Child Support rant :wow:

[onelastdeath]

exactly, got these white girls thats been on BC since 14 and they arent having all these complications. BW just create a bunch of excuses because BC trumps their ability to trap a man with an unwanted kid.

BW are just more down to have kids in general. For whatever reason. Most of not all the white girls ive fukked at my school are all on BC, heavy. I never chanced it by going in raw. But a lot of them always say shyt like 'im on the pill" and I've seen more WW actually take them.

I mean there's something beautiful about having a kid, don't get me wrong. But it has to be at the right time and with the right person. a lot of BW Don't give a fukk they just want the baby.

 

[marcuz]

more CS horror stories are in the mens' right subreddit
https://m.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/18nqf0/girlfriend_stopped_taking_the_pill_without/

And also remember that antibiotics very effectively nullify / cancel out BC.

stories like this are why the laws need to be reformed. men are helpless in these situations and the only response we get is "you should have wore a condom"

 

[marcuz]

Stay classy, friend

look, this isn't my advice to men or something i've done. i'm just letting you know that there's fukkin terrorist out there ready to cum in you raw and shirk all responsibilities.

 

[Fellatio]

Ohhhhhhhhhhh

Don't give sub par and average broads the time of day

 

[Colicat]

look, this isn't my advice to men or something i've done. i'm just letting you know that there's fukkin terrorist out there ready to cum in you raw and shirk all responsibilities.

Well you are preaching to the choir... Just like their are some women out there who will have a child for financial gain and emotional leverage .... Protect yourself and be selective with your partners....

That applies to both genders

 

[Blackout]

If more dudes stressed personality over looks this would be less of a problem.

I had dudes argue with me to death about how he would never settle with a 6 with a good personality and will always chase 10s.

Fast forward 5 years and he is complaining to me about her saying he made a mistake.

 

[Queen]

Are white female bodies that dramatically different than Black female bodies?

Because you would be hard pressed to find a sexually active white chick that's not on birth control and they appear fine. But the way y'all tell it, a Black female going on BC is an automatic death sentence or damn near torture . While it's true some females (of any race) are at risk for health problems...this sounds more like wild fear mongering and shifting of the responsibility of birth control exclusively to males.

@marcuz got it right, more (Black) women should embrace and use the many BC options available to them.

Yes, black people and white people are different biologically. That's not really a secret at this point.

But even if things were exactly the same, who is to say that white women do not experience these issues? Why do you assume that your limited experiences are standard? Because you've whored around with whites, you now know everything about women's bodies and the effects birth control?

Did black women write this?

http://draxe.com/just-say-no-to-birth-control-pills/

Or this?

http://articles.mercola.com/sites/a...5/the-pill-at-50-sex-freedom-and-paradox.aspx

or this?

http://bodyecology.com/articles/dangers_birth_control_pill.php

Everyone is ignorant about something, that is normal. But leave your bitterness towards black women out of it.
And if you feel that the black woman you are dealing with is not worthy of being the mother of your child, then exert some self control.

If you do not have the mental capacity to do so, use a condom with spermicide. You can also start taking neem oil on a regular basis. Even better, just have a vasectomy. There is plenty you and your brethren can do to exert personal responsibility in the situation.

If men are to be leaders, then there should be no issues with leading by example in the area of personal responsibility. And if black men in particular want to be leaders, then they must learn to stop downing black women and putting whites on a pedestal at every available opportunity. You will never get respect as a man when you don't make the world respect your women. You can run to the arms of others if you want, but the fact remains the same.

 

[Rawtid]

Lmao there are a shyt ton of law suits about the negative impact of BC, and black women aren't the ones suing either. White women also suffer from fertility issues all the time after getting off BC. then they start those damn fertility drugs and end up having 12 kids at once.

Kind of off topic, In conjunction with BC white women are more likely to be on anti-depressants and/or anti anxiety meds. At best your getting a medically controlled version of them at any given time. When they are off the meds though...

 

[Darts]

Yes, black people and white people are different biologically. That's not really a secret at this point.

