And they just don't stop.
Bitter Betties and Jaded Jennies who cannot shut up about NOT finding a man have really gone overboard.
According to Atlanta matchmaker Shae Primus, black women who aren't so lucky in the dating game should try dating men who have experimented with same sex relationships/relations.
Shae Primus is a certified matchmaker based in Atlanta. Her company, Middleclass Matchmaker seeks to connect middle-class professionals going through life sans a partner. One of the biggest hurdles Primus says she has to cross is getting Black women to open their mindset when dating, and give their counterparts a chance.
During a discussion on her company message board, Shae Primus shocked members by suggesting women give men who have experimented with same-sex relationships a chance. “It’s unfair that many women have had same-sex experiences, but at the same time, they judge men who have experimented with the same sex. Even if a guy has had one experience, most women will totally write him off as undateable.”
Primus says many of these women have gone through bisexual phases, decided the lifestyle is not for them and yet still expect a man to step up and marry them. As a result of the double standard, she says men who have experienced same-sex relationships or consider themselves bisexual are forced to lie or simply give up dating women. Instead of totally running at the first sign of a same-sex past, Primus suggests women have an open dialogue with a potential partner to determine if he is still in that lifestyle or not before totally writing him off.
Matchmaker suggests Black women consider dating bisexual men
Serious note: I wish black women in particular would STOP publicizing their romantic issues or at the very least would stop allowing themselves to be painted as victims/charity cases in these topics. It's not a good look and it's clear that the mainstream media is using their apparent collective dating plight to mock them--and the black community at large.
Bitter Betties and Jaded Jennies who cannot shut up about NOT finding a man have really gone overboard.
According to Atlanta matchmaker Shae Primus, black women who aren't so lucky in the dating game should try dating men who have experimented with same sex relationships/relations.
Shae Primus is a certified matchmaker based in Atlanta. Her company, Middleclass Matchmaker seeks to connect middle-class professionals going through life sans a partner. One of the biggest hurdles Primus says she has to cross is getting Black women to open their mindset when dating, and give their counterparts a chance.
During a discussion on her company message board, Shae Primus shocked members by suggesting women give men who have experimented with same-sex relationships a chance. “It’s unfair that many women have had same-sex experiences, but at the same time, they judge men who have experimented with the same sex. Even if a guy has had one experience, most women will totally write him off as undateable.”
Primus says many of these women have gone through bisexual phases, decided the lifestyle is not for them and yet still expect a man to step up and marry them. As a result of the double standard, she says men who have experienced same-sex relationships or consider themselves bisexual are forced to lie or simply give up dating women. Instead of totally running at the first sign of a same-sex past, Primus suggests women have an open dialogue with a potential partner to determine if he is still in that lifestyle or not before totally writing him off.
Matchmaker suggests Black women consider dating bisexual men
Serious note: I wish black women in particular would STOP publicizing their romantic issues or at the very least would stop allowing themselves to be painted as victims/charity cases in these topics. It's not a good look and it's clear that the mainstream media is using their apparent collective dating plight to mock them--and the black community at large.
