Child Support card that can only be spent on the child; Women are against it

[#1 pick]

I don't have kids.....but....

A very close friend pays $1200 a month in child support. His BM, purposely decided to work part time to get more money. Not only is he on the hook for the flat amount but if she decides on day care he has to kick up 85% in addition to what he already pays. His mother is retired and has offered to watch his son. BM says no. Clearly fleecing him for as much $ as possible to spite him. Aside from the 3 days a week he is "allowed" visitation....he wants more time, BM says no, and only gives in when she "needs" a break.

These are the type of women this proposal is aimed at targeting. Now if you are a decent woman, have a good relationship with your BD then this doesn't apply to you. Why are some of the women in this thread so offended at such a thought? Let me guess, they fit that negative profile and wouldnt want the wheels to start spinning on something that could affect "their" bottom line.

This. Thank you brother for sharing that. We need ppl like him to speak and write congressman telling stories just like this. Just like the woman did v. the ain't shyt crew, we got to do for a good man/fukk-girl situations we have nowadays.

 

[#1 pick]

Y

You guys don't know my life and what ive gobe through. And i am not about to share it neither. A good amount of life's worse decisions can be avoided. No one has any right to tell me to stfu. No one.

I agree with the decisions. I completely agree. But yes. ppl got the right to tell you to stfu. Especially if you aren't around that situation or directly affected by it. It's to no disrespect, honestly, I like you as a poster.

 

[Air Nikes N Hats]

This. Thank you brother for sharing that. We need ppl like him to speak and write congressman telling stories just like this. Just like the woman did v. the ain't shyt crew, we got to do for a good man/fukk-girl situations we have nowadays.

Let me also add in the $6000 in lawyers fees he had to empty his savings for. What a lot of people don't realize......all of these lawyers are in bed with one another. His first lawyer basically sold him out, and relented on everything his BM wanted. A lot of women are given court appointed counsel, while the dad (most times because he makes more)....is forced to spend money he might not have on legal representation.

 

[Bugatti Biceps]

like fatherhood borderline optional motherhood borderline mandatory

Except the woman has the ability to give up her child during pregnancy or after its born at literally anytime for adoption, but you know "mandatory".

 

[Yup]

I agree with the decisions. I completely agree. But yes. ppl got the right to tell you to stfu. Especially if you aren't around that situation or directly affected by it. It's to no disrespect, honestly, I like you as a poster.

Nope. No one has the right to tell me anything...especially when i propose tangible action and all people do is yap about demanding for reparations. In these stories are closer to home than you could ever imagine. So know i will not stfu

 

[Bugatti Biceps]

I notice that this moral obligation not to have fun at the child's expense is always laid at the feet of the mother. The mother is told to go home and raise her kids by a bunch of men who are out having fun who got kids themselves.

So the father can post up on Instagram thrown money at strippers but a mother can't post up on Instagram having drinks at the club?

One of them isn't spending money earmarked for the child. She got a problem with that give the father custody and she can pay child support.

 

[Wild self]

So your children doesn't use water or electricity? How about the gas for the car that takes the kid to school? How about the bedroom where they sleep?

Then the kid stays with me.

I will tell the truth about this unconstitutional shyt and will make my kids turn on their scandalous mother and ditch her scamming ass to a nursing home.

Child support is the child only. Not for the hoe ass mother who use the water and electricity 90% of the time.

 

[Wild self]

This is why I'm not having no fukking kids yet

Or until I consciously make the decision to start a family. fukk being a slave to some greedy bytch.

I feel for nikkas who are going through in. Secondhand Pain foreal. I can't even imagine working just to have my check taken for a new weave.

Word up. That's why I can never go through CS because that shyt is inhumane. No kids till I'm rich and even then, all the assets in my mom's name so the botch can't take nothing away from me.

 

[YeLovesBoston]

Nope. No one has the right to tell me anything...especially when i propose tangible action and all people do is yap about demanding for reparations. In these stories are closer to home than you could ever imagine. So know i will not stfu

I knew you were damaged

I dare you to enter my PMs and spill it all. If I send screenshots out to theColi I'll take a ban

 

[Yup]

Then the kid stays with me.

I will tell the truth about this unconstitutional shyt and will make my kids turn on their scandalous mother and ditch her scamming ass to a nursing home.

Child support is the child only. Not for the hoe ass mother who use the water and electricity 90% of the time.

Wait till you have kids before you duumb ish like that

 

[Wild self]

Wait till you have kids before you duumb ish like that

I still hold firm about the well being of my kids. They will have me and their basic necessities. That will never change, and I plan to be rich before a kid comes through.

 

[Yup]

This is why I'm not having no fukking kids yet

Or until I consciously make the decision to start a family. fukk being a slave to some greedy bytch.

I feel for nikkas who are going through in. Secondhand Pain foreal. I can't even imagine working just to have my check taken for a new weave.

I don't feel sorry for a sizeable portion them. Thats what you get when people value sex over relationships. Yes you may still be screwed over in a relationship but if people thought twice before thet sexed around a lot of this would subside. The sex buddy culture/one night stand/hook up culture is a big factor in these situations.

 

[#1 pick]

Word up. That's why I can never go through CS because that shyt is inhumane. No kids till I'm rich and even then, all the assets in my mom's name so the botch can't take nothing away from me.

Master P did that and they finally just got him and bad too. You can't hide money from the gov't. They'll get there's. Being on CS is like being a rapist, a murder or pedophile. You are a scum to the courts.

 

[Luck]

Good idea in theory Id be 100% down for it but lets not act like the irresponsible parents that this targets wont find workarounds.

Arabs and Asians at the corner, clothing, general stores about to benefit same like they do with link 2 for 1s.

shyt should be simple, cant support the child then you shouldn't have had it and lose custody to the parent who can. If a parent doesn't want or cant take custody, they pay child support. If the custody can be split then no one pays

nikkas always want to complain about the shyt but you shouldn't have popped the kid(s) out when in 2015 you know full well what the likely outcome is and you should've had some idea of the type of woman youre dealing with. That being said, the only real way to fix this problem with women having kids just to trap dudes is give men equal power to abortions. Men should be able to sign off all responsibility for a child up until the same point that women can get abortions. Just like dudes have to deal with the bad decisions they made, if a women chose an 'aint shyt' nikka and he doesn't want the baby before the abortion time period then she has the option to abort or be 100% of the responsibility of the child. Put the onus on both parties to choose better.

I dislike the notion of black babies being aborted but does an unwanted or meal ticket child really have a chance in this world? People who want kids will have them and the people who don't and shouldn't have kids wont

Just my thoughts on it

 

[Wild self]

Think bytches care about "fairness" when it comes to men brehs. These hoes don't care about what's fair, it's about "what best for me".

That's why I got freedom of speech to shyt on scandalous women like that. They doing the devil's work