Cap or correct: it is harder for women to recognize and appreciate a man's sacrifices than the reverse

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Big facts today. Especially since a lot of them are secretly competing with you.
 

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One of my bros was talking about why he doesn't go out of his way for his current girl.

From his pov, ain't no point in trying since he feel women won't put as much of their heart into a man's happiness than what a @Typical Simp would, and thats why simps seemingly never prosper
Seems like more of a him problem in his relationship than something to generalize across the board.

I wouldn’t call any chick my girl if I wouldn’t reasonably go out of my way for her.
 

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If he is talking about western women then he is 100% correct 95% of the time
 
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He needs to communicate to her that the same kind of consideration she'd like to receive - even moreso, empathy - she'd better develop the habits of producing within herself.

And he needs to check himself that he's even doing the same, that she isn't even inspired to improve without being told.
 

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I wouldn't say it's cap more than men and women operate from different perspectives, therefore actions will always be perceived differently.

Most people really don't spend time actually getting to know one another and what they need from each other as partners, instead they try to fit into the stereotypical roles of a relationship.

This is why men can work 80 hours a week, pay all the bills and a woman will still be tight about not getting quality time because her actual needs aren't being met, only the ones he's decided for her. These same men will spend free time with their homeboys because to them, they are meeting the needs of their spouse and they don't see the problem.
 

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nah im not feeling what your boy is saying

when two people are locked in to a relationship and giving each other their all its a beautiful thing im lucky to have been there before

the bigger problem ive seen is folk trying to force a bond thats not there naturally and giving more than they get on either side
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These days you put your bid in. Let them know off jump your wants and needs. What you will and won't tolerate. If she's down and time passes with her living up to her word then she's a keeper. If not keep doing your thing. Simple as that. If she ain't worth the investment move on to the next.
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