But even if things were exactly the same, who is to say that white women do not experience these issues? Why do you assume that your limited experiences are standard? Because you've whored around with whites, you now know everything about women's bodies and the effects birth control?

Did black women write this?

http://draxe.com/just-say-no-to-birth-control-pills/

Or this?

http://articles.mercola.com/sites/a...5/the-pill-at-50-sex-freedom-and-paradox.aspx

or this?

http://bodyecology.com/articles/dangers_birth_control_pill.php

Everyone is ignorant about something, that is normal. But leave your bitterness towards black women out of it.
And if you feel that the black woman you are dealing with is not worthy of being the mother of your child, then exert some self control.

If you do not have the mental capacity to do so, use a condom with spermicide. You can also start taking neem oil on a regular basis. Even better, just have a vasectomy. There is plenty you and your brethren can do to exert personal responsibility in the situation.

If men are to be leaders, then there should be no issues with leading by example in the area of personal responsibility. And if black men in particular want to be leaders, then they must learn to stop downing black women and putting whites on a pedestal at every available opportunity. You will never get respect as a man when you don't make the world respect your women. You can run to the arms of others if you want, but the fact remains the same.

You were the picture of civility and maturity throughout the thread...what happened, are you a fraud or did my post hit some nerve ?

Apparently you stopped reading at the bolded and missed where I acknowledged the health concerns for all races...but let's put that and your off base attacks aside and focus on some solutions found in one of your links:

Natural Birth Control Alternatives

There are many safe and effective contraceptives to consider:

• Male Condoms: At a 98% effectiveness rate, they are nearly as effective as the pill.
• Female Condoms: While these are not as familiar to most people, female condoms are 95% effective and are less likely to tear than male condoms. It consists of a small pouch that fits inside the vagina before sex.
• Diaphragms: These must be fitted by a doctor and are 92-98% effective at preventing pregnancy. They are thin, soft rubber mounted on a ring which are inserted into the upper part of the vagina to cover the cervix and act as a barrier to sperm.
• Cervical Cap: This is a heavy rubber cap that fits tightly over the cervix. It must be put into place by a doctor and can be left in place for 48 hours. These have a 91% effectiveness.
• Natural Family Planning/Fertility Awareness: A great method for the female to track her natural cycle, identify times of fertility, treat premenstrual symptoms and evaluate the effects of stress.
• Calendar Method: Abstention from sex during the week the woman is ovulating. This technique works best when a woman’s menstrual cycle is very regular. The calendar method doesn’t work very well for couples who use it by itself (about a 75 percent success rate), but it can be effective when combined with the temperature and mucus methods described below.
• Temperature method: This is a way to pinpoint the day of ovulation so that sex can be avoided for a few days before and after. It involves taking the basal body temperature (your temperature upon first waking) each morning with an accurate “basal” thermometer, and noting the rise in temperature that occurs after ovulation.
• Illness or lack of sleep can change body temperature and make this method unreliable by itself, but when it is combined with the mucus method, it can be an accurate way of assessing fertility. The two methods combined can have a success rate as high as 98 percent.
• Mucus method: This involves tracking changes in the amount and texture of vaginal discharge, which reflect rising levels of estrogen in the body. For the first few days after your period, there is often no discharge, but there will be a cloudy, tacky mucus as estrogen starts to rise. When the discharge starts to increase in volume and becomes clear and stringy, ovulation is near. A return to the tacky, cloudy mucus or no discharge means that ovulation has passed.

Putting aside male condoms, which most women equally hate (if not more) and it's something literally out of their hands...are most Black females using these other natural BC methods? Going by statistics...no.

I focus on Black females because well, i'm Black...and Black females (along with Hispanics) have the most unintended pregnancies and lowest BC usage.

 

[Queen]

You were the picture of civility and maturity throughout the thread...what happened, are you a fraud or did my post hit some nerve ?

Apparently you stopped reading at the bolded and missed where I acknowledged the health concerns for all races...but let's put that and your off base attacks aside and focus on some solutions found in one of your links:

Putting aside male condoms, which most women equally hate (if not more) and it's something literally out of their hands...are most Black females using these other natural BC methods? Going by statistics...no.

