I don't understand why. If you don't cheat, then there shouldn't be any problems.
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I don't understand why. If you don't cheat, then there shouldn't be any problems.
Like was he around in your life at all?....did he support you by being there when you needed him?
I ask because my father didn't do shyt. Didn't pay a dime nor did he come around. I noticed you said he paid 300 per month, may have missed some months, but if you still see him as your father and he was "there", then why would you have taken him to court?
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Under this scenario, your monthly child support payment would be $50
How u know if she's lying or not tho?
It was. My mom was going to give my sister and I about 1/4 of our child support if he was paying the correct amount.
Not for my mom.
They both make over $100,000. He makes more than her. He was supposed to be paying over $1,000 per month, but he was only paying $300 per child (2) and he didn't even pay every month. I would have took him to court. If he was paying the correct amount, I would have been able to go shopping more and participate in extracurricular activities. He didn't even help pay for school. She paid for everything. I would have taken him to court. She's weak though, so I knew she wouldn't and he knew she wouldn't, that's why he did it.
My children's father will be my husband, so he won't be on child support. If he cheats and we divorce, he will def. be put on cs and I'll also be receiving alimony and my half of his money, and he will pay more because of the cheating clause in our prenupt, and the bytch he cheats with will be paying me too (it's legal in my state).
And the cycle continues
He was around more when we used to live with him before my parents got divorced. He taught me how to read/write/spell/do math ( I skipped some grades becasue of it) and he took me an my sister places where kids like to go and out to eat, stuff like that. We saw him a lot less after the divorce, but I liked it that way because I was never very comfortable around him and didn't really like him that much most of the time. I thought he was very controlling & he was a cheater.
I guess he was there when I needed him, but I didn't really want or need him or my mom to be there for me. I'm not a parent clinger of very emotional, I mostly wanted financial support. I He didn't really support me financially very often, and when he did, he'd make a big deal out of it which was very annoying, that's really the only support that I wanted from him.
I would have still taken him to court. They both made enough money for me to be able to participate in the activities that I wanted to participate in, but I never got to because she was paying for school and other stuff and he didn't want to pay for it because "I didn't need it". I don't think thats fair.
What is that supposed to mean? Men should learn not to cheat so that they won't get divorced.
It's CHILD SUPPORT babe not CHEATERS REVENGE
I think what @Giselle is saying fair, and that is because I have three friends and my aunt that have caught incurable STD'S from there husbands and wives that cheated on them
. So if you are going to put somebody's health at risk and possible give them HIV, GENITAL WARTS AND HERPES then you deserve to get taken for every penny that you have
. There is no amount of money that will make me feel better about somebody cheating on me and giving me HIV
All of that, and when you get married, you're thinking that it's going to be permanent, so you've alreay had your life planned out together and everything. The money is combined, you have kids, share a house and other things, then he just goes and cheats. Destroys all thoughts/visions/hopes/plans that you had for the two of you (and the kids if there are any).
I never said that child support is cheater's revenge. I think it's very wrong to use your children/child support against your spouse.
The alimony and and the half that they get taken away from them after getting divorced is the
Your mother will be proudI never said that child support is cheater's revenge. I think it's very wrong to use your children/child support against your spouse.
The alimony and and the half that they get taken away from them after getting divorced is therevengecheater's consequence
My mother will not be involved in my marriage.
I don't think anyone would be proud that someone got cheated on a got a divorce.
the fact people are so vindictive is all the more reason for #gmb
It was. My mom was going to give my sister and I about 1/4 of our child support if he was paying the correct amount.
Not for my mom.
They both make over $100,000. He makes more than her. He was supposed to be paying over $1,000 per month, but he was only paying $300 per child (2) and he didn't even pay every month. I would have took him to court. If he was paying the correct amount, I would have been able to go shopping more and participate in extracurricular activities. He didn't even help pay for school. She paid for everything. I would have taken him to court. She's weak though, so I knew she wouldn't and he knew she wouldn't, that's why he did it.
My children's father will be my husband, so he won't be on child support
Sound like a scam artist that will get beaten up by the wrong man in the near future
Divorcing a cheating partner is not a scam. If I get beat up by a man, he will pay me and go to jail.
Divorcing a cheating partner is not a scam. If I get beat up by a man, he will pay me and go to jail.
Yeah divorce him and leave everything of him alone, including his money. Alimony in some states is now not automatic, and may be eliminated in the near future to save heterosexual marriage.