Can You Truly Love Someone While Cheating On Them?

[Dusty Bake Activate]

Yup.

 

[Silkk]

I think you can.
My sexual desires for another woman has nothing to do with my love for the woman i love. Now, mind you. the act of cheating itself can hurt the woman you love. But the fact that you are cheating doesnt mean you love your woman any less.

What if your wife told you this exact same thing word for word?

 

[intruder]

What if your wife told you this exact same thing word for word?

See my edits

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I think you can.
My sexual desires for another woman has nothing to do with my love for the woman i love. Now, mind you, the act of cheating itself can hurt the woman you love. But the fact that you are cheating doesnt mean you love your woman any less.

I think once we as human being are able to separate love and sex it will be clearer. Im in love with my ex. She's engaged to another man. She still loves me and I love her. She loves him too. I have no problem with her being with him.

Good pointa

 

[Silkk]

See my edits

Did, still want want to know what you would do if your wife told you that

 

[Silkk]

Good pointa

If you know the act of cheating will hurt the one you love, then that means you're willing to take the risk of hurting them. Shows a lack of caring.

 

[Yup]

No

What @Emperor_ReinScarf said.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Nope

 

[intruder]

Did, still want want to know what you would do if your wife told you that

I think the DECEPTION part of cheating is what most people really have a problem with IMO. Without even realizing it.

My homeboy is married to his wife and has a side chick. The side chick is technically the wife's best friend (yeah i know.. weird) . Come to think f it i have never seen the wife without the side-chik But i dont believe him having a side-chick makes him love his wife any less than the men out there that are with one women.

Maybe this answer is better than my initial one. What im trying to say is i dont think acting on your sexual desires for another woman means you dont love your S/O. I think the DECEPTION part of it is the bigger issue.

 

[MikelArteta]

I think the DECEPTION part of cheating is what most people really have a problem with IMO. Without even realizing it.

My homeboy is married to his wife and has a side chick. The side chick is technically the wife's best friend (yeah i know.. weird) . Come to think f it i have never seen the wife without the side-chik But i dont believe him having a side-chick makes him love his wife any less than the men out there that are with one women.

Maybe this answer is better than my initial one. What im trying to say is i dont think acting on your sexual desires for another woman means you dont love your S/O. I think the DECEPTION part of it is the bigger issue.

 

[Yup]

I think the DECEPTION part of cheating is what most people really have a problem with IMO. Without even realizing it.

My homeboy is married to his wife and has a side chick. The side chick is technically the wife's best friend (yeah i know.. weird) . Come to think f it i have never seen the wife without the side-chik But i dont believe him having a side-chick makes him love his wife any less than the men out there that are with one women.

Maybe this answer is better than my initial one. What im trying to say is i dont think acting on your sexual desires for another woman means you dont love your S/O. I think the DECEPTION part of it is the bigger issue.

If both wife and husband is bringing in people outside of the marriage to sleep with, its no longer a marriage. Some women think looking the other way will keep the man. To me that's disrespectful.

 

[Silkk]

I think the DECEPTION part of cheating is what most people really have a problem with IMO. Without even realizing it.

My homeboy is married to his wife and has a side chick. The side chick is technically the wife's best friend (yeah i know.. weird) . Come to think f it i have never seen the wife without the side-chik
But i dont believe him having a side-chick makes him love his wife any less than the men out there that are with one women.

Maybe this answer is better than my initial one. What im trying to say is i dont think acting on your sexual desires for another woman means you dont love your S/O. I think the DECEPTION part of it is the bigger issue.

You still havent answered the question tho

 

[intruder]

If both wife and husband is bringing in people outside of the marriage to sleep with, its no longer a marriage.

Depends on your definition of marriage, really. Some of us marry for love. That's the accepted practice in the western world. Doesnt make it RIGHT or BETTER than others. Centuries ago the common practice was to use marriage as a way to unite different kingdoms and tribes. Still happens today even amondg westerners.

Mind you my view of marriage is not in line with the biblical sense of it

Some women think looking the other way will keep the man. To me that's disrespectful.

Disrespectful, how?

 

[Rawtid]

You can love someone and cheat on them but you are not guaranteed forgiveness just because you loved them and fukked up.

 

[intruder]

You still havent answered the question tho

Again, i would be dissapointed by the deception part of it and the insecurities it will trigger (i.e where do i stand moving forward). But if i knew this was a woman that is dedicated to our union as a family but just wants to fukk around... i THINK i could deal with it. I would probably do the same thing too