Checking disrespectful women

[DaRealness]

Totally ignore them.

You need to walk away right then and there. Don't engage in any back and forth. Even when they send dumb ass disrespectful messages, just don't reply...not even with a "whatever".

Just cut them off and don't give second chances.

 

[WesCrook]

"Look, I'm about sick of yo shyt....so I'm about to roll."

 

[Samori Toure]

whats the balance between putting your foot down and ignoring them but they take it as a go ahead to keep going

If you are asking all of these questions then that means that you have already figured out that that woman is crazy. Leave her alone, because crazy people get crazier and eventually she will go from talking shyt to trying to do some shyt to you or your property.

That brings up another point. Crazy people don't think the nonsense that they do is crazy. They think it is normal. So if you are normal and if you want normalcy in your life then leave crazy ass people alone.

 

[HarlemHottie]

If you are asking all of these questions then that means that you have already figured out that that woman is crazy. Leave her alone, because crazy people get crazier and eventually she will go from talking shyt to trying to do some shyt to you or your property.

That brings up another point. Crazy people don't think the nonsense that they do is crazy. They think it is normal. So if you are normal and if you want normalcy in your life then leave crazy ass people alone.

She legit might not notice how crazy she sounds. I didn't, until he pointed it out. Sternly. It was actually kinda hot, ngl.

But when he said it (and left ), i was forced to consider, 1, my parents have been legally separated all my life, i never actually saw them argue, 2, i had never seen my brother and his wife argue, and 3, the couples i had seen arguing were not married.

So i had a blind spot. I ran up on his ass like teyana taylor with ghost face and he was like absolutely the fukk not. shyt had me really pondering fr. I've lodged my complaints respectfully ever since, he never had to repeat it. I was ashamed of myself.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

She legit might not notice how crazy she sounds. I didn't, until he pointed it out. Sternly. It was actually kinda hot, ngl.

But when he said it (and left ), i was forced to consider, 1, my parents have been legally separated all my life, i never actually saw them argue, 2, i had never seen my brother and his wife argue, and 3, the couples i had seen arguing were not married.

So i had a blind spot. I ran up on his ass like teyana taylor with ghost face and he was like absolutely the fukk not. shyt had me really pondering fr. I've lodged my complaints respectfully ever since, he never had to repeat it. I was ashamed of myself.

U should be ashamed but I'm happy you learned your lesson. Ghost should have did what your bf did

 

[HarlemHottie]

U should be ashamed but I'm happy you learned your lesson. Ghost should have did what your bf did

I share a private moment for the edification of my coli brehs and this is how you do me.

 

[Samori Toure]

She legit might not notice how crazy she sounds. I didn't, until he pointed it out. Sternly. It was actually kinda hot, ngl.

But when he said it (and left ), i was forced to consider, 1, my parents have been legally separated all my life, i never actually saw them argue, 2, i had never seen my brother and his wife argue, and 3, the couples i had seen arguing were not married.

So i had a blind spot. I ran up on his ass like teyana taylor with ghost face and he was like absolutely the fukk not. shyt had me really pondering fr. I've lodged my complaints respectfully ever since, he never had to repeat it. I was ashamed of myself.

That is the other side of the equation and it is clear that you are a person that thought through your situation, but I think that we can agree that you might be the exception, rather than the rule. That shows that you were aware of it and tried to fix it. There are whole groups of men and women that don't even know that they are crazy.

 

[Nikki_04]

any tips on how to handle a disrespectful man?

 

[HarlemHottie]

That is the other side of the equation and it is clear that you are a person that thought through your situation, but I think that we can agree that you might be the exception, rather than the rule. That shows that you were aware of it and tried to fix it. There are whole groups of men and women that don't even know that they are crazy.

I was responding to your advice to just quit the situation entirely. Sometimes people really don't know what they're doing wrong or, more accurately, how to do it right. He's had his issues too, things i had to call him on (respectfully).

 

[WesCrook]

That is the other side of the equation and it is clear that you are a person that thought through your situation, but I think that we can agree that you might be the exception, rather than the rule. That shows that you were aware of it and tried to fix it. There are whole groups of men and women that don't even know that they are crazy.

Mainly because that behavior was learned from the people who raised them. It's even encouraged by them.

Mom: "What did you do after he didn't call back, sweetie?"

Her: "I popped up at his job."

Mom: "I would have done the same thing."

 

[HarlemHottie]

any tips on how to handle a disrespectful man?

Tell him you don't allow it. Don't be rude, just explain what you don't allow around you. Withhold your presence from him until he catch some sense.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

I share a private moment for the edification of my coli brehs and this is how you do me.

Was just agreeing with what u said

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

Not sure what the exact context is but if it's a spouse or chick worth talking to I would explain what the problem is and give a firm & direct warning. If they don't get it and keep being disrespectful I'd cut them off.

If it's a chick that's disposable just cut them off ASAP. I don't like to waste time giving energy to females with no home training.

 

[Samori Toure]

I was responding to your advice to just quit the situation entirely. Sometimes people really don't know what they're doing wrong or, more accurately, how to do it right. He's had his issues too, things i had to call him on (respectfully).

I understood what you were saying and I appreciated it. You sound like the type of woman that has situational awareness and the ability to do self examination. After all you did notice that you had a problem and you examined the root of it and you earnestly attempted to make a change for yourself, which hopefully preserved your relationship. That is excellent and I commend you for it.

However, can we please acknowledge that there are some legit crazy ass men and women walking around out here. Many of them do not possess the ability for self examination or are unwilling to do it. Not that I am anybody that anyone should be listening too, but I would strongly advise that people steer clear of crazy people.

 

[Voice of Reason]

Sometimes women are looking for domination maybe not physically but you get the picture. Sometimes you have to engage her and make back down.