Challenging the narrative: Do women actually come to you when you “get your shyt together”?

[Joe Budden]

Mods can we give OPs spot to a new poster?

 

[Bubba T]

Am I only one who had to look up what neoliberal means?

Usually a term someone uses when they are on they are struggling with something and are on the defensive.

 

[High Art]

As many people have said, do not look at p*ssy as the end goal. p*ssy should never be the end goal for a man. The things you do, you do it for yourself and all the enjoyment that comes with accomplishment in itself.

 

[African Peasant]

Working on yourself does not only mean getting money.

It's also physical, mental, spiritual, etc.

If you have you shyt together, you will have women, a lot of them. It's not magic. It will be up tp you to make a good choice.

Usually a term someone uses when they are on they are struggling with something and are on the defensive.

No.

Elliot Rodgers had his ish together and still got no buns

No he did not. Having a car does not mean having your "shyt" together.

I know cats with good money but who can't look at a women in her eyes. There is something wrong with them. They have to deal with it.

 

[WaveGang]

Women are making their own money nowadays, they going for dudes they find sexually attractive.

You probably not fukking with BAD bytches bro, icl bad bytches a whole different breed of female that most of the male population have NO idea about. Take it from someone that fukks with bad bad bytches.

This whole sentence right here tells me why you don't get no bytches...

I thought the same like damn this mf wilding.

@ OP, it's the law of attraction.

Ofc you gotta find balance, can't be all work and no play.

 

[staticshock]

This nikka thinks living in a socialist society will improve his chances of getting a job and getting bytches. If you ain’t shyt in a capitalist country you won’t be shyt in any other society. Imagine depending on this nikka to pull his weight so the whole village can eat. Everyone gon starve

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

So women don’t give p*ssy to men who are defined by what they own? But the whole point is to…gain possessions

so if that’s the case why not fukk broke men with good hearts? And shouldn’t men just be proud of that instead of stressing over money?

GO BACK TO MY ORIGINAL STATEMENT.

 

[Bubba T]

This nikka thinks living in a socialist society will improve his chances of getting a job and getting bytches. If you ain’t shyt in a capitalist country you won’t be shyt in any other society. Imagine depending on this nikka to pull his weight so the whole village can eat. Everyone gon starve

Oh yeah, now that you mention it, wasn’t OP the dude who was struggling with employment during the beginning of the pandemic? You got a job OP?

 

[10bandz]

Yes they do but a lot of bytches don’t really know how to deal with a nikka like that cuz they stay dealing with bums.

 

[Silver Surfer]

Wear a suit if you work at the call center

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

Its very simple: live a life you are happy with. If the women around you aren't impressed by that lifestyle, that is not your problem.

Get your car, get your house, be healthy and strengthen your bonds with people that are good to you and reciprocate the consideration you show them.

I've got a lifestyle that I'm happy with, I'm not willing to get bent out of shape trying to modify it for a woman. If shes cool with my lifestyle and has something similar going then great. If not, then that's fine too. If you have to choose between a peaceful existence and getting cheeks the answer should be obvious.

Best advice in the thread.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

I hear this around a lot. The whole “work on your purpose”, “make a lot of money”, “get rich”, “get an overpriced loft apartment in a metropolitan city”, “get an entry level luxury car”, etc.

But does that really actually change shyt in regards to casual sex?

Because logically, it seems like it all comes down to time and logistics.

In other words: 1. being around women 2. having the time to be around them

And it seems like the whole “be on your purpose” capitalist neoliberal self development track is the antithesis to both of those things.

Unless you’re starting a salon, you’ll most likely be around men in your financial pursuits. And since you’re so focused on whatever meaningless task meant to distract you, you’ll have LESS time to spend with women.

So brehs, think critically about your experiences and what you’ve witnessed. Do you actually have sex with more women when you’re “on the grind”? Or is this just a delusion meant to justify the time you’ve spent on these pursuits?

Which one is it: oochie wally or one mic?

Contrary to popular belief on here and the manosphere, broke men get a lot of the women because they have time for a lot of women. Money raises the quality of women but not the amount. Another thing, majority of women are around 5 and 6 range so they’re usually in the lower rung and that’s who the pookie and ray rays as they say be clapping cheeks with. People conflated 1990s and early 2000s rap videos with reality.

Its mostly a confusion that’s being talked about. Pursuing one’s purpose will lead to increase in quality not volume.

 

[semicko82]

Any woman coming to you is not a woman you want. Good luck man.

Expound

 

[ISO]

Meh you still have to put in work and women still choosing

Only thing is getting your shyt straight makes life easier which leads to a you that is more confident and comfortable in his own skin and can provide more experiences

 

[ISO]

This nikka thinks living in a socialist society will improve his chances of getting a job and getting bytches. If you ain’t shyt in a capitalist country you won’t be shyt in any other society. Imagine depending on this nikka to pull his weight so the whole village can eat. Everyone gon starve

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