I feel you, but to a degree outside of like 5-8 cities. No one else really has that either.
No one saying CLT is NY, the 3 cities in Cali, Chi, Philly, MIA, 2 cities in Texas and etc.
Once you get past a few of the major cities in the country… it’s slim pickings for what you asking
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There are plenty of cities with a more notable culture than the Carolina cities. All it means is those places are more established in the national consciousness, and have been for longer.
NC cities have culture, it isn't as easily noticed because they are new to the mainstream limelight.
By the way, plenty of people prefer Raleigh over Charlotte, because while they are 'mostly' the same kind of city, the contrasts between the two can be more appealing to different people. But what this really highlights is how similar the cities are in the first place
I've said this before to you, and I'llsay it again. Native NC'ers like yourself tend to dramatize and exaggerate the differences between Raleigh and Charlotte; NC is all you guys have ever known, so you make these dramatic differences between the cities. People who come from the outside in, and venture to both cities, aren't biased for one city over the other, and can tell just how alike these places are.
Look up any criticism of Charlotte and Raleigh, and its literally the same shyt

nothing to do, boring, suburban, spread out, lack of culture, too hot in summer, bland landscape and architecture....no culture, nothing to do
You natives exaggreate tge differences between the two but if they were that different they wouldn't draw the same critique literally across the board.
Charlotte is bigger and has a centralized downtown, where majority of the events and entertainment are. More major league sports, larger and more connected airport, more big name entertainers hit Charlotte. Raleigh has a more sophisticated education network from the ground up, is dead equal is festival style events with Charlotte, so its easy to see why mf's in Raleigh don't think Charlotte has more popping, its always events going on.
If people want to scratch a major league sports itch, they just go to Charlotte and come back, but our one major league team is more popular than any team in Charlotte, besides the Panthers, so Charlotte's "sports" thing gets overrated. Yall love Nascar and drag racing, Raleighites have high level D1 college athletics.
As the bigger city Charlotte has more luxury retailers than Raleigh (food, cars, clothes), but thats common; Atlanta offers way more of the same over Charlotte. Bigger cities have "more" of most stuff. Raleigh has a better arts scene and ask anybody who been in both cities, Charlotte nikkas are not fashionable

Raleigh has more if a hustler's spirit, more creatives, Charlotte more blue collar minded (even though your largest industry is white collar, if you really know the city, Charlotte is blue collar as fukk).
People in Raleigh tend to have an authenticity to them that Charlotteans don't; a similarity Charlotte has to Atlanta is that whole "keep up with the Joneses", fantasy balling shyt. Mf's realky wanna "look the part" in Charlotte, rather than "be" the part.
These are specific differences that are minute in the grand scheme. Both cities are vastly suburban landscapes, designed the same, with cultures diluted by people from elsewhere. Both cities have a handful of popping areas outside downtown. Both cities have similar weather. If you are a visitor to both, you note Charlotte is larger, and larger appeals to some people, doesn't to others.
The gap in size between Atlanra and Charlotte, is bigger than the gap in size between Charlotte and Raleigh. People can discern this with their own eues and experience.
Again, there is a lot one can do here and if you need more options, CLT is fairly close to others options.
With that if anyone is struggling for shyt to do here…
Yall would HATE it in Raleigh