Charging girlfriend rent on a property you own outright. Who’s right/wrong?

[threattonature]

I had a friend of mine who was in a similar situation. The difference was she nagged at him because she said his place was too small and he needs to get a bigger one. Then had the nerve to act offended when he asked her to pay the difference that it would cost to get a bigger place since his was already paid off. I'm talking two or three hundred per month and she felt all the way offended that he would ask. I pointed out that the amount she'd pay him would be far less than she was paying even staying with roommates but she felt he should "be a man" and pay it all. I would drop her with the quickness.

To me if the woman can't understand how we're both benefiting by moving her in and leading her to spend far less than that's not a woman I'd want to be with.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Am I wrong?

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

Classic Coli, but I live in the real world plehboi

splitting utilities makes tons of sense but you don’t bill your girl rent on a place you own unless you don’t want that to be your girl much longer

enjoy being single

keep buying your girlfriends brehs. and people wonder why relationships don't last once you're married. faaaam you'll never know if she's there for you or your money if you continue to remove financial burden from her while you aren't even married. you young nikkas gon learn yet.

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

sounds like a lot of you nikkas literally are paying to have a GF. if that's how you're living then I would direct you to the escort thread breheren.

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

IF HE WANTED TO CHARGE HER ALL HE HAD TO DO WAS SAY "YOU TAKE CARE OF THE UTLITIES AND ILL PAY THE MORTGAGE." IM SURE THE UTILITIES WOULD COME CLOSE TO THE 800.

 

[Nobu]

Toxic femininity.

I think it's 'toxic' only if the wife is just offering p*ssy in return. Sadly, a lot of men are in that situation, paying for a wife who doesn't do much other than provide p*ssy.

I don't think it's toxic for a woman to expect a man to provide if she's cooking, cleaning, watching the kids etc not just giving p*ssy.

 

[skeetsinternal]

@skeetsinternal i need yo sentiments on this boy

I side with the breh because if the shoe was on the other foot she would want and expect rent. A bytch wants her resources. The thing is when you look at a bytch you need to look at how nature designed this bytch which is to be a gatherer of resources. A bytch will take and take and take and if she gives whatever its because she is expecting a reward or a resource. She gives you her heart or p*ssy.. Ok.. And? Brehs need to remember /realize it's a game, keep your guard up, don't fall for the Okey doke. I can't tell you how many times a bytch tried to set up shop in my household to try and align herself with my resources. "Bae lemme pay the cable bill, how much ADT, lemme put it in my name so I can pay it." foh

 

[Elle Driver]

The rent part makes no sense, but she should contribute to other expenses. If you don’t see your relationship progressing don’t bother. Just part ways. You can’t have it both ways. You can’t ask for rent when there is none (it would just be rental income for him) and she can’t have wife privileges when she’s not. Then again it’s a lot of dudes who want a woman to play wifey and never WIFE HER.

 

[NkrumahWasRight Is Wrong]

I had a friend of mine who was in a similar situation. The difference was she nagged at him because she said his place was too small and he needs to get a bigger one. Then had the nerve to act offended when he asked her to pay the difference that it would cost to get a bigger place since his was already paid off. I'm talking two or three hundred per month and she felt all the way offended that he would ask. I pointed out that the amount she'd pay him would be far less than she was paying even staying with roommates but she felt he should "be a man" and pay it all. I would drop her with the quickness.

To me if the woman can't understand how we're both benefiting by moving her in and leading her to spend far less than that's not a woman I'd want to be with.

the woat woman

 

[Elle Driver]

That’s the only point of having a man? So you won’t have to pay for stuff?...


Ahmed lost.

It’s a big part.

 

[phcitywarrior]

Don't charge her rent. Split the bills and the property taxes. The issue here is the "rent" word.

Dude should have just found some expenses that equaled the $800 for "rent" and told her to cover that. Utilities, groceries, supplies etc.

To be honest, this thread didn't need to be that long. . Everyone here pretty much agrees she should pay something

 

[el_oh_el]

Found the simp


She's only a girlfriend. What is she contributing otherwise? Just puzzy? What has she done to earn living there free of charge?

She can pay up or find the nearest homeless shelter

Nah bruh. The shyt just aint a good look. If you fukkin with a bytch heavy, what kinda nikka gonna charge his gal RENT?
I can see splitting the bills fa sho. But charging her? Yeah you doing her a favor, but thats yo gal, shyt is just fukkin weird. Split the taxes, dont charge her ya fukkin weirdo (hypothetical breh, not you)

 

[LauderdaleBoss]

Perfect example of keeping certain things to yourself.
dude could have been stacking that $800 for emergencies or for investment purposes. nikka had to say the R word.

Sometimes pride an ego won't allow you to see certain come ups. If the shoe was on the other foot, shorty making that nikka shoot her rent or he risks her hanging that shyt over his head anytime they have a lil argument or she having a bad day.

 

[The Fade]

You can’t be miss traditional woman and then miss progressive independent New age woman when it suits you.

Pick one, y’all outnumber us in jobs now anyway. Time to be providers

 

[WesCrook]

His mortgage is paid off so she shouldn’t be paying no rent. The best he could do is make her pay the property taxes if it’s that serious.

One has absolutely nothing to do with the other.

You think any random property owner is going lower the rent to tenants if the building is suddenly paid off?

My car is paid in full. If I rented it out to someone, do you expect me to charge a lower amount than if I had a note?

That's not how it works....and it's a bad business mindset to have.