Wrong.
I would never live with a bf/fiance, only my husband. My husband and I will combine some of our money and share bills. My husband will be the only person who I'll ever have sex without condoms with and the only person who I'll have kids with. I would never do those things with a bf. I would never make permanent plans with a bf. Bf/gf is temporary. Marriagge is supposed to be forever.
It will be in the prenupt that my husband can keep all of his money if he doesn't cheat. If he does, I'll get half. I would never cheat. If he divorces me just becuause he doesn't want to be with me anymore, I still wouldn't touch his money. All of this would be in the prenupt.
If my husband beat me and our kids, he'd be in jail, so the money wouldn't matter. I would never marry a man who would do those things. I'm going to marry someone who cares about their health, and I would never make my husband food that would make him gain hundreds of pounds. I wouldn't let him eat nasty like that. I will have my own money and so will he, and we will have an account together. As long as he's messing up his own money and not our money or my money, then I wouldn't really care. He'll have to figure out how to get it back. & if he does mess up his money, he won't even have anything to take. I wouldn't divorce over money issues or job loss and other stuff like that.
I'd only touch his money if he cheats.
Men aren't dumb. And yall think you gonna get men into a binding contract where he has everything to lose and nothing to gain... You're dead ass wrong. And I'm gonna guess you aren't married. And won't be with this logic
Wrong again. There are many men who still believe in marriage. & There are many men who only want to have kids after they are married.
My husband will make more than me, so I'm pretty sure signing a prenupt (with a cheating clause) wouldn't bother him.