Catching a guy checking you out UNAPPRECIATION

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

It feels dirty makes you want to jump back in the shower and never step out of the house without a burka or some massive thing.

You know when guys are checking you out but when you see someone do it especially when he looks at you like "Thanks for the show"




This was a guy I was actually liking but he's gone from a maybe to an absolutely no flipping way

let me ask you a serious question:

why do women wear provocative clothing if they dont want attention?

why do you wear jeans/pants that look like they've been painted on...and low cut blouses with push-up bras that push your breasts up under your chin, if you dont want attention?

ive never understood this

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

@Hacksaw Jim Thuggin I was not showing any skin. Yes I was wearing skinnies but with a long top and that's besides the point because he couldn't see my bottom half behind the service counter. But to answer your question anyway tbh when it's a case of being seriously overexposed, beats me. Even as a female you notice sometimes like wth are you wearing


What do she have on

 

[HoloGraphic]

@the cac mamba don't know what I was thinking actually, I was just pissed off, it had literally just happened so.....was venting and you lot are so terrible at making someone feel better. Is alright though, better feeling pissed at you lot than sorry for myself

Until you can provide your own happiness you will always be needy. This is normal in our consumer society. Breathing isn't enough for people.

There's a guy on YouTube named Matthew Hussey that coaches women on picking up men.

 

[rapbeats]

I get what you're saying. But still sounds like moral of the story is females should be okay with being objectified. You've all pretty much said the same thing. Embrace it, celebrate the implication; it means you're attractive, that the guy likes you. That's how societies start thinking it's okay to be a porn star; you're pretty, guys would want to watch you, you should be thrilled.

I am not saying 2 people who are interested in one another shouldn't be attracted but between that and this there has to be a middle ground that makes sense and maintains respect.

you're going to far.

let me ask you a question. if you think a guys cute but you dont know him. would you check him out without him looking? of course you would. are you objectifying him? sure to some degree. but is that wrong? yes its wrong if being attracted to the opposite sex is wrong. lol.

You want someone to be attracted to your personality and brain and not your looks. as if your looks are not apart of the whole you. YOU = Mind, Body, Spirit. BODY is physical. Body i can look at. I cant SEE your mind, i can't SEE your spirit.

If i never look at you do you know what this means? YOu're not PHYSICALLY attractive to me. Sure i might love your mind, love your spirit. Would you want to be stuck with a guy that isnt physically attracted to you AT ALL? even if he was attracted to the other 2? the answer is NO. thats not something anyone would WANT. now if you have a bad accident and it messes up your look , it is what it is. so you would take a guy like this obviously. but even then YOU the person wouldnt want to be with someone you KNEW darn well was not attracted to you. So think about that the next time you're ready to throw an onlooker in the bushes.

and you said a middle ground where the guy respects you. uhhhh i already said he respected your mind/spirit. but now he wants to respect God's handy work by looking at you.

 

[jackswstd]

So he harassed you with his eyes is what you're saying?

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

@rapbeats there's more to the story but fair enough, I see your point.



@jackswstd yes, kind of

Until you can provide your own happiness you will always be needy. This is normal in our consumer society. Breathing isn't enough for people.

There's a guy on YouTube named Matthew Hussey that coaches women on picking up men.

 

[karim]

My red flag detector. You're one of those indecisive, confused one day they like you, next day they don't woman who can't make up their mind and try to make you jump through hoops while they try to figure out what they want

What makes you say that?

 

[Eternally Jaded]

Everybody objectifies everyone else on some level. The only problem is when that's all they do, n never look deeper.
And the real irony is that you yourself are currently doing to him, what u claim he did to u!
You expect him to act and carry himself a certain way simply because he's Somali like you!! U can't be serious.
You say he was born wherever you currently are? Well let me break it down for u.
His parents might instill Somali decorum, but if he's got people outside the culture that he considers friends, he's learned from them too.
He's learned a closed mouth doesn't get fed, he's learned that female companionship is great, and he's learned that MOST women like dudes that make them feel desired.

Your playing Uno, n he's playing spades. Up your game and dead all your foolishness.

 

[Citi Trends]

 

[Arishok]

fukk you crying for

You know I got some mediocre dikk waiting for you

This legit mad me laugh

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

@milobased that's just too far

My red flag detector. You're one of those indecisive, confused one day they like you, next day they don't woman who can't make up their mind and try to make you jump through hoops while they try to figure out what they want

Isn't that courtship though

 

[Citi Trends]

@milobased that's just too far




Isn't that courtship though

so is complaining about someone looking at you

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

 

[↓R↑LYB]

I took an L doing that in grade school

 

[Wild self]

LOL Get mad at nature, brehettes.

I bet you wouldn't say that to a white guy