Challenging the narrative: Do women actually come to you when you “get your shyt together”?

Barlow

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BE ON YOUR PURPOSE ISN'T ABOUT BEING SUCCESSFUL FOR p*ssy. IT ABOUT BEING SUCCESSFUL FOR YOURSELF.

WOMEN CAN TELL WHEN YOU A LOSER. DOESN'T MATTER IF YOU BROKE OR RICH. THEY ARE JUST A BIT MORE INCLINED TO DEAL WITH IT WHEN YOU'RE RICH.
What denotes a loser if you gain the material possessions y’all are talking about?
 

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Self improvement does open the door to chicks. As your improve you become more confident in yourself which attracts women. You’re doing something that matters, which attracts women, and your shyt is together which attracts women, as they obviously want a piece of said “shyt.” Finally, due to trying to improve it’s likely you’ll look at the girl like a human rather than just some p*ssy or someone you’re afraid of. So to answer your question OP, yes
 

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SOMEONE WHO IS DEFINED BY THOSE POSSESSIONS.
So women don’t give p*ssy to men who are defined by what they own? :gucci: But the whole point is to…gain possessions

so if that’s the case why not fukk broke men with good hearts? And shouldn’t men just be proud of that instead of stressing over money?
 

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No op thats a big azz myth that same woman you getting yuh shyt "together" for

most likely giving the coochie to bum breh rn

Facts. They don't realize shyt works both ways.

A woman working on her purpose gonna go for a dude that has free time for her. And a dude with free time might not be on his purpose but she won't care. What matters is the time and attraction.
 

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It makes you look more appealing but she can’t find out any of those things unless you approach first.

There are women out here with regular dudes doing regular shyt, don’t over complicate it.
 

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Men usually equate material success with confidence. Thats the secret undercurrent of it because when they've got the shiny things on deck they're more loose and pick up on subtle signals they'd otherwise miss.

All that doesn't matter to someone with unconditional confidence as they'll pull up on a ten speed, say what they feel and the girl will be with it.
 

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Any woman coming to you is not a woman you want. Good luck man.
 
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