't help but wonder about what guys think about this: could you respect a girl who gave it up way too soon? Can a relationship that is primarily based on sex actually last?


I know some chick who was talking to some dude online for less than two months and then he flew to her city and they hooked up on that very night and he went home the next day. She's since visited him but again, only for one weekend. They've only been together for less than a month, have only met 2 times and they've already booked weekend hotel sex vacations.



The hell? Is this a real relationship or is he simply using her for sex? I feel like her feelings are about to get hurt in the next few months.

Why do you have a problem with this situation

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

You're right; it is personal. a$$hole broke up with a friend of mine to get with her.

it's not gonna last long. Remember Ginuwine "what's so different"

 

[Pazzy]

Here's the thing. It's all good to have morals and rules because sometimes it can save your ass.

However, you never know who you might fall in love with, how, where and when. We can say that we are better, act like we are the shyt and etc but you never know if you might be exactly who you look down on or do the same shyt. You can do a hookup with someone you never intended to stay with or saw them as not being relationship or even marriage material and before you know it, you and them are married happily ever after. You never know.

 

[prettiij_me]

I'm all for open discussion on topics such as this, but this doesn't seem to be one them. This is obviously a poorly veiled attempt to get people to cosign your already made up mind that this girl is a hoe. She's not your friend and it's not your body so why would you care? Women are so quick to judge and shame one another over a man and it's sad. You say it bothers you bc she's broadcasting her business, but again if you're not her friend how would you know all these details about her relationship with this guy and more so all about her family? You went digging in her business and didn't like what you saw...she didn't have to "broadcast" anything you made it your business to get in hers and hate on it.

 

[Pazzy]

I'm all for open discussion on topics such as this, but this doesn't seem to be one them. This is obviously a poorly veiled attempt to get people to cosign your already made up mind that this girl is a hoe. She's not your friend and it's not your body so why would you care? Women are so quick to judge and shame one another over a man and it's sad. You say it bothers you bc she's broadcasting her business, but again if you're not her friend how would you know all these details about her relationship with this guy and more so all about her family? You went digging in her business and didn't like what you saw...she didn't have to "broadcast" anything you made it your business to get in hers and hate on it.

Exactly.

 

[Ms. Elaine]

I'm all for open discussion on topics such as this, but this doesn't seem to be one them. This is obviously a poorly veiled attempt to get people to cosign your already made up mind that this girl is a hoe. She's not your friend and it's not your body so why would you care? Women are so quick to judge and shame one another over a man and it's sad. You say it bothers you bc she's broadcasting her business, but again if you're not her friend how would you know all these details about her relationship with this guy and more so all about her family? You went digging in her business and didn't like what you saw...she didn't have to "broadcast" anything you made it your business to get in hers and hate on it.

Spoken like a true ho....

 

[prettiij_me]

Spoken like a true ho....

You just proved my point again. You have no idea who I even am and yet you've labeledme just like you did her. lol girl please, I work with women exactly like you everyday, bitter, miserable, and constantly giving your unwanted opinions. Did she steal your man? Did I? It's clear you're just mad she didn't want to be your friend after she found out you were stalking her life on IG and Facebook don't be bitter be better