I focus on Black females because well, i'm Black...and Black females (along with Hispanics) have the most unintended pregnancies and lowest BC usage.

Yes, any post that downs black women while putting whites on a pedestal will strike a nerve with me. There is nothing fraudulent about that.

Furthermore, I don't like when people are uneducated about a subject, yet make strong assertions. Hormonal birth control is dangerous - period. Therefore it is very ignorant to be so flippant about valid health concerns.

You and your bro that you @ were not trying to be inspirational or solve problems. Your quote set the stage for disrespect, and the person you @ came right in and closed the deal.

Statistically I don't know what black women are doing. On one hand they are baby murderers killing all their unborn children with so many abortions, but then the next day they are having the most kids out of wedlock to trap men. So "statistics" are filth to me.

If you are a black man, how does that benefit you to put other women on a pedestal? It doesn't matter what your dating preferences are. Black men will never be respected if they do not respect, protect, and provide for black women. As long as the world sees no issue with disrespecting black women, they will see no issue with disrespecting the men as well.

If you are a man, and you see a problem, then solve it. If you feel that black women do not use birth control and it causes unwanted pregnancies - then man up and solve the problem on your end. Why are you waiting for women? Get a vasectomy. Are you scared? Then don't have sex. Do you lack self control? Then put on a condom and spermicide. Are you afraid that she won't sex you then? Then man up and decide if having an orgasm is more important than being smart.

As a man there is plenty that you can do to encourage responsibility among your brethren that does not involve publicly disrespecting black women.

 

[Woodwerkz]

Or the guy could wear a condom and if the woman objects then don't stick your dikk in her

Or a woman could wear a condom also...or a diaphragm. If both parties protect themselves then we wouldn't be having this issue. The problem is that most people love spontaneity and the problem with that is...well not too many people are smashing in the shower or suddenly with a condom or whatever readily available. But the solution is really...abstinence or celibacy until marriage. But you want to know the flaw with that...people still grow apart and relationships fail and if children are involved then we are still having this convo.

Kids are not cheap.

Your son requires more than $700/month: food, clothes, housing, utils, health insurance, transportation, edu, entertainment, etc. Do you expect to pay for his undergraduate tuition?

Children are not cheap. :-D

With a competent mate children aren't that much of a financial burden. They get expensive solo but even then you adjust and can make it work fine. The avg. cost for a middle class upbringing for a child is about $310k over 18 yrs. If the other parent is dropping about $700/mth also for the child then guess how much that is for a child combined over 18 yrs? $302400 ...which isn't that far off of that amount. But be honest...not counting day care cost...how many people are spending about $17,000 a year/ child? And most people don't just flat out pay for their kids to go to college without some loans, grants, and scholarship. Now think about it from an aspect of how a lot of type of custodial parent the man is complaining about doesn't even make $20,000.

 

[Clark Wayne]

Are white female bodies that dramatically different than Black female bodies?

Because you would be hard pressed to find a sexually active white chick that's not on birth control and they appear fine. But the way y'all tell it, a Black female going on BC is an automatic death sentence or damn near torture . While it's true some females (of any race) are at risk for health problems...this sounds more like wild fear mongering and shifting of the responsibility of birth control exclusively to males.

@marcuz got it right, more (Black) women should embrace and use the many BC options available to them.

I didn't want to bring this up because I usually avoid these type of threads but this is the truth. White girls pop BC like tic tacs and have no issues. Asian girls too. Seem like Black Women be the mains one with an issue in regards to BC

 

[Colicat]

I didn't want to bring this up because I usually avoid these type of threads but this is the truth. White girls pop BC like tic tacs and have no issues. Asian girls too. Seem like Black Women be the mains one with an issue in regards to BC

Be stuck on stupid brehs

 

[Amy Traphouse]

Be stuck on stupid brehs

He failed to mention the black man's aversion to condom, vasectomies, and spermicide too.

I mean...since we're playing the blame game and all

 

[heart]

Fukk child support!!!

It's cheaper to keep her