Child Support rant :wow:

[Ronnie Lott]

Yes condoms can break, just like hormonal bc can fail. there are always risks. If you're worried about someone poking holes in them, bring your own.

As far as feeling, well, that's an unfortunate side effect.

My point is just that these are the options we have for preventing pregnancy. You use what you have at your disposal. If you don't want to use them, fine, just acknowledge the risks you are taking and take responsibility for it. it takes two to tango.

That's like a black person getting beat down by the cops for selling cigarettes, speeding, or sagging their pants.

You actually have people that justify that black persons beating by saying, "you shoulda pulled your pants up"

"You shouldn't have been selling cigarettes"

"If you weren't listening to that rap music, then the police wouldn't have beat you"

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

That dude is probably paying like $100 a month in child support and probably only sees his kids once a month yet whining like a little bytch about it.

I know those types.

This one guy never saw his kid, barely talked to him on the phone and probably gave like $100 every few months when the mother had to practically beg him for help. She got fed up and put his ass on child support and he has the nerve to call her bytching about it cause now his silly ass is paying over $300 a month .

He screaming the same shyt about taking care of his kid too. Yeah right! Now he pays child support, still spends no damn time with his son but talks to him on the phone a couples times a week. And this fool had the nerve to want to spend Father's Day with him. He's lucky the mother isn't vindictive and she was nice enough to drop the kid off so he could see his other family.

Men who claim "I take care of my kids" always get the side eye from me cause most of the time their asses ain't doing shyt but the bare minimum thinking it really means something.

 

[blackdahlia]

dont get me wrong, i believe in safe sex until you're with a trusted partner. but the laws need to be tweaked. women have too many options and leverage; while men have very little by comparison

I think it's b/c the bulk of the risk and work ends up on us. Real talk, in most case who usually ends up doing the bulk of the child care? And who has to carry the kid and give birth? It usually tends to be on us, which is why the laws seem to benefit us. I saw seem b/c I'm sure you could make a case either way.

But we know this is how it is. Men can either get caught up and complain or take precautions.

That's like a black person getting beat down by the cops for selling cigarettes, speeding, or sagging their pants.

You actually have people that justify that black persons beating by saying, "you shoulda pulled your pants up"

"You shouldn't have been selling cigarettes"

"If you weren't listening to that rap music, then the police wouldn't have beat you"

Yeah, not the same thing at all. As a man, you can't control what cops or others do, but you can control whether you practice safe sex, whether you use condoms, and even who you sleep with.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

I think it's b/c the bulk of the risk and work ends up on us. Real talk, in most case who usually ends up doing the bulk of the child care? And who has to carry the kid and give birth? It usually tends to be on us, which is why the laws seem to benefit us. I saw seem b/c I'm sure you could make a case either way.

But we know this is how it is. Men can either get caught up and complain or take precautions.




Yeah, not the same thing at all. As a man, you can't control what cops or others do, but you can control whether you practice safe sex, whether you use condoms, and even who you sleep with.

Yes it is the same because ultimately men can't control the unfair child support system and the laws that are extremely unfair and unreasonable

 

[MrFantastic]

The women are held accountable, and so are the men. The system in place is very fair when you account for the biological differences.

 

[Red Shield]

It doesn't matter why they had the abortions, and I never made a claim as to why they should get them. Pregnancy is a health altering event which could possibly result in death or injury. As such it is purely a medical decision. As a society that let's individuals have autonomy all medical decisions will be left to the individual. It's that simple. If men could become pregnant I'd have the same stance. You don't want to be in a world where other people can dictate medical decisions for you. You wouldn't want someone to force you to get a vasectomy (though mass sterilization of the poor wouldn't be completely terrible). I haven't avoided the question at all. I already answered it. ]Males agree to become parents by virtue of having sex. If you don't want to be a parent you as male have several options (don't fukk or wrap it up).

 

[Darealtwo1]

I pay about $700 a month in child support.....



My oldest graduation is next Thursday....the worst thing in the world is dropping off the check on Friday and then your son hitting you up on Saturday cause he needs new shoes.



I had to learn the hard way.....don't get stuck with BM breh

What about college

That dependent claim on that Fasfa

4 more years

 

[street heat]

lol @ women claiming child support laws are equal and fair. i promise you on everthying if you had to make just one payment to your childs father you would lose your fukkin mind.

you have no idea what its like to work your ass off and take home half of what you earn because of taxes and CS, and still have to pay your own bills. why in the fukk should a man have to pay yours too ? this isnt the 1950s. you should get enough to take care of the child and the rest is up to you.

you bytches will claim oh you dont even spend a lot of time with your child. well thats probably because he has to work 60-70 hours a week to support your leechin ass, padding your savings account. you want it both ways. but the truth is you dont care how much time a man spends with his child as long as the checks keep rollin in

 

[bcrusaderw]

lol @ women claiming child support laws are equal and fair. i promise you on everthying if you had to make just one payment to your childs father you would lose your fukkin mind.

you have no idea what its like to work your ass off and take home half of what you earn because of taxes and CS, and still have to pay your own bills. why in the fukk should a man have to pay yours too ? this isnt the 1950s. you should get enough to take care of the child and the rest is up to you.

you bytches will claim oh you dont even spend a lot of time with your child. well thats probably because he has to work 60-70 hours a week to support your leechin ass, padding your savings account. you want it both ways. but the truth is you dont care how much time a man spends with his child as long as the checks keep rollin in

Choose better.

 

[Darealtwo1]

anybody got a re up to this video or a link....shyt was comedy

 

[mcellas]

anybody got a re up to this video or a link....shyt was comedy

His FB name is Chris Harris ill look for it when I get to the house

 

[Darealtwo1]

His FB name is Chris Harris ill look for it when I get to the house

please do!!!!!! that shyt was comedy! especially when he started stomping!!! please bruh! i need this video