Catching a guy checking you out UNAPPRECIATION

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:childplease: ...... ah okay I get it. This is I suppose what you guys call entitlement but women get to be picky. We get to not have to include "being interested in us" as a requirement, because majority of the time, he will be so it goes without saying. Because of that we have a longer list, it's just biology, we have fewer sex cells to waste. :yeshrug:



@originalblackmanfromughh he did not smile. That was the whole problem, it was a smug look that punk I still want to punch him in the face.

:manny: Hey well just look forward to lovin your cats then..........
 

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@Fonsworth @ModernFonzie @The5thLetter @Los Pollos Hermanos here ya go but dont say I didnt warn you :scust:

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He is really flirtatious, I thought it was annoying at first, then it grew on me so I thought it was cute and it's just a part of his personality (he's really good looking with a cool personality). I've been having an internal debate about how seriously to take him (he's always making jokes about us getting married). I was leaning towards just being not meant to be (he's Somali but his culture couldn't be more different from mine) then he goes and does this and I feel like I've been kidding myself taking anything about him seriously. Like I was just an ego boost. Such an a$$hole. I'm pissed at myself for making excuses and moving from finding his behaviour annoying to cute. No more!
Poor dude, I hope he realizes op is a big ass insecure walking red flag.
 

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Poor dude, I hope he realizes op is a big ass insecure walking red flag.

What makes you say that?



What is wrong with you?

You sound immature as fukk.

Attraction is natural. No need to involve these silly games.

What is wrong with you :gladbron:

Attraction may be normal but what about respect. So apparently that's how a husband would look at his wife, fair enough. Do I look like his flipping wife :why: taking liberties
 

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Maybe it's one of those things a male will never understand.

It hurts when it's someone you thought respected you
you better let go of this hopeless dream of some day knowing a guy who ONLY respects you for you and not your figure or cute face.

Listen. we're men. We like pretty things just like women like pretty colors, pretty flowers, etc. NO DIFFERENCE.

When we see yall, we look at yall like Pretty FLOWERS. "OOOOOO lOOK at that over there....so prettttyyyyy" no difference. Now sure some dudes are a bit over the top with it. but as long as the dude doesnt say anything wreckless. allow the man to look and admire God's handy work. thats all that we're doing. no more and no less. dont worry about what we MIGHT be thinking in our heads. thats not up for you to wonder about anyway.

Relax.

Let me put it to you this way. any dude you think aint looking at you for your looks as well as anything else. you're lying to yourself. just because you dont catch the dude doing it. doesnt mean he isnt doing it.
 

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you better let go of this hopeless dream of some day knowing a guy who ONLY respects you for you and not your figure or cute face.

Listen. we're men. We like pretty things just like women like pretty colors, pretty flowers, etc. NO DIFFERENCE.

When we see yall, we look at yall like Pretty FLOWERS. "OOOOOO lOOK at that over there....so prettttyyyyy" no difference. Now sure some dudes are a bit over the top with it. but as long as the dude doesnt say anything wreckless. allow the man to look and admire God's handy work. thats all that we're doing. no more and no less. dont worry about what we MIGHT be thinking in our heads. thats not up for you to wonder about anyway.

Relax.

Let me put it to you this way. any dude you think aint looking at you for your looks as well as anything else. you're lying to yourself. just because you dont catch the dude doing it. doesnt mean he isnt doing it.

I get what you're saying. But still sounds like moral of the story is females should be okay with being objectified. You've all pretty much said the same thing. Embrace it, celebrate the implication; it means you're attractive, that the guy likes you. That's how societies start thinking it's okay to be a porn star; you're pretty, guys would want to watch you, you should be thrilled.

I am not saying 2 people who are interested in one another shouldn't be attracted but between that and this there has to be a middle ground that makes sense and maintains respect.
 
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