Child Support card that can only be spent on the child; Women are against it
- Thread starter BrothaZay
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Child support is not in favour of women unlike what many posters want to believe
Most women cannot care for a child on support alone. The contributing factor for crippling poverty for women is raising children by themselves. I'd rather pay child support than raise children by myselfl. I would happily let my ex-husband be the sole custodian to our children if we were to divorce. Most women are not balling on child support or welfare.
Men shouldn't have equal power for abortions and women shouldn't have them period but that's a different topic. The best thing would be giving the child to the parents who are in the best position. The ones who are educated, career driven, focused on education, focused in general with maybe a spouse should KEEP the kids. It's that simple. If she got knocked up by a broke dude, she wouldn't be trapping him to begin with.Good idea in theoryId be 100% down for it but lets not act like the irresponsible parents that this targets wont find workarounds.
Arabs and Asians at the corner, clothing, general stores about to benefit same like they do with link 2 for 1s.
shyt should be simple, cant support the child then you shouldn't have had it and lose custody to the parent who can. If a parent doesn't want or cant take custody, they pay child support. If the custody can be split then no one pays
nikkas always want to complain about the shyt but you shouldn't have popped the kid(s) out when in 2015 you know full well what the likely outcome is and you should've had some idea of the type of woman youre dealing with. That being said, the only real way to fix this problem with women having kids just to trap dudes is give men equal power to abortions. Men should be able to sign off all responsibility for a child up until the same point that women can get abortions. Just like dudes have to deal with the bad decisions they made, if a women chose an 'aint shyt' nikka and he doesn't want the baby before the abortion time period then she has the option to abort or be 100% of the responsibility of the child. Put the onus on both parties to choose better.
I dislike the notion of black babies being aborted but does an unwanted or meal ticket child really have a chance in this world? People who want kids will have them and the people who don't and shouldn't have kids wont
Just my thoughts on it
I don't believe men should have control on over women's bodies. With that said, the CS NEEDS to be changed. These girls aren't your 60's and 70's mothers. A lot of them are not that anymore.
onelastdeath
Banned
They still have the ability to give the child up. At any time. Women can walk away from/avoid motherhood whenever they choose. All the way from the day the man cums in her (day after pill) through pregnancy (abortion) to after the child is born (adoption)for that option because once the child is here ........
Men? You nut in one, it's wrap. Which is why I don't have unprotected sex. I could never put my life in the hands of a woman like that. Ever. I like being in complete control of my schedule, my money, and to a certain degree, level of stress.
As good as unprotected sex feels, going to sleep with a peace of mind and not having to worry about if my child is being taken care of/transient nikkas around my child, and where my money is going, is a whole lot better .
If you are honest with yourself you are not representative of a large segment of the demographic we talk about.
that dependsIf the mother can't pay rent or keep on lights then guess who should have custody and who shouldn't
you think those fathers really want custody?
my other thought is, the child's always welfare is in jeopardy when the mother is in poverty or distress
Almost, but nah, because there are legal ramifications for abandoning a child for both sexes, those consequences and legal repercussions are are not identical, but are equivalent.
It is FAR more socially acceptable for a father to walk away or become minimally available in a child's life, than it is for that child's mother to do the same. Let's just be fukking real? I'm not PC for the Coli. This shyt is an issue.
Like....do I live in alternate universe or do we not all see the absenteeism and bare minimum fathering is an issue in the black community???? 
at ALL socio-economic levels and I don't know many white people IRL but perhaps their or other races as well 
These million dollar payouts and shyt and $20k monthly child support payments are a rarity. Most bytches struggling to get $800 monthly consistently from a dude
or maybe as a woman I get more factuals on the Baby Mamas and their struggle.Either way yall nikkas don't know if you're fighting for more control or more freedome to not deal with the child and it's subsequent birth
and to really speak my mind 80% of baby mamas I know and have heard of the baby daddy usually lives in another state before the child is 4.
shyts cool when it's quiet and in the tummy. Once these lil kids start talking
you find out who's ready to be a father and who is a bytch nikka who is irresponsible with his dikk 
let me know where these are not facts
People in the bold aren't the ones that this is a problem with.
People who don't want kids should not have kids period. Its 2015 an time to live in reality about things and not stick kids on people who clearly don't want them or made a bad decision by getting pregnant. A lot of these single parents out here are from people having kids that one of the parties didn't want or couldn't take care of and as we can see that's not really helping things out for people and society.
The women is in control of her own body, and if the is lost then she made a conscious decision to do what she did by getting pregnant.
I know quite a few. Maybe you just don't know them personally. I didn't either till I started to seek it out.
LadySimone
Banned
How do you know these bottle poppers aren't in arrears with child support?
That father doesn't want custody and you know it.
TS should've made the poll results public 
